Why I am on here looking for a partner when there are none looking (for real) in my area. Now I have another thought forming so ask another question fast...lol

Yep...single and stalking..lol

Saying " I can't wait to be with you" or " I want you" then after meeting " I just don't feel a connection" people, please if you have a connection online and then you meet and you change your mind ...you are lying and just showing how shallow you really are.

online a connection and off line be who you are online including your pic. Would be nice. And back up what you say.

See not every gy is an ***, this guy gets it...koodoes

some guys lie because they are insecure and others lie because the are just bad people and there are those that don't because they have nothing to gain or lose and they are happy with who they are like my self.

Well, first ask how it is then scream out some one else name that you come up with. he or she might need more excitement in the bed room like role playing or fantasies. Then there is always they are cheating and just f@#K up.

How do you find a girl that wants true love...when you are ready for that one to come into your life he or she will...True love is for ever and it only comes when you are ready to give it. we as a species of man kind are programed to attract those that have the same wants and needs like attracts like.

You can gain a lot of information about a person online. But can you really find love, Yes you can but will it last? I believe that two people can find one another and share the same interests and find common ground online. But real love the "I am in love with you " type will only come when you are in person with them. Attraction from a photo is great and the words streaming across you screen are great but the connection from meeting some one the first time after talking for so long can be anything from dam this is great we are in love to sorry I just don't feel it. so take your time find the one the holds your attention and when you meet remember everything that you learned about them online and if you want a partner that fits you and you already know he or she does then don't let the first meeting deter you from the happiness you say you are looking for.

Because you are looking the wrong way, if you are looking for looks or money or sex or what ever you real needs are in you mind your heart will never see the love that is in front of you.

LOL.. chocolate in an aphrodisiac

Well as you get older and experience love on all its levels you will realize the difference between I love you and I am in love with you. But remember that no one can make another person fall in live with you but people will say I love you just to appease.

Apsalulty we do, it is that women our age want these young bucks that for some reason are able to keep them feeling young and beautiful. Witch makes me feel like what the hell is wrong with them. I see beautiful women on here that seem do have some education and yes they may have their own place and transportation and they really don't need a man for any reason other then as a real partner and companion. But they still chase the younger man. I am waiting to see what a women will do when she does give a man our age a chance to show them real love the kind a younger guy has yet to find. A 50 year old woman and a 35 year old man really don't have as much in common as some one in you own age group so If you want a man your age then talk to them and watch them chase you. But when they do don't chase them away.

Hello Portland single , yes this is for both men and women. If you are looking for a life mate then be real and honest. If you say you want to meet or you are interested in some one , keep the focuses on them as a potential mate and not a sex object or a bank machine. I have met three women on line , I needed money, one needed sex..and she was married..still trying to understand that one and one said she wanted me then blew me off...If you want to waist time, waist your own. For those that really want to happy stop running away from it when you find it. I am a great guy as there are many out there. If you want to be happy start right now by writing down what you want, what you are willing to deal with and what you wont deal with.Then post that as your date add and the person best suited for you will find you and when they do stope bull shitting with all the others that have nothing yo want or need for a relationship to start and survive.

I am thinking that as much as a man try's to do the right thing when it comes to being a women's dream man it is never going to be good enough. I wish women would realize if they don't want to grow old alone that they might want to start being more realistic.

" I love you" is use so often in vain. You can say I love you and mean anything like as a friend or like when some one makes you laugh when you guard is down or even worse just because they said it. But when you know, really know down to your core that she or he is the one and you know that you are "In Love" Then there is no answer to when but when your ready go for it...they have the right to know and you deserve to know if they feel the same so you don't waist your time with some one that really isn't the one.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres...And is forever.

Because they where boys once.

I would be happy to pray for him, what is his name?

I think that the word love is missed used often. "I love you" can be taken and given in so many ways, but "I am in Love with you" puts the person in the light that they are committing to an unadulterated, non-conditional forever though it all till the end position. So if that person does not give 100% into the relationship and they don't put their partner first and they should sway... that doesn't diminish the idea that love is real it just makes that person a liar.