Hello Portland single , yes this is for both men and women. If you are looking for a life mate then be real and honest. If you say you want to meet or you are interested in some one , keep the focuses on them as a potential mate and not a sex object or a bank machine. I have met three women on line , I needed money, one needed sex..and she was married..still trying to understand that one and one said she wanted me then blew me off...If you want to waist time, waist your own. For those that really want to happy stop running away from it when you find it. I am a great guy as there are many out there. If you want to be happy start right now by writing down what you want, what you are willing to deal with and what you wont deal with.Then post that as your date add and the person best suited for you will find you and when they do stope bull shitting with all the others that have nothing yo want or need for a relationship to start and survive.