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Topic: please is it good to fall inlove wit som1 on socia sites?
447053843669's photo
Sun 09/29/13 10:33 AM
please i want to no because guys keep on sayin i love i love on socia site,can you really love a person who you have not seen in physical?

massiel's photo
Sun 09/29/13 11:01 AM
I believe it's possible. I've heard of people falling in love with someone's personality before meeting them physically.

447053843669's photo
Sun 09/29/13 11:15 AM
is it advisable?plz som1 tell me because i dont no what to say to all my male friends on socia site any more they are just on my nerve

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 09/29/13 11:17 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sun 09/29/13 11:19 AM
Well, quite easy: Do you love them? Would be weird as "them" is plural, but still.

If you don't love one of them, or aren't in love with one of them, the problem is solved. (You just tell him/them: sorry, I don't feel that way)

If you ARE in love with one of them, you've answered your own question.

447053843669's photo
Sun 09/29/13 11:28 AM
Well what i belive is that love begins wit feelings,and how can you have feelings for person when is not wit you?

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Sun 09/29/13 11:29 AM
use the "block" option always , that may reduce the number of those silly lovers to the minimum

sparkyae5's photo
Sun 09/29/13 11:32 AM
to 4470 etc.......most words on social level are just that....words.....6% are words from the persona [the part we show the world] the other 94% is voice tones,,,,,body language.....they are all left out...............you really want to see how a person really is observe them around close friends and family,,,they know the short cuts to push each others buttons....i believe safety around people is biggest issue,, i don't mean just physical safety it includes emotional safety.....like anger when a person dumps anger on another they are not loving them...........love is a core behavior..caring about others feeling,wants, and needs as much as your own...ps.. the ones that do,,something magical happens,,,,they experience joy deep in there hearts....smile2

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Sun 09/29/13 11:36 AM
You can't really get to know someone until you've met them in real life, it's one thing to talk to someone online and the phone, exchange photos, even video chat if you want to, but until you've been around someone in person, you do not know them.

You don't know their little quirks, what pisses them off, what makes them happy, they treat their friends and family, how they react to certain behaviors, etc. So yeah, you can really really like someone you've encountered online, but I do not believe it's possible to love them.

JMO

447053843669's photo
Sun 09/29/13 11:42 AM
tanks paintecard! Thats correct

massiel's photo
Sun 09/29/13 11:43 AM
Edited by massiel on Sun 09/29/13 11:45 AM

is it advisable?plz som1 tell me because i dont no what to say to all my male friends on socia site any more they are just on my nerve


Advisable? No advice can tell you if you love someone. If they are getting on your nerves then you obviously have no feelings towards them, so just tell them you don't feel the same or block them. Only you would know whether you have feelings or not.

Good luckflowerforyou

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Sun 09/29/13 11:44 AM
Well I just looked at your profile and straight away I saw the words: "Love me... blah blah blah". Women, I don't know.

saxdreams's photo
Mon 09/30/13 12:50 AM
s if u heart says to fall u cant esitate....

shegoat's photo
Mon 09/30/13 01:29 AM
Good and bad..

goodluckujunwa's photo
Mon 09/30/13 01:36 AM
Edited by goodluckujunwa on Mon 09/30/13 01:41 AM
Yes...is very possible....bcos love is very important in everyday life..u can see a cloth from far or a car...you just say I love this...this is mind set that has captured that feelings...know that it is a selfless issue ok...we need to give someone chance to express the word love he has for each other ok..love requires no fear but requires committement and attention....cheers.

447053843669's photo
Mon 09/30/13 04:37 AM
tanx friends,but i always do some dangerious tin when i got angry wit dem...i just destroy their device

loovedoove's photo
Mon 09/30/13 05:41 AM
The answer to the topic question is no.

You may think you are in love because maybe you are really vulnerable for whatever reason and so are quite a few people on this site including myself. But that does not mean I cannot make smart decisions. I know that eventually I have to go, in a safe environment, meet that person. Once I do that both of us have to make the decision to go forward or not but even then there is still great risks involved just like in any relationship.

bobbylistic's photo
Mon 09/30/13 05:53 AM
love...no one knows where to find it...evry1 definition is different...fallin in love on social website its ok by me 4 so many reasons...

ImortalKnight's photo
Mon 09/30/13 05:59 PM
You can gain a lot of information about a person online. But can you really find love, Yes you can but will it last? I believe that two people can find one another and share the same interests and find common ground online. But real love the "I am in love with you " type will only come when you are in person with them. Attraction from a photo is great and the words streaming across you screen are great but the connection from meeting some one the first time after talking for so long can be anything from dam this is great we are in love to sorry I just don't feel it. so take your time find the one the holds your attention and when you meet remember everything that you learned about them online and if you want a partner that fits you and you already know he or she does then don't let the first meeting deter you from the happiness you say you are looking for.

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Mon 09/30/13 07:21 PM

tanx friends,but i always do some dangerious tin when i got angry wit dem...i just destroy their device


why could you not have feelings for someone you have talked with
a while? Not love but some Connection or enjoyment out of talking to
them or why would you? It doesn't sound like you should talk to them,
It sounds like its just a time filler and someone you can be mean too,it doesn't sound very mature and that's pretty sad
coming from me
the guys seem to like you, it must be that bad girl image'
You no with the inmate number..what do you mean "destroy
Their device" that sounds painful?

201514's photo
Wed 10/02/13 12:30 PM
yes!! There is nothing wrong with u falling in love with someone online but u just have to be vry careful and make sure the persons is 4real b4 u give them d full keys to ur heart.

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