I'm new here. I guess I have a different question: why are there so many guys on here only wanting a hook up???? Soooo frustrating. I have gotten more requests on this site for boob shots than I ever have in my life. Ridiculous really!!!

I can relate. I just ended a relation ship for the fifth time with a guy I met on this website back in March. I genuinely love this man but his living situation isn't ideal and I would have to move two hours away from my young adult son. I think about this guy all the time and love him very much but keep falling away because of what I've mentioned above. All I can say is that you should cast your hook back into the pond because there are lots of fish not just that one. Keep busy and try to focus on others, maybe some casual datingfor a while until you can get past this guy.

I don't think you are bisexual, I think you are bi-curious. But I guarantee it is not worth your marriage. Be honest with your wife about what you are going thru. You owe her that and she does not deserve the pain of betrayal from you going out behind her back. Talk with her.