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I am in an LDR, he is in Louisiana and I am in Maryland. He has asked me to marry him and soon, we will be making plans for him to re-locate Congrats! That is really good news! |
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So here is my ponderance; How many people would be willing to initiate or accept initiation from a person that lives in a different state (or country) as yourself? And if you did, would you be willing to relocate? Second; If you met someone locally and were dating, then either you or they moved out of state indefinately, would you stay with them and wait till they came back or would you relocate with them if you could? I would stay and wait or go with, depending what my life at the time would let me do. I am actually in a long term relationship now (She lives 2 states away) with a lady whom I met online, not on a dating site but a game of all places. I planned on starting a new business in the near future so why not in her home town? We see each other once a month and if we're both strong enough to keep doing that as long as it takes to be together, I think we have a winner. That's awesome! I like the "see each other once a month" thing, but that would be difficult sometimes too. evvery once in awhile I just a hankerin to see my man and if he were two states away then the immediate urge to snuggle would be out of the question... :-) We have something special planned closer to the holidays and we're going to spend 4 days alone in a train cabin traveling coast to coast in the spring. We're planning vacations together. Long distance relationships can work well if one does'nt depend on the their partner and both people work equally hard at seeing each other and one day more. I plan on dating her once I'm near her. Do things the right way etc. Right now our webcams sure get alot of use lol WEBCAMS!! UH OH!! Gotta love webcams! |
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Topic:
Matchmaking Game - part 140
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So they say the first step is to admit you have a problem right? SO now what? besides pervishness can't be all bad right?????
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Topic:
Matchmaking Game - part 140
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hi people 
Howdy Star... you hop over here to give us your cold too? :-)) |
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Topic:
Matchmaking Game - part 140
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Hi my name is BabyFace,
and I'm a perv....... |
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Topic:
Matchmaking Game - part 140
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Sounds like fun Feral! The word on the streets is that you work magic around here! Sooo let's see what ya got.. :-) I just perved your profile, somebody else is on here from your neck of the woods. Can't think who it is just yet. UMMMMM What does "perved your profile" mean???? I've seen that one before but still don't get it... :-( I wanna get it too!! :-)))) And she perved me back. That's a considerate person! 
*blushing* I didn't know! I didn't know! I'm not a PERV... well maybe a little, I'm just not used to being caught publicly!!! HA HA HA HA HA |
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Topic:
Matchmaking Game - part 140
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Sounds like fun Feral! The word on the streets is that you work magic around here! Sooo let's see what ya got.. :-) I just perved your profile, somebody else is on here from your neck of the woods. Can't think who it is just yet. UMMMMM What does "perved your profile" mean???? I've seen that one before but still don't get it... :-( I wanna get it too!! :-)))) He just meant he looked at your profile. OHHHHHH - *light bulb comes on* thanks nice lady!! :-) |
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Topic:
Matchmaking Game - part 140
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Sounds like fun Feral! The word on the streets is that you work magic around here! Sooo let's see what ya got.. :-) I just perved your profile, somebody else is on here from your neck of the woods. Can't think who it is just yet. UMMMMM What does "perved your profile" mean???? I've seen that one before but still don't get it... :-( I wanna get it too!! :-)))) |
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my opinion is dont get to involved with them if the person lives to far then you dont have to worry about it. 
Well I was just wondering because I have seen many profiles of people that seem like they would be a pretty decent match but they of coarse are always out of state! very frustrating! I have lived in my area my entire life and obviously meeting someone local isn't workin so well for me... So I guess I mean to say I have contemplated how far (literally) I would be willing to go for "TRUE LOVE" |
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So here is my ponderance; How many people would be willing to initiate or accept initiation from a person that lives in a different state (or country) as yourself? And if you did, would you be willing to relocate? Second; If you met someone locally and were dating, then either you or they moved out of state indefinately, would you stay with them and wait till they came back or would you relocate with them if you could? I would stay and wait or go with, depending what my life at the time would let me do. I am actually in a long term relationship now (She lives 2 states away) with a lady whom I met online, not on a dating site but a game of all places. I planned on starting a new business in the near future so why not in her home town? We see each other once a month and if we're both strong enough to keep doing that as long as it takes to be together, I think we have a winner. That's awesome! I like the "see each other once a month" thing, but that would be difficult sometimes too. evvery once in awhile I just a hankerin to see my man and if he were two states away then the immediate urge to snuggle would be out of the question... :-) |
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So here is my ponderance; How many people would be willing to initiate or accept initiation from a person that lives in a different state (or country) as yourself? And if you did, would you be willing to relocate? Did the LDR thing, several times, in 2006 -- never again. Just doesn't work for me and I learned my lesson. They all intended to relocate to my state, at some point, but who they turned out to be in person, when we finally met, did not fit the "plan" as originally described. Yeah you never DO know for sure what a person will be like in a living situation when you never really knew them personally to begin with. It adds a WHOLE new dynamic/dimension to the relationship. I know it can be done successfully, but I am not sure how. I met my ex online and he lived in Morocco at the time I met him. we "dated" for over a year then I went there for a couple weeks and eight months later he came here and we got married. WOW HUGE EYE OPENER! we were only married for three years, it was DIFFICULT. |
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LD relationships can work if you have it in you to stay true to the other person. I'm in one right now, it is going to be hard, an even harder when I leave for Job-corps but he is willing to fight for the relationship an I am to. It just depends if you can trust the other person to stay true to you an how much you care bout them.
How did you meet your LDR? online? and what are your plans for the future with this person? are you going to move where he is or vice versa? |
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Topic:
Pet Peeves
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Other people's garbage in my yard/littering and they won't pick up after themselves and other people's pet's poopin in my yard! (I guess I am territorial over my yard) :-)
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Topic:
SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 9
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Single ... But hoping Miss feral is gonna hook me up! *wink wink*
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So here is my ponderance;
How many people would be willing to initiate or accept initiation from a person that lives in a different state (or country) as yourself? And if you did, would you be willing to relocate? Second; If you met someone locally and were dating, then either you or they moved out of state indefinately, would you stay with them and wait till they came back or would you relocate with them if you could? |
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Topic:
Matchmaking Game - part 140
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Sounds like fun Feral! The word on the streets is that you work magic around here! Sooo let's see what ya got.. :-)
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Well for starters, you have to feel like you ARE worth it yourself, before expecting anyone else too. Be confident in yourself and KNOW you are worth it and you will find what you are looking for.
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Thanks for the feedback! I appreciate the help!
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Okay Chef, here is my humble take on your profile;
FIRST- take out this part: <quote>I'm tired of waisting my time with girls who aren't worth it..i sick of putting time in with someone just to get dogged on and not even be friends with the people...girls have really done me dirty.<end quote> We all have had our share of dirty laundry and even though we know it's part of life we can all wait until after we meet and get to be friends to air our personal injustices. Friends don't mind being a sounding board for broken heart issues because thats how we deal with getting over it sometimes and finding the joy in the new person in our life. SECOND- I really liked your choice in pictures, it shows the interests you have well, but I personally would like to see at least one with you smiling, you have great eyes and I am sure they would shine when you are smiling! I think it was pretty good, just a couple teeny tiny things... :-) |
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Topic:
A Weighted Issue
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When it comes to men, I like em thick and stocky with a little pudgin and belly fur *grin*. The hard bodies are hot to admire but the thick furry ones are MO BETTA to cuddle with! As a chubby chick myself I haven't had alot of trouble finding men that appreciate fluff and curves, it's just finding the one I wanna keep that's the problem! I think dating problems are more from personality clashes than weight issues.
Don't fret my pet! you are cute and your weight won't matter when the RIGHT one comes along! Smile and BBBEEEEEE yourself, you'll find him!! |
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