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There is nothing we could say to you that will make your pain go away. However, I still want to tell you that your faith in God will bring you peace eventually. You and I know deep down inside us that she is in a better place. And she left this world knowing she was loved and that you cared for her deeply. I am a breast cancer survivor myself! I was diagnosed four years ago. And I wanna tell you that even though we are sad and scared when told we have cancer, eventually we also come to terms with the fact that we are going to leave this world before we expected. Cry some more and after that act exactly in the way you would have liked her to act if you were the one who passed away. Would you like to see her suffering indefinitely because you are gone? NO AT ALL! you would want her to be happy and go ahead with her life.. Right? Smile when you think of her... Remember all the good times you both enjoyed together. Wherever she is now, give her the satisfaction of seeing you being happy.... God Bless you!

Checking in on you OP.

Hope you are feeling stronger and finding something nice to do with this new season of your life. Summer is a great time to get out and forward the leaves of comfort that have been offered to you in your sister's memory.

Summer can be a particularly hard time for those in hospitals or institutions because the holidays are not a reminder to families to GO VISIT. You could be such a blessing; just reading a book to someone, writing a letter or playing a simple bedside game; perhaps one you shared with your sis when you were kids? It is ok to enjoy child like wonder.

This all tells me that u both r very good persons from heart, I wish all good for u and RIP for her

I know it is hard to hear but "time is your friend now"
Sending warm thoughts and prayers your way

My friend if you weren't struggling with Depression right now I would be very very worried about you...

A debilitating disease is one of the things that came into my mind.. Chronic fatigue is also one of the biggest causes of depression... All I can speak of is my experience with clients and myself... I know even after the radiation and chemo treatments were over I still needed help with the depression.

im so sorry for your loss.

Sorry for you loss.

And you may want to read about the 5 stages of grief
(some sources now say 7 stages).

Keeping you in good thoughts.

I am sorry about your sister. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

I'm sorry to hear about your little sister passing. I lost my dear mother in March, all I think is our nice memories all the time.
Be strong and try to keep your mind occupied. Sending you (((hugs))) and prayers

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let me know how that works out for you

smells scammy to me


Is true...very scammy....since the first words....LOL..!!

i wonder if love does really exist and were really can i find it.

sorry to hear, you cant change what happened, but you can hold on to the good memories and focus on things that lift you up. Her spirit is still alive, you can talk to her even though she isnt physically there.. but she is where she is now, and she has moved on to her next journey

remembering how it was when my dad passed away, I know I don't have any words that can make it better right now.
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones. may she rest in peace

Very sorry you are feeling such absence for your lost loved one.

Grief has it's own clock and you will heal when that time comes.

I would encourage you to feel the spirit of your loved one around you. With such a great love as you seem to feel I doubt it is barely a hairs breadth away from you even though comfortably beyond earthly bounds and concerns.

Try to feel the peace and tranquility that transends mortal life and death and move forward on your journey here. Don't overlook the special gifts and messages that are being left for you in every smile, every cool breeze, every small success you experience because it is still shared and there to give you the strength you need. She is missing nothing and giving you so much if you will just allow it to flow in and wash away the tears and loneliness. I am convinced love does not demand suffering.

You are not being punished because you lived, or she died, it is just a different distance than when you used to look across the family table or playing as children. Have faith you are of one spirit as you always were and always will be.

Your friends send you comfort and healing.

Uh its her sister not a friend. ya ever get.feeling people pull stuff outta google and.pass it off as their own brilliance..lost my mom when I was 24 to cancer. It takes as long as it takes to heal . some days you are feeling ok and other days a memory comes back so strong feels like your guts are being ripped out all over again. I wish you peace and healing

My Advice
1. Embrace the sorrow. Sorrow is not the opposite of happiness. Sorrow can be called the “beautiful sadness” when the feeling comes from a mixture of great appreciation and extreme longing for the loved one who has passed. It takes a human being a while to adjust to major changes in the world, such as the disappearance of a major pillar of our lives.
2. Do something positive in your friend’s name. You could start a charity or a scholarship fund. Make a donation. Plant a tree or something else that you can watch grow. This can help to ease the sadness back into joy.
3. Accept the pain. You can accept the pain and give yourself time to heal, mentally and physically, and understand you need time.
4. Don’t put a timer on the pain. that is a hard one to bear. I am sorry for your loss. I can only tell you that you must deal with your grief first and don’t put a timer on it. Some of us spring back easier than others. Eventually, you’ll allow yourself to smile again, laugh and remember sweet, happier times with her.
5. Believe that everything happens for a reason. I believe that prayer is answered when we welcome everything, even the crap that life throws our way. Be strong, be happy, and be aware that everything really does happen for a reason.
6. Reading Bible and Quran is useful for both of you.

Best wishes and condolences to you and your family