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Thu 06/27/13 07:59 PM

Are you happy with how your life is right this minute? RIGHT NOW? Or do you feel you will never be happy until you meet someone? Do you believe you can choose to be happy or at least content? What if you never meet anyone? Will your life still have meaning if you live it without a mate?


I like my life right now. I actually have this fear that if I meet someone and start another relationship my life might start to suck again.

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Thu 06/27/13 07:57 PM
Edited by cmblriverman on Thu 06/27/13 07:59 PM

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Thu 06/27/13 07:57 PM
Edited by cmblriverman on Thu 06/27/13 08:01 PM

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Sat 06/22/13 10:27 PM
Edited by cmblriverman on Sat 06/22/13 10:30 PM

The poor sex partner is the one who is so self concious they can't just accept that if you are having sex with them there MUST be something redeeming about them and just accept and enjoy the experience.

Close second is the person who is still carrying the torch for someone else and you are just the substitute to them.

The worst sex partner is the one who uses sex as a power play.

lotta wisdom there

1. step up to the plate
2. be in the experience
3. give - don't just take

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Sat 06/22/13 09:57 PM



Yep. It's a shame when people can't realize their mistakes and grow as a person. It's never one person's fault entirely.


OOOhhh IDK I have been in a couple situations where it definitely was his fault period

he mustov been on drugs or w/e - it was T totally off the wall

it's important not to "blame the victim."



First time...you're a victim.

Second time...you are part of the problem.

JMO.


what about the third and fourth time?

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Sat 06/22/13 09:52 PM
there's also poetic justice; maybe she'll trade him in.

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Sat 06/22/13 09:46 PM

Thank god for youtube and their step by step videos.

Finally learning to communicate with women is as easy as learning how to build a kitchen shelf and make a kite with household items.

For the youtube challenged there is also the "For Dummies" version, as well as the connect the dots and color book that explains everything with Disney characters.



very well spoken lol

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Sat 06/22/13 09:43 PM


There are pleny men, who know how to communicate with women.


I don't agree, most will communicate as long as it takes for them to get what they want and they will adapt their communication style to obtain it

and that would be sex

then 1 of 2 things happens - they stop communicating because they got what they want

or they stop communicating because u are smarter than they are and they fianlly figured that out (dummies) that they aren't gonna get it...so they just move on to the next victim

I 'm seeing it happen right now before my eyes yet tonight

someones having sex right here?

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Sat 06/22/13 09:30 PM
study body language - most women are astute at it; most men don't have a clue
also women put more merit in how they feel about something than anything else - which doesn't leave out logic, if its logical but doesn't feel right then its no good. It may be illogical but 'feels right' that may be good, may not be, depends how right it feels. Intuition is everything to most women. So if you can get your head around intuition and body language they make a lot more sense.

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Sat 06/22/13 07:35 PM
Edited by cmblriverman on Sat 06/22/13 07:37 PM

You are in the friend zone. And, people say, a woman really wants a man who is her best friend. Many times, the Chemistry is not there.


That is the paradox she wants a man who is her best friend but her best friend is in the friend zone. So now to move from the friend zone into the hot zone and then you've got something - if that's possible.

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Sat 06/22/13 07:27 PM


I dunno dude, sounds like she has already made the call.


I'm not even going to read what people wrote, this quote is what I had in mine right away
and at a glance down the page I see another sort sweet one.

You can tell a woman but you can't tell her much..lol.no seriously if you were able to baffle her with
Bull Sh* it would be short lived your not her chose or preference.
don't ya know man! womam pick.
I herd you talkin about Vancouver island? I'm guessing your weren't raised there.
Peace out

Women don't always pick, some guys have lots of women to pick from and same the other way. Women love to be pursued, properly that is, even if she says no it still feels good to have the option. As long as its not creepy.

Why do you guess I wasn't raised on the island?

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Sat 06/22/13 07:21 PM


Well this is the good one that got away so I have to try at least once.


bless ur heart

I can think of a couple guys who I wish had the heart to get in touch and try again (daggone puzzies)

hope she realizes how speshal you are - most guys would just walk awayflowerforyou

good luck

Awe thanks that's encouraging. I've only been in contact with her a short time and we hit it off very well. I know I'm going to do something. Make it or break it. I'm just bouncing it off you guys to make sure I have a good perspective on things. I probably only have one shot so I want to make it a good one. Then if she doesn't accept I can move on. I don't think I can move on always wondering what if.

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Sat 06/22/13 07:02 PM


I guess Im going to have to be a pioneer in breaking through the vast open void 'friend wasteland' lol.


Ask yourself why you want a chick who does NOT consider you to be the sexiest stud muffin in the universe? I think every guy should be with a woman who sees him that way. Someone who asks you to check the air in the tires just so she can see your firm apple like butt as you kneel down with the pressure gauge. Come on, don't you think you are worth that???

You have to be careful if someone idolizes you too much, you'll eventually let them down and they may turn out to be a very unstable person.

I have girls half my age want to go out with me, I don't want that I want to spend my days with my best friend.

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Sat 06/22/13 07:01 PM


I guess Im going to have to be a pioneer in breaking through the vast open void 'friend wasteland' lol.


Ask yourself why you want a chick who does NOT consider you to be the sexiest stud muffin in the universe? I think every guy should be with a woman who sees him that way. Someone who asks you to check the air in the tires just so she can see your firm apple like butt as you kneel down with the pressure gauge. Come on, don't you think you are worth that???

You have to be careful if someone idolizes you too much, you'll eventually let them down and they may turn out to be a very unstable person.

I have girls half my age want to go out with me, I don't want that I want to spenmy best friend to spend tou rest of

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Sat 06/22/13 06:57 PM
Well this is the good one that got away so I have to try at least once.

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Sat 06/22/13 06:45 PM

Be Careful.

If it weas me and I had said that you where a great friend thats exactly what I would mean, I would feel really bad if someone who was my friend tried to hit on me.
I would probably laugh it off and act like i thought it was a joke . But it would make me uncomfortable..


We used to be lovers but I screwed it up. We do have a very close relationship already. I think I need to build trust and wait for the right moment.

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Sat 06/22/13 06:40 PM
I guess Im going to have to be a pioneer in breaking through the vast open void 'friend wasteland' lol.

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Sat 06/22/13 06:20 PM
Edited by cmblriverman on Sat 06/22/13 06:22 PM

That's a nice song.. it's actually more like this to me

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ul-cZyuYq4


Lyrics
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/fleetwoodmac/goyourownway.html

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Sat 06/22/13 06:15 PM
I'm single and she's on dating sites too.

I dunno she made the call is true. I guess even a true friend doesn't withhold stuff that important, I could go find someone else but she is a perfect match already for me, we are good friends after all for that reason. I guess it doesn't hurt to put it out there. rejection is no big deal the thing I don't want though is for her to be uncomfortable with me after the rejection.

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Sat 06/22/13 05:51 PM
It because I was with somebody else, she had began seeing someone else and want to continue being friends with me, so I was doing that then I met someone and my new gf didn't like me being 'friends' with my old gf so I stopped seeing the old one.

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