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Wed 10/01/14 06:01 AM


I've been inlove and get hurt so badly and though it's been a while I still can't fully move on.
Can somebody tell me the ways to move on? I wud really apprrciate your help.




Denial is the fastest way to move onward...

Right! Deny it! :)

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Wed 10/01/14 05:59 AM


Pretend they never existed soon it will feel that way.Could be bad advice but works like a charm for me.

Worked for me too.
Get really busy until you get used to not having that person around.

I've been always telling this myself, and actually it really works..
Thank A lot!!

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Mon 09/22/14 01:56 AM
Edited by anit0128 on Mon 09/22/14 01:59 AM
Thanks for all your nice comments.. It really helps me think positively :)

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Sun 09/21/14 11:36 PM
I know most of traveller are men but I always want to travel and I wanna start it around the country. You think it's not dangerous for a woman to travel alone?

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Wed 09/17/14 03:25 AM

The first thing to stop remembering anything u want to forget is by identifying all possiblities that may lead you to keep up with that idea/person. Than make sure u do ur homework by removing those chances/possibilities as much as u can do, start by deleting all contacts information u have about that person from ur system, name it facebook, twitter, whatsapp, skype, email, mingle, home address, phone number, photos, stop visiting places that remind you of that person/idea. If those still did not help, add more work hours and find a replacement for that person. Perhaps take a holiday abroad, could give u a broader aspect of view that might help u to forget the person. Could be a little harder if u already remember his or her contact info in your head. Anyway, it is a matter of someone choise in life, to move on or not. Perhaps u just have not find a reason to move on yet.

Good luck to you my friend :)


Thank you that was a great advice.. :)

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Wed 09/10/14 09:05 PM
Trust me when I say that the greatest revenge is when you show that people who hurt you that you are so much better without them, be successful in your own way.. show them how happy you are without them.. Especially, MAKE THEM REGRETFUL FOR LOSING/HURTING SOMEONE LIKE YOU.

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Wed 09/10/14 08:46 PM

Welcome me back MINGLE


You sure are demanding! You aren't the boss of me! Oh... okay (said in a reluctant muffled voice) welcome back.

Just kidding, welcome back into the fold, have fun. :smile:


Thanks :)

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Mon 09/08/14 08:00 AM
THanks :smile:

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Sun 09/07/14 11:23 PM

Welcome back and good luck in your search.


Well, I just love the forums here..not searching for anybody here :)
btw thanks!

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Sun 09/07/14 11:13 PM
Wow I can't believe it's been a year since the last time I visited mingle.

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Sun 09/07/14 10:59 PM
Thanks for all your response..I have actually moved on but there is still part of my heart that is missing till now..
I have been really busy at work, church and family..
It's really hard when you give your heart to a wrong person..
But, time heals..Though the memories remain..

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Thu 03/13/14 06:46 AM


Be successful? Best revenge I find is to let that person know, that you can do a LOT better without them!


The best present you can give yourself is to forgive someone. "Hatred is an acid that does more damage to the container it is stored in than to anything it is poured on"
Count your blessings, I am sure you have plenty.
Abe Lincoln "Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be"

You both are right, and yes I'll be successful and it's happening now..I let go of everything even my hatred and one day I woke and feel the joy in my heart..
Yes instead of revenge I consider it doing myself a favor not for the intension of hurting him whatsoever.^^

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Wed 03/05/14 07:06 PM

You just gotta redirect that love until you meet your next romantic interest. Do nice things for others, friends and strangers alike. You'll feel good inside and their expressions of gratitude will fill that void you are experiencing. Besides, is there a sexier person than a gracious and happy one. Any bitterness, anger, or loneliness you are feeling will melt away with each smile you put on another's face. Try it, it'll work. I promise.

I will! Thanks!

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Tue 02/25/14 07:21 PM


I've been inlove and get hurt so badly and though it's been a while I still can't fully move on.
Can somebody tell me the ways to move on? I wud really apprrciate your help.

What i like to do is Get Away...Go somewhere you always wanted to go, or never been before! Refresh you mind, body, and spirit

I did this and it works thank you!

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Tue 02/25/14 07:19 PM

Sometimes sorting out if you are grieving the person you really lost or the one you "hoped" they were? Makes letting go easier. You can then go about finding the one you thought they were; in a new and better person.

Good people exist. You have to be picky where you look. And you have to up the odds of meeting people by pushing yourself to connect on some level with at least 1-3 new people a day. Practice makes perfect.

Good Luck
Thank you^^

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Tue 02/25/14 07:16 PM

in time you will move on but you will never forget . the best thing you can do is just be yourself and keep busy doing things that make you happy..as for the fastest way well there is no fast way unless your one that falls in love to easy and then you will forget the other one...

I love your advice.

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Thu 02/13/14 07:28 AM

:) Hang in there! There's never a faster way unless you purchase a 1way ticket moving abroad. That's just cowarding out by running away. Deal with the cards that has been dealt. You'll gradually get through it. With moral support from family & peers, this will only mend the wounds slowly. Hardest part if you want a speedy recovery is to forgive & move on. I know it's not gonna happened overnight but you'll get there. Best of luck!

Thank you.

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Thu 02/06/14 04:52 PM

I think that they just want to see your boobies. Nobody ever asks me to SKYPE.

tsk tsk hate that fact!

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Thu 02/06/14 04:35 PM

I went thru this just a little while back, I done the final divorce in 99 and left and moved out here where i am now...and just about three months ago she shows up on my facebook page.... Now I loved this woman more then life its self and she kept playing her game till I almost pulled the trigger on my life...... i had to get her out of my life all over again............

sorry to hear that, we should learn to love ourselves first before others..

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Thu 02/06/14 04:31 PM

Been there. When I told my ex that I didn't think that we should keep seeing each other she still showed up at my door again as if nothing had changed. After I snubbed her a few times she left me alone. Five years later I did make friends with her again and we talked about it. I guess that she didn't realise how much she had hurt me and how upsetting that it was to be around her after what had happened between us. She didn't believe that I did love her apparently. She told me that she was hurt that I didn't want to be friends anymore but I wanted more than that. Now we are friends again and we are both happy with it being that way. It was good to talk about the relationship but I just felt that I couldn't do that for all that time because it had always been on and off and talking about it just kept rekindling it and we kept going round and round in circles.

Good to hear your story, I know my ex will be a good friend to me but now I don't want any disturbance from him..I told him I still need time to forget him and he respect that. Now, I'm doing great I find some ways to have fun and appreciate the people and things I have that I didn't see when my world was him.

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