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Thu 06/06/13 01:51 PM
Ahh thanks Leigh explode I am a bit of a time bomb right now - but its gonna get better.

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Thu 06/06/13 01:48 PM
Feeling a bit better today - making plans to get out of this city & move far far away!

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Thu 06/06/13 01:46 PM
I'm pretty crafty & I love to cook flowerforyou

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Thu 06/06/13 01:42 PM
Where's the "like" button!

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Thu 06/06/13 01:28 PM

Time to file for a divorce!!


It's been really tough because I love him dearly. But I know I can't trust him, and so it is.

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Thu 06/06/13 01:19 PM
There is a huge difference in having just a friend. Friends don't get hidden. When a spouse hides, lies, deletes text - something is wrong.

Not to mention they become bonded in the play and it moves very quickly into sexting.

It's destroyed our marriage & yet he does not have anyone to got to because it was all a game.

And I agree it is emotional abuse.

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Thu 06/06/13 06:55 AM
My husband (were separated) cheated multiple times with emotional cheating. Long talks & all day long text back and forth.

My perspective is that it takes away from the bond of our marriage if he's giving another woman his attention. He makes withdrawal's from our marriage but no deposits - he kinda checks out when in this mode.

What's your thoughts on this?

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Wed 06/05/13 11:09 AM

Hi...my name is Areti..i am 44. I have been messaging someone here on mingle and then i got to chatting to them on yahoo...it has been going on for a few months....I really got attatched to this person emotionally...& mentally....to the point that i had sent money overseas...STUPID !!!!!...ME!!!!!!!!!.......then when the person kept regularly asking me for more money when they knew i did not have any more to give...i said i cannot give anymore the person got angry and upset...even swore at me!...and told me not to chat to them anymore...that ALL JUST HAPPENED YESTERDAY!!!!......Now i have woken up and know NEVER TO GIVE MONEY!!...EVER!!!!!!.......I am very carefull now who i mingle with......it has somewhat put me off......


This is my first day here & I'm glad I'm looking around and getting some great advice! Lesson learned today - No money to anyone! Whew!!!

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Wed 06/05/13 11:00 AM
Ahhh the ones that take your breath away! I miss those!!

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Wed 06/05/13 10:42 AM
Perfectly stated Leigh!

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Wed 06/05/13 10:17 AM
Thanks for the warm welcome & wishes!

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Wed 06/05/13 09:24 AM
Hi Renee, nice to meet you!

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Wed 06/05/13 08:33 AM
And not to happy about it. But time to move on and make new friends. Hi everyone!:wink: