Me 23 can say if a men is not on point with his pickup skills he needs to train it. talking to girls in an attracting way. example: sorry Are you German? Nice i just saw you over here and thought wow such a pretty girl. Im Paul. and then i See what she dose. when she turns to me. smiles. laughts. compliments back. thats great and if she dont care or has someone allready thats also great. she is happy and I can talk to the pretty girl 10m away. and over time doing this a men loses the fear of not beeing good enough. or needing validation. what a men by the way absolutely unattractive for females makes. insted of the females choosing the least worst men for them. is it way more helpfull for relationship when the men has the quality expection and choose the the best girls he wants to spend time. this is also good for the girl he chooses. in a way. such a selfmade men and he chooses me on his side. I must be something special and need to work on myself to be the one special for him in the future. and its also good for the girls he quickly rejects. because when every men rejects drama girls they will have to think about why no men wants to spend time with them. :) remember I'm 23