when people meet they're attracted to each other and one form or another. but then when they become an item they decide to start changing each other you can't talk to them you can't talk to her you can't talk to him you can't do this anymore you can't do that anymore cuz now we're a couple so we can't do those things anymore. once you start changing the things about the person you fell in love with they are no longer the person you fell in love with but the idea of what you think they should be that's why it never works out you have to learn to accept someone exactly the way you find them do not try to define them and mold them into what you want

people judge too quickly with their eyes by what they first see and forget about the other five senses yes I said five because to touch is not the same as to feel I consider them two different senses .