back when I was married
I had an entire bookshelf
devoted to cookbooks

I used to go to estate auctions and sell stuff I bought on ebay

that is a Cambell's recipe

seems like it was a can of Cream of Chicken
and a can of Cream of Celery
about a stick of butter
rice
various pieces of chicken
mix soup and rice up
put in pan then add
can of water mixed with milk
then put in chicken
tin foil and bake


you can probably find this recipe
it's pretty common

her opinion
her orgasm
her respect

Creepy with a capital C

I got a sister in law that is lot like this..
moves in with couples to educated them on her version of spirituality
then by time they figure out she is off her nut
she has lived with them for months
ate their food, they have paid her
let her use their cars then
she moves on and does this again to the next unsuspecting shuck

back when she lived in town
guy across street who was married
used to mow her lawn for her

another guy fixed her washing machine
towed her car to get fixed

pretty much gave up a while ago now

if you are the parent? you pay

used to have quite a few on here

but not having them cuts down on scammers

English, Irish, Finnish

m son is on the spectrum
I figured this out back when he was a little guy
I have not had him tested…on purpose
my call as his mother but I did not want him to be labeled
so ..I divorced his dad when he was twelve
and then went back to school
he is now seventeen and we have worked on
understanding facial expressions, sarcasm, humor
how to deal with things without having a melt down
when his schedule changes
he has come a long way
but…no I have not dated

um I went on a few first dates that first year after my divorce
but there are some needy SOB's out there
and my time and energy went to my son and to obtaining my college degree


that was my choice and I am not sorry I made it

why hell would you invest time, effort, energy into dating someone that you have no connection with and cannot see it developing into anything long term?


sounds like a gigantic waste of time


if you are a middle aged man who is unhappy that women are not willing to just 'hang out'
then I suggest you find some friends instead

grumpy old men
are hands down sexy
my ultimate kryptonite.
oh that manly manliness
of someone with a confidence
ego..abilty to say whatever the hell he wants
that only comes with age and experience

done both in my life.
was a home owner in my twenty years of being married
lived in rental for past five since my divorce

rentals are easier when it comes to moving
less hassle


would I ever own again? I might if it is a condo

embittered , often hostile responses that are a tell tale show of the baggage someone carries around

oh I will pop in now and again to read the forums

hahaa..probably a good damn thing I am not one..

friggin double post

I disagree
if men no longer need women
and women no longer need men
then dating sites, singles ads, blind dates, hook ups, fwb's , affairs, divorce
and marriage would no longer exist



how men and women meet has changed
but the need is still alive and kicking

ya kinda like when someone makes broad sweeping generalizations about an entire gender..