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Sat 07/30/16 08:14 AM

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Sat 07/30/16 08:08 AM

I asked my brother this question not long ago

wanted a guy's perspective

he said he did not have the time or inclination

to bother with a relationship

too much work/upkeep

he still wanted a woman around


I said" ya mean like a hooker or a bar fly?"

he laughed and said the one is illegal and the other? no guarantees at end of the night"

He said he wanted someone to talk to, to tell about his day, someone who will listen to him and want to spend time with him..that he can call when he wants to even if that is not every day and someone who will set time aside to be with him


I said " like a Rent-a-wife?"

he said " ya but without the criticism"


I have found this to be true for most (not all) of the men my age. I have come to terms with the fact that it is unlikely will meet someone to be in a committed relationship with but I stay open to the idea just in case.

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Sat 07/30/16 07:59 AM
Optimistic. Things always work out for the best. Honestly, I don't say that just to cheer myself up when I'm down. I have found looking back at things, they really did work out for the best.

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Sat 07/30/16 07:57 AM
Having a cup of coffee. That first hot sip in the morning is always amazing. :coffee:

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Sat 07/30/16 07:56 AM
Seakolony! For sending me such a nice email. :smile:

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Fri 07/29/16 08:09 PM
Thank you SassyEuro2! I do like my hair short and that's why I keep it this way. I grew it out last year because the guy I was dating wanted me to grow it. ohwell

Now it's short, I'm single but happy. bigsmile

P.S. That's not why we broke up. laugh

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Fri 07/29/16 08:00 PM




It's coming up very quickly on the one year anniversary of my step son's motorcycle accident and my stroke. I can't believe it's been a year already. Toughest year I've had since 2007. But we survived and I have so much to be grateful for.

Wow I remember this well. I am so glad to hear that you both are doing so well.flowerforyou


Thank you. flowerforyou


Well Ruth, I'm really pissed off, I've always thought that I was the most popular person on Mingle, but obviously not with all those nice messages you got :cry:
I bet you're very proud of yourself, I guess I'll have to spread my wings elsewhereohwell

I am joking of course, take it easyflowers


laugh

I'm not sure how much winning a Mingle popularity contest will get you, but there's room here at the "top". Come on up and we'll be friends. flowerforyou

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Fri 07/29/16 06:08 PM
Glasses for reading

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Fri 07/29/16 06:05 PM

I am thinking its nice to have Ruth back again, apparently she has had a rough year and we all wish her the best.Life is crazy, one day you think you have problems then something happens and wow, you forget about your daily problems are at the drop of a hat.Nice to see you again Ruth, are you still listening to coast to coast am? Its open lines night tonight.


Wow. This just made me smile. I can't believe you even remember me. Lol.

I don't listen to coast to coast much because it's on too late for me. I fall asleep pretty early. But every once in a while I catch the show. Maybe I'll try tonight. I hope you are well. :blush::blue_heart:

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Fri 07/29/16 03:58 PM
Peacefully enjoy the second half of my life with someone I love and who loves me experiencing what life brings. And laughing a lot.

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Fri 07/29/16 03:28 PM
It's not so much about looking for it as it is about staying open to it.

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Fri 07/29/16 03:21 PM



Thinking ... will I do a bit more painting or not ...
Not really in the mood, but sitting around moping isn't too appealing either ...


You are too pretty to mope.

Hihi, thank you :) Just wished he was here ... And wished the sun would come back.


Well, I left you a testimonial on your page. Not the same thing but maybe it will cheer you up. :bouquet:

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Fri 07/29/16 03:17 PM

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Fri 07/29/16 03:12 PM


It's coming up very quickly on the one year anniversary of my step son's motorcycle accident and my stroke. I can't believe it's been a year already. Toughest year I've had since 2007. But we survived and I have so much to be grateful for.

Wow I remember this well. I am so glad to hear that you both are doing so well.flowerforyou


Thank you. flowerforyou

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Fri 07/29/16 02:53 PM


It's coming up very quickly on the one year anniversary of my step son's motorcycle accident and my stroke. I can't believe it's been a year already. Toughest year I've had since 2007. But we survived and I have so much to be grateful for.


God Bless You, Ruth! flowerforyou


:tulip:

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Fri 07/29/16 02:11 PM
Everyone has a different opinion on long or short hair. Just wear your hair the way you like it.

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Fri 07/29/16 01:10 PM
It's coming up very quickly on the one year anniversary of my step son's motorcycle accident and my stroke. I can't believe it's been a year already. Toughest year I've had since 2007. But we survived and I have so much to be grateful for.

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Fri 07/29/16 11:33 AM
Any witches or spell casters here?

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Fri 07/29/16 11:11 AM

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Fri 07/29/16 10:18 AM


Michiganman3 and Lilypetal have been together for 7 yrs now. We met face to face the first time July 6 2009.

Chasing your record :-)
Met here 11/09.
'Engaged' each other 7/7/10.
First visit (to me) 6/11, 2nd, 10/11.
Krupa moved here 8/12.
Coming up on 7 years :-)


You've been inspiring me for years. :cherry_blossom::cherry_blossom::cherry_blossom:

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