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Wed 10/29/08 10:28 PM
I have seen a situation where a man was interested in a woman, and talked to her for quite a while and became knowing deeply of her past and became interested,and yet both parties were open to the fact that they talked to others.And so an opportunity arose that one could date someone closer, and did...yet the other party was very supportive and even inquired how they were doing and wished the best and tried to be a friend still.So at what point does someone stop talking to a person out of selfishness and possesiveness as a possible mate..or do they continue to be supportive and caring as a friend only holding the same feelings?


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Wed 10/29/08 06:08 PM
And the topic was about only women making complications,and before we know it some will realize that some men make it complicated too in relations,and some men can read a woman..and after that i guess the 4th horseman arrives and the assumption game goes to heck:wink:

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Wed 10/29/08 05:53 PM
If they arent complicated or make things so,than they are boring and shallow.I would prefer to take drama with a brain, than a halfwit with no reason

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Wed 10/29/08 05:44 PM
Yes ,but the whole point of dating or relationships is showing yourself as you are attitude and all..and then having the right person that can curb that attitude and refine it to make it better, take the habits you have and dispose of the things useless to you as a person or as a couple.

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Wed 10/29/08 05:35 PM
Charm doesnt wear off...maybe the fact that you have 2 EX's from it already has made you jaded to it, and others can sense it, or its just a dry spell.Either way if you write one with feeling instead of trying to act like your selling a car,than you will be fine.

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Sun 10/26/08 07:11 PM
Edited by Socratease on Sun 10/26/08 07:12 PM
For the people and by the people,most smoke it and even more have nothing against it.. it has no potential for harm besides the occasional idiot that does it and does something dumb and the rest are blamed for it on CNN.But still it will remain illegal for a while..but history repeats itself just like alcohol prohibition,eventually they will be be naive and keep making it illegal, or fight the losing battle of keeping it from people.Its not cocaine,or crank,and mostly the reason its still is illegal is that its too easy too "make" and so the government couldnt tax it.Odd how pills with side affects are ok,but only the side affect of giggling and munchies is bad..

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Sun 10/26/08 06:56 PM
Wedge,track bar adjustments,taking spacers out of the spring to improve downforce,track position,the difference between a track that has been rained on and one that has "laid down rubber",drafting and clean air vs dirty and side force,going 200 mph hour while 3 feet apart from tons of steel 4 wide..If u have no idea what im talking about, then u cant make an opinion about the complexity of just "going in circles" and what is seen when u look closer at things

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Sun 10/26/08 06:30 PM
Everyone does,but none can pull it off without the emotion involved..nice write,Kim is a good artist as wellflowerforyou

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Sun 10/26/08 06:08 PM
Going too meet someone at there house for thankgiving before a meeting of face to face to clear the air of any misinterpretation? Huge no-no..at least let him know what your all about and find out what his intentions are..i could imagine meeting at a park to discuss things as people face to face..but thankgiving? nah..sort it out before that or dont go at all

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Sun 10/26/08 05:56 PM
Well at least were communicating now lol,point being it is that its the guys deal not yours for misunderstanding...and you should always be up front with black or gray,but it depends on the person.Not just men but anyone,some can take subtle and some need straight up talk

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Sun 10/26/08 05:22 PM
Maybe he just didnt like the term deeper even if u explained what it meant,he may not want any sort of commitment to being other than casual friends..but your right about the communication,because he should have at least explained his side if he hasnt already.Saying "Deeper" ,to a person not serious, practically means to some that u want to inbed yourself or take a part of them and make it more serious.If he likes you ,at the very least he could try to explain his emotions...

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Sun 10/26/08 04:11 PM
Sure if you like witless women with low self esteem, and weak character issues ..go for it.But there is fine line between being a gentleman, and an overly nice guy with no sack that smothers a woman with affection.Just keep being a good guy and dont sell out i say...

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Sat 10/25/08 04:55 PM
I think yes (as most will answer),but truth is if they had true feelings to begin with ,they wouldnt be an EX..

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Sat 10/25/08 04:31 PM
Cooley Fox

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Sat 10/25/08 04:23 PM
Mingle

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Sat 10/25/08 04:18 PM
"Hold on a sec..lemme finish"

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Sat 10/25/08 04:11 PM
Mostly its about attention, and hearing that there are others who experienced hard times that can relate to the person, so they dont feel so quite alone.And other times just too hear anothers "voice" and consolation when down in the dumps and offers of advice, that they already know, but like to hear it from another.Mainly its just a person needing a little comfort,or a ego boost (bah)..but there are some that will always whine and say woe is me to obvious solutions, and they are lost and the constant attention just keeps them from focusing on fixing there own probs.But there are some random people, that just like a little help and arent "whiners",those are the ones worth trying to help

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Fri 10/24/08 10:52 PM
Nope,he maybe a little curious why people are vegans only..and eat things that are alive but dont make cute eyes or noises hehe

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Fri 10/24/08 10:22 PM
Then ask at least twice,once isnt good enough at times ..and 3 is a stalker or desperate.So move on to the next contestants,mostly its best to just search and find what u like and ask, instead of a computer telling you who you should be matched with..you want a match at least have the resolve to try for it

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Fri 10/24/08 10:09 PM
Because the vocal ones tend to be insecure boys relegated to peeing contests trying for manhood instead of being it, while the secure and refined ones just smile and laugh...

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