Needing popularity, is just needing anothers opinion, or acceptance, that matches your own to make your own existence valid.
There is a "bad" popular,the type that will change there own behavior to mimic whats likes are current and what makes someone like them more.
And i guess a good popular would be just being yourself and having that certain "glow" that attracts interest to a select few..but imho...your only as popular as the long as people agree with you.

Britney spears is popular to the world,but im sure now she would just like be popular with a few good people heh

Good guys always win,theres something to be said about always being faithful and honorable.The hell with a popularity contest or who gets more,fact is..those that deprive themselves of honor and disresepct others in any way are the losers in life.Humble recognition and doing the right thing always no matter the conditions make for a real person,anyone else less of those standards,just are futile and pointless

I can find the dancing banana emoticon,but not the one where he waves a hand over his head and makes an airplane sound...this is about preconceived ideas about age and stereotypes

I have found that dating younger or older...there is partially no difference.
I assumed (always bad)that at some point experience,wisdom and self realization grows with time and age.

But after being around the block a few times, the only difference between a younger woman with issues ,and an older one ,imho.. is that the older one has far longer of a time to dwell on it and let the seeds of disparity grow.

After all,a younger lady with one bad relationship cant compete with a scorned older one with far more experience of "let downs",and some tend to look around every corner for the next possible hint of a heartbreak more often.

So,basically this should be about all types of people and myths..such as "marry that large girl,she wont ever cheat on you" i was on that block too, and she cheated with another guy from a block over lol.

But, point of this is...no preconceptions of anything,find a good honest soul and hold tight to it.Because looks,age,weight etc dont matter.Only focus on the heart and mind,and if your trusty vibe tells you to run,no matter how lovely they are...RUN!!

A person with no sense of humor..they never like my "Whats that noise?,is it normal for the wing to have a crack?"..or "Whats in airplane fuel to make an engine smoke like that?"

So honestly ..i wouldnt want to be stuck by another "me" if i was having a bad day

I dont think there is a time-out for being edgy,sure things can hamper that behavior and put it on hold.But its nothing you can remove or stop..its always there just waiting for a situation or time

Quality not quantity...lol

Depends if you got something or someone from those 2k posts..up to u

Explain what u mean please,because i have loved and have been loved

..being confused and alert,being silly and serious,being free amd confined,being safe and insecure, and most of all.. just being damn lucky

Well if it was taken out of context he had a few minutes to offer since I had to untie a hiking boot shake the thing out all the while making sure I didn't put my foot down since it was muddy.

I have never asked a man to hold my purse in my life. That defies my logic on the why of that any more than I would hold his wallet.


Either way if it was,he would of made clear he was kidding..or he is just a rude person with no conduct.
Or he likes you and is frustrated with all these hikes and him not getting "any" lol,and just lashed out in boyish reprisal
And too some guys, holding a purse while a woman shops can take away there fragile dignity and masculinity,its a guy thing ..so thats what i meant by that

3 day rule or not,he didnt call you when he said he would,excuses or not..I would have no confidence in him, or his resolve, to make good on a word of something so simple

Maybe if the dog was pink and u asked him to walk it in the neighborhood, i could see masculinity problems there lol.

But just to hold the dog is no biggie,unless he considers it the same as holding your purse while you go shopping...and for some guys that can be a little degrading if the have too much fickle ego.

Or he was just kidding and it was taken out of context

By the way he treats and talk to you over a long period of time,you wont know really until they show how much crud they are putting up with, of differences or etc..if they are nice for a short time means a booty call,if they are nice and understanding far after ,thats love

Damn "good guy or bad girl" threads and the same questions asked over and over of the same topics..if your here because you are looking for someone you have a chance..

But if your here because your confused and dont know the difference between things , and are constantly always asking the questions instead of supplying answers about a relationship..than you need to get off your butt and start take chances with someone. So u can at least get experience enough to at least lend a positive thought to a topic not requiring an emoticon ..or that tricky sarcasm or "smart" remark

Well now i feel better,thank you

That kind of guy dont fit into any category..nice enough to listen and bring flowers at times while discussing interesting things.Yet "bad" enough to tell his mind without hesitation and be arrogant in motive,and not afraid to be expressive with a naughty side...rare indeed.

Because some good guys try or pretend to be bad,like wise with bad boys pretending to be sweet hearts..if u find the ying and yang person combined with no posing (or needs medication lol)than thats a good deal

It was nice,too bad she turned out to be a demon from hades a few months later lol,but i tried..

All good points,point #7 is the best i think..be the better person and deal with things like a man with no insecurities..and if you always treat her and her family with no faults,than the old lady has issues and is just looking to make others as miserable as she.

Been completely open and honest from the start ,and made time for her no matter what.I consider that a form of romance,just a longer duration

Id say a best moment was being at a secluded beach..and the idea of the trip was to swim and go searching with a metal detector later for lost jewelry.I had put a ring and a rose inside of an old box earlier at a certain spot.Found the spot, and told her "she was the true treasure" (corny ya lol)and made love,afterwards dug it up and asked her to marry me.

Dang it,i knew i should have just made a thread about what color people farts would be and kept it simple..ok go ahead