I appreciate the criticism. I would agree with those of you who say my profile might come across as dry, not exciting, and resembling a set of rules more than anything else.

ChrisNPlano, I wish I could find better and more exciting ways to convey myself on my profile, however I'm really big into being practical and straightforward. I don't want to stretch any truths about myself with embellishment and half-truths. I am what my life has shaped me into. This is not to say I'm boring and not at all fun, as I'm always looking for adventure and know how to make great memories. If anything I'm just getting the boring stuff out of the way first so potential dates can get to the exciting part by getting to know each other and go on dates. And thanks for calling me "cute," I really appreciate it. :)

PacificStar48, thank you for your very detailed analysis. Perhaps I may come across as having too high or too low of standards on some things in my profile. I'm trying to be as much of a realist as I can based on the culture and behaviour of people in my geographic location. I know I'm highly unlikely to find a woman who would score a perfect 10 with me, hence the bit about not caring if she's over 200 lbs., but at least healthy. Granted I would draw the line somewhere, not to be mean but for the sake of practicality. I take care of myself physically and mentally, and I hope some of my progress could inspire a future partner. But yes, I do ask for a picture from ladies who contact me. I wouldn't worry too much about "falling on my own sword" as experience has taught me to use caution. Your blunt and honest concern is appreciated.

muneca24, gracias. Comprendí lo quería decir, y creo que también entiende mis intenciones. ¡Buena suerte!

Thank you for your analysis and constructive criticism Mortman. I have taken some of your words to heart and cleared up a part of my profile that needed further explanation.

And yes, it was just me being honest and careful after an unfortunate learning experience. I know I seem dry and sterile on paper, but the passion and fun part comes once I meet my potential dates after having already discouraged the wrong people from approaching me. To some surprise I've actually made contact with a few prospects due to the flat-out honesty of my profile.

Thanks again, and good luck to you as well sir.

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Okay, I've had my fun. Good luck to you.

Hi there. I'm new to online dating sites. I just wanted to know if I'm being unreasonable or aiming too high on my profile, or are my expectations fair? Take a look and let me know your thoughts. Thanks.