I imagined that I would be in the military, married with a couple babies.
Yet instead I am a Chef, working on a vegetarian cook book hoping to get it published, and single with no kids or boyfriend.

Well my name is Tronica and I have been on mingle for going on a year in July. I introduced myself but kind of stayed away from the forums until recently, don't know why.
So I thought I would re introduce myself. So who is near Fayetteville, NC? Lumberton, NC?
Where would you recommend I post more at? Is this forums where people meet others at to get that love connection or is the forums just a place to have some fun with other people at?
Sorry I ask alot of questions, but how are you ever suppose to know if you don't ask. Well hope you have a great night and I am sure you will see me bumping around the forums.

you were not good enough after meeting someone off here or meeting them at a coffee shop etc..?
After going out on a date with them?

I am too nice, I don't like hurting anyone's feelings so I try not to say anything that will cause them pain

never been stood up, but wish I had been then I wouldn't feel like there was something wrong with me

I never lie on here or in person, but I never get any mail either... Humm could I be a person noone wants to bother with LOL

honestly, a friend of mine was hogging the bathroom an I had to weee bad, so i went in front of my car, thank goodness it was dark and neighbors were not around

I don't take crude off a man, and I could care less what you do just keep it away from me and don't cheat on me.
So I would not say I was mean just tough

trusted an old friend

honestly it is low self esteem. They want someone that is going to treat them like crap, even if they are miserable they can be like well I am with blah blah.
I have too much self respect for myself to let someone keep on hurting me and misusing me.

I wish I was with that someone special

I know I have a small child's like voice and people are always saying can you speak up LOL.
So no I don't think you can fall in love with their voice, yet I do believe that you can fall in love with someone because of their eyes

he could be desperate, crazy, or just after kitty.
My ex boss after talking to me online for a couple hours was telling me he wanted me to move to england with him after his divorce. So I say hes a bit looney.
Theres no way a person can tell that soon

I think there is really no happily ever after, cause after you get married, then ya start fighting and if your love is not strong enough to over come the fighting then ya fixed. An even if you get past the fighting, ya just go into ignoring your mate.
Yet I think if you live every day like its like your last then your going to find some happiness.

I am handing my hand out to bring on the prozac LOL

I can honestly say yeah I do wish cupid would hit my friends on heres tushies because that way everyone would be in love including me, cause my tushie would be hit to LOL

that was very beautiful, it brought a smile to my face

just cruising the forums at the moment, but its slow tonight. Waiting for Kathy Griffin to come on I guess is where everyone is

Hi and welcome

I was 17 years old and about to turn 18 that Sept, and I think of it fondly because him and I are still friends despite a bad breakup.