I am from lumberton a bit away from new bern, but yea I agree with ya, went to new bern a couple months ago and I was like what the flippers

I was wondering would you ever apply to be on this show and if not why? An how would you feel if your friend, significant other were to apply to be on this show? Would you watch it?

Scott happy birthday darling!! You get one wish so make it a good one and here is your birthday kiss

I believe shes taken

nope they haven't

Honestly I know love is not in the cards for me cause if it was I would be with someone and in love.
So I have given up on love, but I do believe that love is around for those that do believe

Honestly this just happened to me, but I laugh it off now. When I realize hes just not that into me
It can be frustrating, but dont give up hope, the next girl you get involved with might be different.

I do, unless I know the reasons why I will always second guess in my mind and over anaylze every conversation or actions. Until I finally figured things out. An some of the time not all but some I have been proven wrong in my anaylsis. Yet I think you have to anaylize things so you are not mislead or you do not mislead people. Then again I am a virgo and thats part of the virgo charm.

yeah I admit I am lonely

Good Idea but sadly no window in my bathroom. Yeah she called but she knows that if I say no she cant come, she will call our mom and mom will go balistic so I have to say she can come LOL.

Okay I love my oldest sister but she just called an said she would be here friday with her husband, and they were going to drop her brother in law off at the motel (they know I don't like him).
So what do you do when you have a full week ahead, now you got to super clean your house, and get everything in order. I had to hide my private papers up in a safe because she is nosey. An will meddle through my things while I am gone.
Shes going to be staying a couple of weeks. Her husband and brother in law will spend that one night an leave going back the next day.
So please Help!! How do you handle when family just decides to pop in on you with no warning at all?

Hi everyone!!! NC Rocks!! literally have you seen the rocks all over the place kidding

been there done that sweetie. I don't play head games, very open and honest as well. The truth is that he might have been using you until he got hooked up with some other girl.
I know it feels like what the heck. Yet I am sure you will find a guy that will not be such a prick.

I did back in Jan, the guy made no moves at all so he just was not that into me. Yet I hold no grudes we are friends and I like that.

If I were a man I would totally date you, you have a great personality and you seem like a heck lot of fun so yeah I would.
besides you know your hot

I think the rules are simple really

1) I will call and or text you to see if you are up for it

2) If not, then I will find someone else for that night

3) expect no cuddling, no form of emotional commitment, just pure sex. Be in the mood before you get to the hotel.

4) An we both have the option of expecting it when we call or text.

5) No calling or texting the next day unless for sex

6) When either party has moved on either with another FWB or starts a relationship, no returning of phone calls or texting from former FWB.

7) Do not expect a FWB to turn into a relationship


I have never had a FWB but those are the rules according to a friend of mine who regularly has a FWB.

I think I will join you drew still sleepy

I did, he said that we are friends an he wanted me to know exactly how much he apperciated everything. Said I should have seen the stuff he sent to his mom. Which means hes just a good friend with a great heart. An instead of focusing on the negative he focused on the positive in his life which is his friends and family.
Said for me to keep mailing and such.. which I was planning on doing anyhow. I sent an email after I got a dose of reality and got his reply when I woke up again tonight. So this topic can die.

I ate, talked to my best friend wished her a happy valentine, and I went to sleep just got up about an hour ago. Thank goodness the days almost over

That is a stressful situation over there for all of our military not just the men. An hearing from someone back state sides is the only pleasure they get. So just because I might have read the situation wrong does not mean I don't know what the heck they are going through. I know, everytime I hear about a soldier getting killed I worry. So don't you dare think I don't think about that.

I am sorry if I went off, I asked for advice and I got it, I was reading things as if he were homeside. hes a friend who apperciates what I have done. So I am taking that as that a friend who just went a little over board but done it because he cares.