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Good point, we answer then get our heads chewed off for doing so honestly and without malice.
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So you are saying that men have no right to judge women? Is that what you are upset about?
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The entire point was what does a man find attractive. By definition, it is about the man's perspective, what he sees, what he thinks, how he judges. Therefore, it all comes back to how that man interprets what he is judging, in this case, it is the woman and her self confidence.
It's not arrogance, it is basic interpersonal psychology. |
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Basically you are saying OVER CONFIDENCE is not attractive right? Everyone should be confident in who they are I believe Frisco is trying to say that some people put on a show of confidence when they do not really have it. Example: wearing clothes that are too tight to get attention. Yes, I think he's confusing that with self confidence. Not so much confusing as interpreting. It's about my view of their self confidence. If I think that their self confidence is unwarranted, I will find them less attractive. By the same token, if I think their self confidence is accurate, I will find them more attractive. Does that make sense? |
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Let me try this again; this is a basic psychological principle: If I do not think you are justified in your self confidence, I will find you less attractive than if I think you are justified. And before you ask, what give me the right to judge; we all judge, it's an inescapable fact of human nature. Ive studied psychology ...its not a basic pronciple nice try tho.... i know i know im  leaving now
ok, maybe not basic as in undergrad, but basic as in fundamental. it's all about perception. |
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Let me try this again; this is a basic psychological principle: If I do not think you are justified in your self confidence, I will find you less attractive than if I think you are justified.
And before you ask, what give me the right to judge; we all judge, it's an inescapable fact of human nature. |
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The question was, what is most important to a guy. My answer, as a guy, is justified self confidence. If I don't think she is justified in her self confidence, I don't find it attractive.
You ask, who am I to judge? Every single person judges others, it's basic human nature. You can't escape it. You may not agree with my verdict, but everyone has the right to their own opinions. |
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Confidence - should be added to your list, should it? I'm actually gonna agree with this, modified just a bit. A justified self-confidence is probably the most important to me. Justified? What do you mean? Every single human on this planet is beautiful and they should be confident and show that they are a wonderful living creature who makes this world that much better for them being here. Gotta disagree with you there. Not everyone is beautiful. There are a lot of ugly people, and I'm not just talking about physically. |
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There is a big difference between confidence and arrogance. Self confidence is about knowing your self, really knowing yourself. Arrogance is about thinking you are better than others.
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Confidence - should be added to your list, should it? I'm actually gonna agree with this, modified just a bit. A justified self-confidence is probably the most important to me. Explain "Justified self confidence" to me please.. Its the word JUSTIFIED that bothers me Self awareness, knowing yourself. I've met a lot of women that were self-confident but had no reason to be. They think their sh$t don't stink. Don't wear clothes that are too small or too young for you, don't act like a princess unless you are. |
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Confidence - should be added to your list, should it? I'm actually gonna agree with this, modified just a bit. A justified self-confidence is probably the most important to me. |
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I got a date for tonight!
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Well I've got a date for tonight and I'm betting she shows up.
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Topic:
Money
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It means a lot to every relationship because it tells you about the person. If they cann't handle their finances, how can they handle anything else? Neither a borrower nor a lender be.
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Topic:
in need of opinions
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Dude, bad prescedent. Make them earn the gifts, otherwise they will expect them. Ask the chick out in person, go someplace low key or fun. Don't spend a lot of money and don't try to impress her. Find out if she is worth it first. If she is, then slowly, very slowly, up the ante.
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Why is that wrong?
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You bang the sont outta her. Then ask her if she wants a threesome with her friend that you like. Everyone wins.
Then you all eat pancakes. |
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I'm getting me a dose of the most powerful drug on the planet tonight, Texas bar-B-Que sauce. YUMMMMYYYYY!
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Topic:
Where do you draw the line?
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And some punctuation, you need some punctuation!
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Topic:
austin
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Heck yeah! I nominate 6th street as the location.
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I think Cinderalla may be on to something. having orgasms does release a lot of endorphines, which is a natural self produced drug. So orgasms for all!
Who wants one first? (ladies only) |
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