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Topic: in need of opinions
snoopy169's photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:20 PM
im in need of some opinions theres a girl i like and want to ask out and i have come up with an idea of sending her a bouquet of flowers or roses to her work asking her out would this appropriate or should i ask her in person face to face

lilith401's photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:22 PM
Call her up, ask her out. Simple.

Megan_Smiles's photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:24 PM
I think your idea sounds romantic, and I don't know a single girl that doesn't like to get flowers at work!:smile:

Go for it, and whatever you do don't question yourself.

sillyjilly's photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:24 PM
Ask her out and if she accepts... send her the flowers.

no photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:25 PM
I'd go for the flower idea...how sweet

no photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:26 PM

Ask her out and if she accepts... send her the flowers.

Good idea....
If she said no the flowers would be a little inappropriate

James00711's photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:26 PM
Ask her out like Jilly said. Good Luck.

lcjw's photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:34 PM
Is not that complicated; just ask her.bigsmile

lcjw's photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:34 PM

Ask her out and if she accepts... send her the flowers.

Great idea!drinker

Enya's photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:43 PM
jilly does have a point.

1st , ask.
If she accepts....send flowers saying
"Thanks For Your Sweet Acceptance!I look forward to our date."

guyguy1225's photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:44 PM
look at it this way the flowers could be what makes her say yes !!:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

lilith401's photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:55 PM
I'd NEVER say yes just because I got flowers. I'd rather get the flowers after the date, if it went well.

no photo
Thu 07/24/08 03:10 PM
Just ask her. If she wants to say yes she'll say it whether or not you get her flowers.

franshade's photo
Thu 07/24/08 03:12 PM

I'd NEVER say yes just because I got flowers. I'd rather get the flowers after the date, if it went well.


w/Lilith on this one, flowers would mean a little more after the date than prior.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 07/24/08 05:16 PM

im in need of some opinions theres a girl i like and want to ask out and i have come up with an idea of sending her a bouquet of flowers or roses to her work asking her out would this appropriate or should i ask her in person face to face


Confidence gets dates as well...

sassystacey69xx's photo
Thu 07/24/08 05:20 PM
Try the direct approache,for me flowers before u ask her out is creepy,ask her directley and if she accepts the date,a single rose will dodrinker

ledi180's photo
Thu 07/24/08 05:28 PM
Yeah, I agree - do the face to face thing. Show up with flowers on the date if she accepts. Not roses though - I think that's a bit much for a first date.

GOOD LUCK - let us know!!

sassystacey69xx's photo
Thu 07/24/08 05:29 PM

Yeah, I agree - do the face to face thing. Show up with flowers on the date if she accepts. Not roses though - I think that's a bit much for a first date.

GOOD LUCK - let us know!!
daisies than

Frisco73's photo
Fri 07/25/08 12:11 PM
Dude, bad prescedent. Make them earn the gifts, otherwise they will expect them. Ask the chick out in person, go someplace low key or fun. Don't spend a lot of money and don't try to impress her. Find out if she is worth it first. If she is, then slowly, very slowly, up the ante.

no photo
Fri 07/25/08 12:14 PM

Dude, bad prescedent. Make them earn the gifts, otherwise they will expect them. Ask the chick out in person, go someplace low key or fun. Don't spend a lot of money and don't try to impress her. Find out if she is worth it first. If she is, then slowly, very slowly, up the ante.
noway but I like gifts!!! I want gifts!!!laugh laugh Give me gifts@!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

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