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The X Files
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...should be left in the past, really. Why on earth do people pine over their exes? Or always feel the need to bring them up or discuss them? I can't speak for other women/men out there, but to ME, it's a turn off. Not only does it demonstrate emotional instability, but it also makes the person come off as having a low self esteem. I can understand wearing your heart on your sleeve, but c'mon now, falling for everyone you meet? So next time you meet someone, maybe try stearing clear of all the ex talk, you may actually get somewhere! Can't bring in the new, when you've never outed the old. Having an OPEN heart & open mind is the way to go! :)
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How soon is too soon?
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There's no time limit on emotions. I don't care what ANYONE says.
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Poker Face
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i love this song, even though the vast majority of todays music is not very original.
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U might wanna get laid at some point in time. Even I know you want someone who has more of a life than to post 25 reasons. I will cook food for you. We might like eachother. Which woild inspire me to invest more reasons. i come up w/those reasons in less than a minute. just super confident! |
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i think anyone i have to post about in a forum isn't worth it! we lasted up until now! supposed to talk after this weekend, but ya know what? i'm not even feeling it!
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Transamerica
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i love me some felicity!
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1. i'm not a typical female that calls and clings
2. i'm pretty 3. i am sexxy 4. i'm open-minded 5. i have two children, so i know all about responsibility 6. when dating someone, if the favor is returned, i will build my world around them. 7. i can fish 8. i'm very girly/femenine 9. i watch college football and actually enjoy it 10. i can down a beer in three drinks or have a martini 11. i love bill maher 12. i'm bi-sexual 13. i'm a lady on the street, and um...you finish the sentence ;) 14. i have long hair 15. i always smell good 16. i shave...everywhere, except my head! 17. i love music 18. i love the outdoors 19. i can dance (and ya know what that means) 20. i'm independent 21. not much offends me 22. i get along w/moms! 23. i know what i want out of life 24. i'm easily amused, but not a dimwit 25. i'm still single b/c i'm so damn picky!! booyah! |
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50% off shoes
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sales are nice, but it's mostly things going outta style anyways. 'welcome to cinda's fashion 101' a couple tips for you ladies (and fashion-conscious fellas) if something's on sale, and it's not something you would normally wear, do not buy it out of impulse. just saying. ok, carry on and have a good night!
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La la bye suicide
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That's pretty deep, kiddo
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He text me back! lol...
Thanks guys, seriously. |
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i didn't tell him i wanted to be friends yesterday. i simply asked him if from here, if he would rather be friends or more, and he told me he has enough friends. that's all. So call or text him already the suspense is killing me 
Good Luck hope it works out for you both I text him, we'll see! Nothing yet, lol... I am however taking into consideration he's busy working on a project. WHO KNOWS. This is just what happens when you take a chance I suppose! |
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i didn't tell him i wanted to be friends yesterday. i simply asked him if from here, if he would rather be friends or more, and he told me he has enough friends. that's all.
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you may have to tell him that you changed your mind about just being friends just so that he's clear on your intentions. This already occurred. i was just going off of the wording in her original post During our ride home yesterday, I actually asked him if he would like to remain friends, and he told me he had enough friends, that he still wanted more to me that doesn't say "hey, i think i'd like to try dating you." . . . Read the whole thread. You're not getting it. YEAH, THIS WAS ALL BEFORE-HAND. JUST THOUGHT I WOULD THROW THAT IN THERE. I MEAN, WE ACTUALLY ALREADY SHARED THE TWO DAYS TOGETHER TUESDAY AND WEDNESDAY, THIS IS JUST LIKE A FOLLOW-UP. WHEN SHOULD I GIVE UP? IF HE STILL TALKS, DOES THAT MEAN HE'S STILL INTO ME? I ACTUALLY JUST SENT A TEXT TELLING HIM I WAS JUST THINKING ABOUT HIM AND HOPES HE HAS A GREAT DAY. I BASICALLY AM NOT AWARE OF THE DATING 'DOS' AND 'DONT'S'. I HAVE PLAYED HARDBALL A LOT IN THE PAST, BUT I AM COMPLETELY HUMBLED NOW AND READY TO TAKE THAT NEXT STEP IF I MEET THE RIGHT PERSON. I MEAN, C'MON GUYS, WOULD IT NOT BOTHER YOU IF A CHICK TEXT YOU AND CALLED YOU 24/7? I AM LEARNING THAT I SHOULD SHOW 'SOME' INTEREST THOUGH. I GUESS IF I DON'T HEAR BACK FROM HIM TODAY, PERIOD...I WILL JUST GIVE UP. (SORRY FOR THE CAPS, MY KEYS ARE LOCKED) |
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Yes, we are a funny bunch. And I think I can safely say I hope it works out. Communication is key. Thanks hon |
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you won't just think it out and take your time, but be careful of his feelings, if you just want friendship and he wants more, for it sucks to be hurt. I completely agree. If I was not interested in this guy, I would not be looking for advice, nor would I CARE if he contacted me. You guys all seem like great people btw! What a breath of fresh air to know you have feelings as well! GOOD LUCK! |
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either you want to pursue it or you don't...make up your mind OK, just going to ignore the caddy replies that i'm playing games. This was a genuine question, wanted a mature answer. OK, about this, yes, at first I was just letting him know basically I didn't wanna jump into anything, but it didn't stop him from wanting to take me out. He should know i'm interested in him, or I would not have gone on the trip. We're men, not mind readers. I completely agree, but in this case, actions speak louder than words...I would think.. |
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It seems to me that you made it clear that you weren't into him. So don't be surprised if you don't hear from him. i agree. but it seems that maybe you are wanting him to pursue you a bit. in which case, you're not being honest with him. you say you just want to be friends, but then you wonder why he doesn't pursue. i understand not wanting to seem too easy, but don't say one thing when you may mean something else. if you'd like to see him, in a more than friends sort of way, you should contact him and make an effort to get together. flirt with him so that he knows you're interested and if you don't want to seem easy, give him small rewards for his pursuits. a good night kiss, a light make out session, build up to the more intimate stuff and make him work a little for it. but if you just want to remain friends, don't contact him. if he doesn't contact you, let it go and learn from the experience. . . . So, i'm thinking, I don't get a call or text today, I may text him this evening just to tell him I was thinking about him. Is that out of line? |
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maybe it's better this way, because he may realize that you might hurt him in the long run if he stays. it would be like trying to sail a sunken boat, he would like you as a friend, but we've all been down that road, where we like someone, and they just kinda like us, if you know what i mean, and eventually you get hurt, because they are still looking for greener grass, and won't settle....like you are....if the "one", comes along, you'll stop looking, correct? Yeah, I see your point. I just didn't wanna come on too strong. |
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ALSO, that's why I kind of wanted a 'man's' advice. You guys know when a girl bothers you or not...When it's nice to hear from her and when is 'too much'
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Then just call or text him and let him know you are thinking about him. This isn't rocket science. He put himself out there, shared his feelings. You agreed to go for it, why does he have to chase you? No, I don't expect him to chase me at all...but proven fact men scare away easier than women...I don't want to feel I am coming on too strong. I'll probably just take my own advice and if I don't hear from him all day, text him tonight and let him know i'm thinking of him. Thanks everyone. |
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