can we just forget the flower's & candy ..... id rather have Jeep parts & jewelry! : p

Single, Sexy Momma here!

Since they will be living here I would want them to keep their customs/language alive as much as possible.

Right now I am about to buy the Rosetta stone for Spanish, due to the huge influx and bearing latinos are having on our country. So I think it equally important they learn English.

We meet online, live 50 or more miles apart, and have been seeing each other for some months, traveling back and forth between residents mainly on weekends spending quality time together while also satisfying our sexual connection… all things are going good between us and we decide to become more serious about our commitment, eventually agreeing on monogamy… as time goes on, gas prices start to rise, and it becomes more costly to continue round trip sexcapades… so we decide to take one more serious step to keep our relationship together, by one of us giving up our residence to move in with the other… in order to retain our individual property that we bring into the now combined relationship, should we draw up and sign a binding document that details what belongs to whom, and that we will take our things with us should the relationship dissolve? Because possession is 9/10th the law, when a break up occurs and tempers might be flaring, the one who remains in the residence is able to legally retain possession of all material assets until the one moving out can prove what property is theirs… so advance preparation to cover both our buttz with a binding agreement will make the breaking up process easier and quicker… but… how do you personally feel about taking these kinds of advance safety precautions when just starting out in a relatively new relationship?

Hi guys,
I'm in a bit of a fix.
I was seeing this girl for last couple of months.I'm bit of an introvert and shy.She knows this.
So she says she's serious but I've got to woo her and win her.
And I guess she wants me to get out my comfort zone.
P.S:currently she's in some other city.We will only get to meet in person during our summer breaks.So for now it's all online
What should I do?

Subject # 1… Do you return to an ex?

You start dating someone new, and your ex, who you’ve broken up with finds out, and now they want you back, and do everything within their power to remind you of why you are so good together, and they’re really sorry things didn’t work out before, but the two of you know in your hearts you should be together. Do you leave your new lover and return to the other one, or put the last lover on hold while you see if this new relationship turns serious, only going back to the other one if this new one doesn’t work out?

Subject # 2… Do you do as you’re told?

Let’s say you are still abiding by old school convention in your intimate relationships, in which the man continues to hold the majority of sway over his woman/wife, to the point where he advises her on how to dress, the amount of makeup she can wear, her friends she can/can’t hang out with, he requires her to tell him where she’s going and with whom, and that she stays in contact with him via cell/text while she’s away from the house… simultaneously, both partners work and bring home the bacon, and they split their living expenses equally, like roommates do... yet the man spends the rest of his income on himself, and requires the woman to spend the rest of her income on herself… so, in this type of scenario, is the woman obligated to follow/obey the man’s advice about how he wants her to conduct herself as his other half… or can she just do as she likes, ignoring what he wants, because he’s not providing for her financially?

Subject # 3… What would you say if?

We’re here Mingling with people we’d like to befriend, and possibly even become romantically involved with. Some of us, who are single and actively participating on the forums, disclose things about ourselves that we don’t mind letting everyone know because it’s not sensitive information. Plus, by opening up like this we make it easier to become acquainted with each other. And, if in the process of becoming cyber-friends we happen to meet the next love of our lives, we’ll share even more personal things about ourselves with each other. So, what is something about your expectations of a new partner that you two would discuss on your first date? Such as: you do/don’t want someone with pets, do/don’t want someone with tattoos, do/don’t want someone who smokes/drinks, do/don’t want someone with college degrees, etc… this is your chance to put it all on the table so as not to waste either of your time with more dates that end up going nowhere… so what did you need to air to shorten this process?

How important is it to you that someone you’re dating know and appreciate the customs and language of your heritage?

If the relationship became serious, would it be important to you that they learn and practice your customs with you, or speak your native language with you?

If we are referring to a first-time meeting, no, I would not expect them to... nor would I be sure I wanted them to on any level. I'd be just as unsure about her as she is of me, and I'd prefer getting to know someone before I knew if I wanted to spend any nights together, with or without sex.

Now if we are referring to a long-distance relationship that's already been established, then, of course lol.

I like to ask questions and answer questions of other people if I know the answer... You're more than welcome to post your own questions here too...

So here's my first question:

If you visited someone long distance would you expect them to at least spend the night in your hotel with you???

Well said and about time Kennee!

I tend to be suspicious of men or women who "lay it on thick" and shower me with compliments right off the bat..Or people who express a great deal of interest in me (and what I say) when it just doesn't seem totally "real" or sincere...I don't want to be an "easy mark!".. Some people are "brown-nosers" and they rely on manipulation tactics to "get ahead" or "gain favors." (Or get attention etc.)...Have you noticed this?...They are "salespeople" in disguise! But what happens after they get their "sale?" Will they still act the same way? Or will they grow bored and look for someone new to "butter-up" and impress?

I may throw a compliment out now and then, but never a dishonest one. The key to good flattery is making it honest, which may mean it's less often, but will be better-received and more appreciated. I'm also not the type to be entirely captivated with only a girl's appearance, so it would take getting to know her before I was impressed enough to start with any real compliments. Especially when it comes to calling a woman "beautiful" which isn't a term I could use to describe someone without knowing them, as that goes much deeper than anything at first sight. I guess what I'm saying is that I tend to compliment as I feel it, meaning it increases as I actually become more passionate about someone, so it's never excessive or empty words. And likewise, the way a person feels about you is equally important in how they're going to take your compliments, so I think most times you can tell when it's appropriate or desired on their end as well.

I'm with RG, on that one too.. I'm hard to win over, and can't be easily fooled... as far as people flattering us, well, if they have no agenda, like they're not wanting anything from us, and they flatter by way of being nice, there's nothing offensive about this kind of communication. However, if they over flatter, and then slide in "hey you're really cute, can I have your cell phone number"... then I start getting suspicious about their motives...

Am very much single and looking for a very honest man not a cheat or lier

Do men care if a woman only likes you for your looks?
can men tell if she's settling for him and all he's about just because he's hot and great in the sack?