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Selfishness.......
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Thanks it's just why shouldn't you be a little "selfish" in a relationship, I guess I have been walked on enough that I want to be a priority and most of the time I do let him get his way with the things he wants, watch the hockey game, started to go to the gym (it's fun with him there), meet his parents(which was a little bit of an ambush but fine), why can't i just watch the race this weekend.
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Selfishness.......
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what was it he said you were being selfish about? That I wasn't ready to meet all of his friends |
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Selfishness.......
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Geez,you have suffered.  im going to the mall and punching the first male i run into.
 no need but thanks
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Have you explained all of this to him? Told him that right now I AM MY NUMBER ONE priority. I like him and all, but its like, he is calling me selfish, why? Because I have finally made me a priority. |
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which one are you??? 
left |
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I just got stood up..
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shes scared.
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Selfishness.......
Edited by
cloudedsunshine
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Thu 06/05/08 11:53 AM
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Okay, little about me. I was left by my biological father, beat by my adopted father, abused by my step-father, abused beaten and roughed up by my ex husband. So now I am dating a guy, and he says "your selfish". Hello, don't I deserve to be a little selfish. I pay my way, I pay my bill, I take care of myself, is it so wrong that one month of dating mght mean I don't want to meet your friends yet? Or go to someone's wedding who I have never met?
Who else has put themselves first and not regretted it. |
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some food for thought
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its a good thought, but if anyone tried to "throw off a government that is not representing them wouldn't we have chaos.
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i ate a jimmy dean bowl
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maybe i should have said something nicer
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are you going
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of course, why would I want to make the same mistake twice
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IFf SOMEONE OFFERED
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depends on the person and the quality of sex, what type and the staying power of the male.
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my neice loves her dora the explorer luchbox and back pack
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Okay I am going to say it. My mother and father were/are both worthless. They truly are. Neither have provided emotional support and by the time I was 14 I was paying rent, my medical bills, my food, and any activity I wanted to be in. I really think that parents should worry about the children, and should have to sign a binding legal contract before being able to reproduce. I think birth control should be in all of the food, and only if you are allowed to reproduce should you be able to forgo the birth control. I think that we should neglect the neglectful parents and let them starve like I had to, beat the abusive parents, and let them know the terror of wondering where the next meal is going to come from or whether or not they will be beaten for spilling the milk. As far as paying for it, lock them up and send them to a work camp and watch them twenty-four/seven, making sure they don't have a dime for any of the luxuries they deny their offspring.
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Funny thing.....our system........Where else could a mother tell the child that the father is dead for almost 9 years and then one day contact the father and tell him.....oh yeah...you have a 9 year old son. But wait.....it gets better. Within 2 weeks of that notification I got subpeona'd for court and nailed with 9 years ($17000) in back child support and had the kid living in my house within 2 weeks of that. SHE should have faced....in my opinion......fraud and child abuse charges but NOOOOOOOOOOOOO. She doesn't have a penis so she skates. I disagree with deadbeat parents but the system needs to serve justice BOTH directions. This is one part of our system that is PARTIAL to women. That is not right and should be changed. In iowa it is changing, now it is not a quarantee that the mother will get the children. |
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I know not all dad's are deadbeats; (in fact, I personally know some who definitely go the extra mile, while the mother becomes the deadbeat). However, what do we do to strengthen laws and punishment against men who duck out after they find out they have impregnated someone? What do we do to those who quit job after job and move from town to town, leaving more fatherless children in their wake? What do we do to prevent them from "diddling and ditching"? A scarlet letter, perhaps? So we can identify those who tell the same lies to women over and over again? Maybe a big "C" in the middle of their foreheads for "Chicken****"? What should they be responsible for BEYOND childsupport in the financial sense? Health and dental? Transportation to and from appointments, extracurricular activities, etc.? Clothing for those constant and quick growth spurts? Invitations, treats, cake , decorations, presents for their birthday parties? Presents for friends who have invited them to their birthday parties? Gift exchanges at school? Club and sport uniform and supplies? Bicycle tires? Valentine cards for the class? Dye for Easter eggs? Compensation for the days a mother takes off from work to nurture a sick child? What about morally, spiritually, ethically? How should those responsiblities be defined? When jail, suspension of drivers license and garnishment don't do it, what next? Should these guys be "fixed"? If they don't want the responsibility of being a father, yet they don't want to be "sterilized," should they be made to never have sex again? I think that there are canidates for forced vascetomies and tublaligations. |
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do you think????
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Yes, girls need to be stick thin, men need to be as buff as john secena
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Cowboys Penis' Name
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GETTY UP
SAVE A HORSE, RIDE A COWBOY
Go Big and Rich |
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3 new
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original
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The person below me
Edited by
cloudedsunshine
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Thu 06/05/08 09:21 AM
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False...for tonight not this weekend meant for raras
true will share with sunny has plans for fun in the sun this weekend |
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