*another quick MapQuest calculation and wonders if Neurofriction will still be hungry in the wee hours of the morning - perhaps he can leave the porch light on and a Tupperware container of leftovers for her?!*

*does a quick MapQuest calculation and tells him he'd better go ahead and eat without me ... by 3 am I think I'll have passed out from hunger*

*starts to wave hello ... then realizes he's too pre-occupied to notice*

*wipes drool from chin and starts her shiny, fast, black car*

Wow ... felt that one!

Not sure a flower's gonna fill me up ... but thanks for the offer!

Freaking starved here ... anybody cookin' anything good that I can pillage?

NOOOOOOO! Bring back the melodrama!

Is there music to go with those lyrics? Cuz that'd be cool

Yeah, other than the handgun , profile looks fine - you're young, attractive - sure you'll have lots of success - again, once you lose the handgun

hot 'n humid ... again

Luxury? Gotta be a Jaguar
Everyday? Love me an Infiniti G35

Rhythm challenged

fran,

Lots of variables here, obviously -- someone you're married to, or in a serious, committed relationship will hopefully have valid insights into your behaviour/contributions in the relationship and why it failed overall and I would def take time to ponder, sort and evaluate their opinions to see if I could/should make changes.

On the other hand, someone who goes MIA from a budding relationship and leaves me with no 'closure' as to why - well, in that case, I agree with you ... the reasons probably don't really matter - whether they got bored, distracted or had a change of heart, the outcome likely had little to do with me as an individual (still hurts like hell sometimes ).

Okay, I think I'm rambling - I'll stop

Plan it, make a list, avoid the list, procrastinate ... make a new plan, a new list for tomorrow, avoid that list, procrastinate some more - well, you get the idea!

That, in itself, is an 'explanation' to me - or would provide me with 'closure' -- hearing someone say it wasn't anything specific you did, I've just had a change of heart. Fine, I can live with that and move on; however, sometimes (often, I'm sure) there are REASONS (habits/behaviours that were annoying/frustrating, etc) that a person can be made aware of, deal with and make necessary changes, if they want to improve their ability to have a sustainable, successful relationship in the future.

I guess for me, I like to know if there was something specific or concrete that I did to contribute to the demise of the relationship so I can improve for 'next time'.

Considering I don't know even 1 single, straight male in my day-to-day 'real' life, I'd say I'd throw my line back in the internet waters and give it another shot.

driving fast listening to some loud, hard music