If you look at any relationship love or business, overnight success eventually has an overnight end. The term easy come easy go comes to mind. I think in relationships we become excited for meeting someone that immediately strikes our current needs and we put the not so great things on the back burner not worrying about them. But as time goes on those small things we ignored start to become big things. So I think it is important to take the time to really get to know someone and pay attention to everything for compatibility for long term.

I agree Fran. Now lets add a bit. its about sharing your happiness with someone. The key is finding someone that is happy with themselves as well. 2 Happy people together is allot of fun. Just my opinion. Back to my cubical now.