You're right about this one... Women are more sexually creative and stimulating than men, imo. Especially the ones that have the entire package, beautiful face, awesome body, that special fire that comes naturally. And some women that know they have it do flaunt and use it to their advantage. More power to them....

Men on the other hand, while some have extremely attractive faces, all of their bodies generally look the same to me unless they workout sculpting them. And then they have to workout for life in order to maintain that sexy muscled look.

Well, of course there is the size differential thingy too. Of the few men I've been with I've noticed the bigger his package is the more confident and flirtatious he is with the ladies. But then these types tend to want to spread their package around too much, so I prefer the less endowed who can use the head on their shoulders more effectively too.

Hi CareBear... you're a very beautiful woman, and I love your new profile picture.

I also love this Patton quote... I can really relate...

Yes, I bet you do... after all... they do say still waters run deep... it's good to see you again Johnn...

I get that completely about needing to have control professionally. For me it's about getting things done right the first time so there's no mistakes, mine or another's that I have to waste time cleaning up.

Something tells me you're a spitfire in your personal life too... once you get on the scent... like a dog with a bone...

color me stupid... Jezebel's brain scan showed code P0442 which means I didn't screw the gas cap back on right... when I fueled up yesterday. thank goodness it isn't anything serious. See... I told you her brain works better than mine...

DOG NAB IT!!! I've had my car for 7 years and my check engine light just came on for the first time. I hope I don't find anything to serious when I autoscan its brain. Hopefully she's doing better than me and still has a few good cells left... now where's that step by step user's manual...

OUCH!!! DAMN IT!!! There's room in here for both of us...

^^^^

We could approach those we don't know as if we already do and say something to back them into a corner... then we can watch and wait to see their reaction... and our a$$es off when they come at us swinging... that might make things interesting...

Well, another holiday and relaxing weekend is behind us and business begins again today. I've got a number of things on my "to do" list that I've got to get squared away.

But right now all I can think about is the look on Cilli's face as she props her head on the top of my screen waiting for me to finish so she can have her way with me.

Love, love, love, kisses, kisses, kisses, she never gets enough...

I assumed right from the topic anything that came out your mouth would be a lie and I'd have to either like or lump it...

Seriously though... I've never neVER EVER been any good at lying because my truth is written all over my face.

And there's nothing more riling to me than someone who knows me and accuses me of lying about anything. Most of the time these kinds of tiffs come about when I've caught someone lying and they're just trying to deflect their guilt onto me.

And this is MY story and I'm sticking to it too...

Me personally... my parents, God rest their souls, were strict about teaching me to think and act independently even though I was a girl and it wasn't quite mainstream yet for women to stand on their own.

But, raise a child in the way they should go and when they're old they won't turn from it... So...

Despite my many ups and downs, success and failures I still prefer to be in control of my life and my soul. Because ultimately, I'm the only one that knows what really makes me happy and how to achieve things in the ways that suit me best.

To me, living life isn't about always giving of oneself to others until there's nothing left. It's about being the best we can be and trying to help others be the best they can be too.

And sometimes that means that I have to take the wheel and drive for a while until others gain enough confidence to steer, and then I hand it over so I can relax and be driven for a while too.

What about you?

Imperfectly...

We all want to feel in control of our lives, our emotions, ourselves, our destiny... Some of us take the wheel naturally, while others need to be driven to succeed.

Do you feel more comfortable letting others take the lead... or do you prefer to always be in control even if you might crash and burn on occasion?

Do you know what, if anything inspires you to be one way or the other? Can you be both a driver and a passenger effectively?

Finally... you're beginning to see things my way...



And I must say my feelings are stunned by this blanket demeaning statement. Because real beauty has such a natural entrancing affect on the senses that one would have to be literally blind not to feel and see it whether we are women or men.

Societal perimeters "might" hold our tongues still in public, making us appear to be "shallow", or without true appreciation, but inwardly and privately beauty is what draws our attention and allows us to desire or dream of having it too, imho of course.

I'd say... How many times do I have to tell you that your PDA's are NOT acceptable. you know how jealous some people can get when they see their turf being trespassed by an admirer who lacks subtlety...