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I was suppose to go to NYC to Time Square to watch the ball drop but doesn't look like that is gonna pan out now 
it is ok you got us we will be here!! |
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is there life after mingle?
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Well there ya go but look you have the best tool right here right at your finger tips you can do all your prescreening and eliminating before you ever meet the key is not to get so hung up on looks and read through the BS lines and don't be in such a big hurry to be in a relationship once you meet take your time get to know what each other thinks and feels about things then make decissions with your head not your heart that is soo true... I know what i want in a man but the man i want ( he does want the same thing at times and at times he does not know) The head thinks the heart loves and even if you say i will take my time and all that bull**** you never know when your heart will fall in love. |
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is there life after mingle?
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Well there ya go but look you have the best tool right here right at your finger tips you can do all your prescreening and eliminating before you ever meet the key is not to get so hung up on looks and read through the BS lines and don't be in such a big hurry to be in a relationship once you meet take your time get to know what each other thinks and feels about things then make decissions with your head not your heart the problem was that each time he has an excuse but i don't know if old age or i am not as naive as i used to be and now i am tired of dating a guy who does not get it it takes 2 to be in a relationship. and i think it is my time to depart from this relationship. |
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I'm a bit masochistic, I'm afraid. If I didn't like it why would I keep allowing it to happen? Seriously.... my problem is that i am too nice. I believe people are basicaly nice and make mitakes. I think the problem with this guy is that I did fell in love with him he knows it. But I am also tired of his behavior.. |
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I have a way of thinking that goes like that. It is not the woman fault if she is not what i am looking for but my own fault for not looking and searching at the right place or the right woman. I will never say that if I don't find her it is because woman are like this or like that it is my own fault for either being to difficult or not knowing what I want. If I am still single at 46 it is of my own doing and nobody else. wow an honest man how refreshing!! |
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My smarty smart friend Lily0923 told me that the only emotionally available men are the ones we aren't interested in. God we are messed up, huh? 
OMG,,I so agree with your smarty pants sista,,,((((Lilith))))) 
I'm trying to figure out why I fall for guys who suck the life out of me   
because they do to all of us!! |
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Ruth..... If you figure it out would you please tell me how you did it? Sure. But, I probably have very different issues and behavior patterns as you do. The basic premise would be the same, though. We are both smart, independent women.... yes? too smart and we know what we want |
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probably do the same thing as christmas NOTHING! oh well at least there is football on the tv or i can take down my christmas lights. cleaning the closets is actually tempting!! |
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I will be home and probably alone. 
I will be posting my new years thread for all the lonely hearts club!! come join us! |
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if my blind date falls threw, then I'll be here too. Good luck on your date!!!!! |
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My smarty smart friend Lily0923 told me that the only emotionally available men are the ones we aren't interested in. God we are messed up, huh?
And, that is one of the things I have done some hard thinking about. I'm not going to keep making the same mistakes over and over again. I'm 41 and it's time to start making some better choices and breaking self-defeating behavior patterns. that is the problem. I keep ending up with the same type of guy!! I need to start dating guys that are emotionally ready but were in the Hell are they? |
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Chuck, my point is simply that when you meet a person you want, they aren't available. When you meet a person you don't want, they are. Ya know? totally agree with you!! 
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My smarty smart friend Lily0923 told me that the only emotionally available men are the ones we aren't interested in. God we are messed up, huh?
how true!! |
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I will probally be home alone if I don't find a church to visit. i think that sounds like a good idea |
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just another day to me I need to look at it that way |
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 Look's like I'll be spending it here just like I did Christmas. well We won't be alone then we both will be here!! |
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I'll be alone with my daughter, so it won't be too bad. But I've always been alone for New Years. It's really not a big deal for me. it is my first with out my kids and the guy i dated for 8 months is history |
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My best friend's birthday is New Years.... Each year her mother makes a wonderful dinner and we hang out and chill.... plus there is cake. I'm very lucky that way. that is awesome |
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I am now understanding that guys who are looking for a woman for "dating" are looking for someone they can have sex with for an extended period of time without any emotional attachment. I'm switching to the guys looking for "friendship" or "relationship". These men are clueless, regardless of what they say they want. They don't know what they want. The sex is extraneous.... has nothing to do with anything but sex. IMO They just go through the motions. They pretend they are emotionally available, but once they have feelings for you, they freak out. the one I went out with told me He knew he lost his family he was never around ( workaholic) so when i am with him still does the same thing.. so I told him I would never marry a man that has not learned his lesson from his previous marriage. |
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I tried that too and no luck there either with the ones that I went out with. Good Luck!!
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