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Wedding Ceremony....
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This is true story. I wouldnt call it adv or dis. Its plain sad.
There is a couple I Know a while back. In the middle of their wedding ceremony they had an argument. It got heated like anything. Nobody can do anything to make the argument go away- the best men, families..nobody. Then two cars were called-forthe groom and the bride Then after a coupla days we heardtheir divorce was finalized.We were utterly shocked. Still to this day theydont talk to each other |
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Wedding Ceremony....
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With high divorce rates. Having an expensive formal wedding is like throwing your money on a private show or party. To me its a gamble that i wouldnt take. Yes i like to get married but i would have it at the court house and have a nice dinner with family and friends I agree Sheri. The divorce rate in my country has sky rocketed. Private ceremony is enough |
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Wedding Ceremony....
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Isn't it also about sharing your wonderful union with the other people who matter to you? I don't think there is -or has been- a people that did not celebrate a marriage. So the joy and sharing with others, making it a really memorable and festive day. Making it a very special event, after all marrying is something big. It's also the opportunity for others that love you to express their love and well-wishes. Disadvantage is the cost, yes, but isn't that at the same time part of making it special? Saving up for it because it means so much to you. In a way you can then also wonder if throwing a party is ever worth it, if it's not just providing people with free booze and food. Isn't the joy and shared happiness more important? Let me get this straight. The adv you mentioned is intertwined with cost. Hence no dis. Is that what you are saying, Sparkle or arre there any disadvantages? No, the advantages are not intertwined with cost. The cost can be regarded as not solely 'disadvantage' but also part of the pre-fun. Matter of perspective. If you want your day to be festive and grand and it's going to cost a bit, then the saving up for it can become an exciting and fun part of the whole. That's called "a positive outlook on life" :) Understood. I like the "positive outlook on life " part |
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Wedding Ceremony....
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Just came with a disadvantage Getting drunk and throwing up on the bride or her throwing up on you Will be a throwing up contest |
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Wedding Ceremony....
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Just came with a disadvantage
Getting drunk and throwing up on the bride |
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Wedding Ceremony....
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if you count all the presents then the cost becomes and advantage. i see no disadvantages Like that thinking |
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Russian Men
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I just KNEW there were Russian agents in the UK! Life is "bloody awful" for a LOT of men, not just gay men. Relationshits are difficult for everybody as long as money is made scarce and laws are passed to favor corporations instead of people. What interests you so much about Russian men? |
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Russian Men
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believe me or believe me not ok. I'm a gay man who is trying to understand the mind-set of gay russian men. I've had limited success in cultivating some genuine non-sexual friendships. But it's depressing when the ones that failed, were because money was required for this or that. I know that life for gay men is bloody awful, and perhaps it's why so many are predatory, and have below the surface, this veneer of coldness. And they yearn for what other gay men have here. In the UK. Complete freedom,to be who we are. To love and be loved, by another man. Which is what I guess, we all want. I don't understand, I just don't.. Jonathan Hey Do you know Russia follows the Christian Orthodox religion? and they are verystrict about it. If you dont know that.....This religion and being gay are like oil and water. So if you are smart..... |
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Wedding Ceremony....
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Isn't it also about sharing your wonderful union with the other people who matter to you? I don't think there is -or has been- a people that did not celebrate a marriage. So the joy and sharing with others, making it a really memorable and festive day. Making it a very special event, after all marrying is something big. It's also the opportunity for others that love you to express their love and well-wishes. Disadvantage is the cost, yes, but isn't that at the same time part of making it special? Saving up for it because it means so much to you. In a way you can then also wonder if throwing a party is ever worth it, if it's not just providing people with free booze and food. Isn't the joy and shared happiness more important? Let me get this straight. The adv you mentioned is intertwined with cost. Hence no dis. Is that what you are saying, Sparkle or arre there any disadvantages? |
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Wedding Ceremony....
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It all depends on the couple and what they want to be remembered. I remember my wedding ceremony. It happened on a beach - same beach I proposed to her on - and we had a tailgate party, was in the in the evening. I wore my surfing suit and she had her one-piece bathing suit on and a shawl. What mattered is that we were getting married, not how much we spent on the ceremony. The cost of the ceremony need not be a disadvantage. Just like the advantages aren't necessarily free food and drinks for the gusts since they themselves also spend money on gifts and some of them help with the planning. Didnt say they are the only advantages. Just wanna hear from y'all the pros or cons. was about to add if there are any but stopped and |
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lfc
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That ref was a twit, never a penno But last year, we lost at Napoli in the group stages. And we all know, who won the cup No plain sailing in football. **** happens Aye. Bring on Chelsea You know what Tammy said? We will leave all our frustration on Liverpool LOL. See what he says after the 6th win in a row for us Cant wait |
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Wedding Ceremony....
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The ceremony itself, is symbolic in that it is where the couple promise to each other, and to their deity, (if applicable) their love for each other, and their commitment. Lets take that as an advantage. What about disadvantage? |
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Love or family
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As far as I know I love my family(every bit of them).
BTW when did family and love became separate? |
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Wedding Ceremony....
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Can anybody tell me the advantage and disadvantage of a wedding ceremony? Keep in mind... i didnt say wedding or the life after that. The ceremony itself.
Lemme start with the obvious disadvantage-COST Advantage- Free food and free booze for the invited people BTW DON'T TELL ME IT'S A PLATFORM TO BUILD YOUR LIFE and on and on...Just concentrate on the ceremony |
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lfc
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That ref was a twit, never a penno But last year, we lost at Napoli in the group stages. And we all know, who won the cup No plain sailing in football. **** happens Aye. Bring on Chelsea You know what Tammy said? We will leave all our frustration on Liverpool |
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Adventures end
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One adventure ends and another begins. I'm off to arhnem, Netherlands for 5 days to celebrate the 75th anniversary of the beginning of the liberation of Holland Its not Holland. Its the Netherlands Holland is comprised of two big states that make up the Netherlands. Before you ask I am not from The Netherlands nor Holland nor Europe |
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What annoys you most....
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Closed minded people
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lfc
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That ref was a twit, never a penno But last year, we lost at Napoli in the group stages. And we all know, who won the cup No plain sailing in football. **** happens |
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Real dating
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By the way I heard sometime ago, there is a WHY? movement some place
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Real dating
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We didnt get the answer for the "why" question.
In case you didnt see it WHY,WHY, WHY? |
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