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Thu 10/30/14 01:56 PM

What's so great about being a woman?


Boobies.




God gave US the boobies 'cuz He knew we can handle 'em.

If He'd given the boobies to you men, no work would ever get done 'cuz you'd just sit around playing with 'em, day in and day out.








blushingI just had to add (multiple orgasms) unless she is unlucky enough to be with a drunk 5 minute Boy!! frustrated oops) :angel: winking

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Thu 10/30/14 01:27 PM
smile2 (((((DAMN))))))
Foot-Mouth problem again????
((((WHODATHUNK??)))):angel: :angel:)Good things come to those that wait!! winking I know!offtopic oops tongue2

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Wed 10/29/14 03:22 PM
Edited by graywolf55 on Wed 10/29/14 03:28 PM
Anyone can be popular surrounded by millions of others and still be so alone "it kills them"!
((((((((Ghostwolf))))))))

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Wed 10/29/14 02:04 PM
drinks Personally I feel the same but leaving all options open. I see others around me spasing out on (what should be) for them not thinking of others around them! Sad situation! But beep in my mind (i'm comfortable),being Military you have the answer! (Survival Mode!)

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Wed 10/29/14 01:47 PM
blushing Maby that is what i should of said in the beginning! Culture,Respect,Honerabiety, is all that is needed in representing yourself! Mannerism,Selfrespect is what you are to others! That's (Old Fashion) to me! If you have pride in one thing then let it be yourself and others! Thank You navygirl!!smile2

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Wed 10/29/14 01:23 PM
My Father was born in 1910 my Mother was 16 years younger! I had 3 older sisters! Therefore I was brought up with respect, honor,manners,and courtesy! I was around a lot of older people with the same outlook as i have! They were of all cultures ,races religious beliefs!Respectable ! This is what i hope for in a future! I don't condemn others in their beliefs but wish them to honor mine! If i bring a Rose on a Date (who am i harming?)frustrated If you are offended-all is needed is for you to say so! There are others that apperate kind gestures and compassion. Without expectations or scenarios of past relationships! Those i don't need or want in and have their own falsehoods in being with Me! (Will)

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Wed 10/29/14 10:51 AM

My Dad is in the hospital in poor condition.....frown
A big hug for you and your Father ((PRAYERS))!!

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Wed 10/29/14 10:27 AM
Edited by graywolf55 on Wed 10/29/14 10:32 AM
flowerforyou I don't know even now why i joined a dating site, especially now since what happened last May with this injury. I've been in some of the forums and have got to know (the both sides) of navygirl in reading these topics and your comments also! I feel as a man I still can give in a relationship and that's the only thing keeping me from Deleting all of me on here, crawling inside of a shell and ((allowing no one in)) Give up!! I've seen bitter people go through life putting the same bitterness towards everyone around them, then die a lonely existence! With all i've seen you still,are a Beautiful person inside and out and deserve a good relationship and are willing to give the same as you are given!! You have been through Hell and more,the same as i have in life "in general" relations and otherwise!! Some more so than me, That's why i sent you a friends request (to be here for you) and all my other Friends as well!! We may disagree sometimes but i expect nothing less!! I do (from the Heart) wish you the best and you deserve the best!!! (Will):heart: You have so much to give and need the receiving part as i do!!blushing drinks

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Wed 10/29/14 06:29 AM


I am 61 yrs old and find most women my age still stuck on the possessive thing, single minded and singly determined to find a monogamous and monotonous relationship. What I suggest is they focus on loving the moment they are in and stop worrying about the rest of your life. It will take care of itself. Especially if you have the kind of friend you will find standing with you in the man you have unconditionally loved and supported. Don't label it, no conditions, no rules no boundary's, just devotion and appreciation that there is love present to be had and shared! As I tell everyone, 'Love Me While I'm Here'!


Maybe these ladies just want a nice guy to settle down with rather than playing games by dating guy after guy. Being monogamous means less chance of catching some sexual disease which is wise. Perhaps these ladies want a real man who is not afraid to commit rather than a immature man who wants to date like he is a 19 year old kid. Needless to say; thank you for reminding me hodw lucky I am to have stopped dating as I truly am not missing a damn thing.
sad brokenheart The dating world is going to miss out on a beautiful goodhearted (((((Lady!!)))))blushing

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Tue 10/28/14 06:06 AM
Summary; Just be yourself, If you don't believe that you want to give or receive in a relationship then don't! To me it shows your partner there are still (Old Fashion) people in the world left! Don't feel obligated to do anything you don't want happening to you! There ARE still (Good) Men and Women in the World that know what Selfrespect, Morals,with pride to maby keep Chivalry going for future generations? Talk but don't forget to listen also! Its not all about YOU in a healthy Relationship because you are not the only one involved! You are the only one that knows what you wish to give and receive! Thanks to Everyone that participated in my topic on your opinions! (Will) If you wish to keep this topic going then do so,but keep it clean as it was started! I will look in occasionally -maby comment. drinks

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Mon 10/27/14 03:18 PM

"Buy Me A Rose"

He works hard to give her all he thinks she wants
A three car garage, her own credit cards
He pulls in late to wake her up with a kiss good night
If he could only read her mind, she'd say:

Buy me a rose, call me from work
Open a door for me, what would it hurt
Show me you love me by the look in your eyes
These are the little things I need the most in my life

Now the days have grown to years of feeling all alone
And she can't help but wonder what she's doing wrong
Cause lately she'd try anything to turn his head
Would it make a difference if she said:

Buy me a rose, call me from work
Open a door for me, what would it hurt
Show me you love me by the look in your eyes
These are the little things I need the most in my life

And the more that he lives the less that he tries
To show her the love that he holds inside
And the more that she gives the more that he sees
This is a story of you and me

So I bought you a rose on the way home from work
To open the door to a heart that I hurt
And I hope you notice this look in my eyes
Cause I'm gonna make things right
For the rest of your life
I'm gonna hold you tonight
Do all those little things
For the rest of your life.






Aww ... See little things do matter. ... Keep the romance alive :-)
flowerforyou That was nice blondie thank you for sharing!!blushing

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Mon 10/27/14 03:11 PM

See, it's probably daft speaches like that that they find offensive mate.
I would respond to that (mate) but you put the shoulder on your own foot!! I'm not bickering with you as in another topic i started to have it shut down as before!! Don't!!!

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Mon 10/27/14 09:51 AM

My list is too long- but right now I mostly hate the fake profile liar scammers on this site :(
drinks Yes, this is an ongoing problem still here? I report this as fast as i get them requesting email from me! Then there are other red flags i'm sorting through, the mingle matches on here requesting friendship then not responding to my messages? I'm thinking one week to respond then forget them. Especially if i see them visible weekly.I friends request myself as well say match on here"still trying". I did have a topic "heads on the wall" once with good advice!! Still using it!!tongue2 :angel:

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Mon 10/27/14 08:55 AM
drinks Very,Very Wise!! Confidence in yourself , brings out the same in others!! Same as Morals,Respect,in yourself and showing others!! Gooooooood Point !! Don't expect any more than you yourself are willing to Give!!winking winking

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Mon 10/27/14 08:36 AM
drinks Good Morning to all on Mingle!! I've changed my filters here on mingle to add "friends" male or female so feel free to ask!! As stated i'm trying to be more active here in the forums until pain prevails !! Hopefully everyone has a good week!!smile2

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Mon 10/27/14 07:16 AM

MY "COMMON SENSE" tells me to find "FRIENDS" first, learn about them, as a "FRIEND". Then if you want to get closer, TALK with your "FRIEND" & see what their thoughts are. If they are not of the same mind, you still have a "FRIEND". All this "relationship" first & "FRINDS" later; is like "putting the cart in front of the horse". NOT the best way to go some where.
laugh Very wise words from a person that has been here longer than i have!! My first time on here i was bombarded with Women local and from different countries, it was astronomical?? To possibly find a "forever friend" then be a Friend First!! Times have changed for us "older people" but youth still lies in our Hearts! We just need to be careful here!! Join the forums there are some good Hearts there!! "SOME":angel:

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Mon 10/27/14 06:44 AM
Edited by graywolf55 on Mon 10/27/14 06:52 AM

This is all very interesting. So you think that if I replaced my main photo with one that is 'different', that more people would view my profile ? That sounds like a positive thing to me.
It adds Mystery!!devil scared Then they go to my pictures and think surprised At least they see the ghost wolf and read your information before getting the heck scared out of them?smile2

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Mon 10/27/14 06:17 AM
shades Oh, by the way~ there is not a breaking down in being a Man or Woman!! You either are or you are NOT!! There is a choice that only you can make, i impose nothing on anyone!!:angel:

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Mon 10/27/14 06:05 AM


It seems to work both ways for me.From what i have noticed,only a lady will understand and appreciate a romantic gentleman.Unless i have got to know her extremely well beforehand,i wouldn't usually do flowers on a first date,but i would give her chocolates if i knew she enjoyed that particular pleasure.As far as opening doors for her etc,i was brought up that way.I wouldn't order food for her unless she asked me to,i think that's a bit presumptuous.But i like to think i am observant and attentive,so i watch for signs to see if she expects that.My last date didn't turn into a romance,but we became great friends,and she gets Swiss chocolate each time we meet,just like she did on the date.After all,she is still a lady :smile:


A lady also appreciates a simple gesture without having gifts given to her. Me, I don't like chocolate, flowers, or jewelry, but I sure appreciate a man that listens to me. Or actually looks at me when we are out rather than gawking at other women as it always made me feel unattractive. I would love for a man to say and mean he is sorry rather than shoving flowers at me as an apology. Men still lack the basic communication skills even after all these years.
flowerforyou A lot of my friends say the same about my mannerism in conversion. A lady of 69 and my daughter 34. But there was a problem neither addressed in our conversation (they didn't take a breath between words)! If you "keep talking and not allow others to speak" then how is that a conversation? When i was young if you butted into a conversation you got smacked in the mouth!! (Manners) So in waiting for a break you miss out or were not allowed to interrupt others! I won't interrupt or try to out talk a woman its impossible!! I do listen and when you come up to breath try to answers comments or questions! Is this your problem in communication ? There is not a day that goes by that i know everything, when that day comes then i consider myself a dead!! Every day I listen and learn!! Personally you are a friend and a beautiful woman (bet that pissed you off) But let a Real Man be that!! You are X military now law enforcement (i believe) therefore taking a "man's role" in sioecity being a woman ! don't bring that into a relationship its too domineering unless you find a man that likes that. Yes i've seen the other problems you've addressed that has or is happening in your life! But if you are a fighter like myself (you hate pity) as i do! So kick Azzzz!! winking

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Mon 10/27/14 05:26 AM

What's the problem?

With "old fashion?"
In my experience the "problem" is usually one person subjectively interpreting what "old fashion" means and then expecting strangers to adhere to that subjective definition without knowing what it is.

In dating today women get offensive if the (MAN) shows up on a date with Flowers,opens the doors,helps with your seating,pays for the Date, and takes you home,walks you to your door, (optional) gives you a kiss

From my experience in dating today women get offended (sometimes, although rarely offensive) if the (man) shows up on a date with flowers, opens the doors, helps with her chair, pays, takes her home, walks her to the door, and it comes off as a script of what he thinks he's "supposed" to do, a facade, that he wasn't himself, he was only doing this because it was meant to manipulate her perceptions, AND (most importantly) has an idea of how she is "supposed" to respond in turn and she's judged offensive, or a psycho, or a *****, if she doesn't respond how he thinks she should because he did all these "gentlemanly" things.

Then goes home not expecting nothing in return but maby"another date or being a Honorable Person"?

No woman can read your mind about what you "truly" expect or not.

Is this a thing of the past a woman is this scared of having a Real Man in her life?

What is a thing of the past is your behavior (holding doors, pulling out chairs, etc.) no longer represents universal ideas.
What you are doing is not necessarily associated with "good" behavior anymore.
Has little to do with fear or "real man" nonsense.
Has more to do with education than anything, symbols being more complex.


rant No i see every day the MAN of today calling his woman a Bit-- i've heard it many times in these young snots that call themselves men? Most see jail or have criminal records, sit on their rear end collect social services, live off mom& dad not caring to have or find a job? I guess this in your definition is a man's man? There are some out here at least trying to accomplish and create a living? I guess in your definition nobody takes pride in the "Family Name?" Just produce these jerks and turn them onthe street so they can destroy what is achieved by others that they expect that is owed them? Not as long as i live!! oops No the big Man and Woman in todays world have almost every other word said is (F) world? Have baby-daddys or baby-mommy? There are no Men Or Mothers for these Children? Rare Few. Go complain about rape,diseases,robbery,to others then when it happens to you! Your children mirror you as the image an adult is supposed to be,so my advise is look in that mirror and consider if you want to reproduce?frustrated

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