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Fri 05/23/14 03:53 AM


. I gotta, I gotta.
. peeeeee..laugh



I was going to say this.

Wolf, where are you? I can help out.
:smile: Fredericksburg Va. my friend. But thank you for the offer anyhow!!happy I've been working on it now for 3 days, almost finished now. Again Thank You!!:smile:

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Fri 05/23/14 02:50 AM
ohwell I'm sitting here drinking my morning coffee and thinking of the Friends i've helped in the past i've talked to here recently about my surgery? And out of all of them a Man of 84 and his wife are the only 2 willing to assist me in preparations in packing for this move to my daughters ? He also recently went through surgery on his head(fluid on the brain) having a hole drilled in his skull to release pressure. I know their sincerity to help but tell them "i've got it covered"! Got to get it done while i still have 1&1/2 arms for the job. Where are the friends? Oh well i'm just sharing a morning thought here with my friends on mingle hopeing it just this area, or is it spread everywhere? Just a morning thought i needed off my chest.frown Enough of this:) ((( Goodmorning Mingle)))flowerforyou)

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Thu 05/22/14 02:10 PM

All you givers, can I hold $20 real quick..yeah thats what I thought. happy
:tongue: You wasn't quick enough, let it slide right through them fingers!!laugh That's what i figured" not quick witted enough to "close fingers"!! laugh Lesson for today (sarcasm) usually gets you ignored!!smokin devil

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Thu 05/22/14 01:49 PM
mad I'm not going to lie to anyone (i've relapsed) up to a pack a day again. I know shimmy, shimmy, shimmy, shame on you even my excuse isn't enough to justify it to Me! grumble grumble grumble Get this over with and the Doctor can put me on Medication to Stop it!!:(ohwell Chit happens.

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Thu 05/22/14 01:09 PM

Used to be a giver, a pleaser, eternal helper, mostly at my own expense.
Now I got healthier borders so if I give, it's okay, I don't overdo anymore. I've also learnt to receive when given, whether it's material or a compliment.
Just like MsHarmony I feel that asking for things is somewhat more difficult still, although I do do it at times. Depends on what it's about I guess.

Must say I find it typical that everyone says he/she's a giver, as if there's something wrong with taking? Both giving and taking can be wrong and hurtful to yourself (and others) if there is no inner balance. Seems to me that ppl think it looks better to say they're a giver and saying you're a taker means you're selfish.
flowerforyou

@ TXSgal, what a nice piccie you got up!
:smile: My own Daughter scold me for this(giver) but its just me i guess? I'm really working to bring a balance to this,but its really hard ! People throughout life had that option, "Taking Advantage"of my good Nature. But i always tell her" if it puts them in Heaven with it , Then it may keep me out of Hell-o without it. It always comes back!!happy

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Thu 05/22/14 12:45 PM
:smile: Always a Giver!! Here is the shirt off my back type! There goes my pants and shoes? Now where is the Nudity section on mingle? Got my hat left and if anyone takes where its hung- Surprise Surprise surprise.Glad to meet you(embarrassed) but still a happy devil !!

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Thu 05/22/14 11:32 AM

Oh well...jmo.....if you are going to keep that snail in your mouth...You are going to have to make people love or like you from the Inside Out...and it can be tough, if you dont do it right.flowers
:tongue: Yeah, What she said! And put your tongue in(besides mines longer)laugh With my teeth in i can wipe my eyebrows, With them out i can part my hair! Then a warm seatcushion you haven't grown yet!!laugh Cowgirl up!!devil Welcome to Mingle!!laugh I've been on here since i was 18- 21 whodathunk????smokin devil

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Thu 05/22/14 11:01 AM



no there is not. where all sex cazed man whores. we only think of one thing SEX. ok two things sex n food..well i guess three things.sex food and cars. maybe four things.aaaw forget it....where just whors.lol

Don't forget beer


Oh bingo :smile: I was about to suggest beer myself. Ya beat me to it ;)
devil Liquor is quicker, Wine makes you feel fine, Drink (one) beer then pee a gallon(just like coffee)!Turkey 101,Bucardy 151. Oh i forgot Shine makes all happy happy :happy ;):wink: :wink: laugh devil laugh :tongue:

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Thu 05/22/14 10:34 AM
laugh Thanks to everyone! But for putting my feet up? Adapt and Overcome has been my life motto! I have a lot of woodworking,with other projects to finish!! I can't use a drawknife or handplane now, so i bought a beltsander.happy Nothing short of Death will keep this Graywolf down for long!!:tongue: Then there is Gardening,Flowers(especially Roses)and of course Grandchildren to teach what i have learned through life!!happy laugh happy And a Daughter and Son-in-law to drive crazy!!devil Whoops i had better rethink that one( Might get my butt paddled):wink: Ok i'm up for Adoption as of NOW!! If i get paddled i'm going to at least enjoy it!!devil love

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Thu 05/22/14 10:09 AM
love flowerforyou My Wish has partially came true by my Friends i have here( THE BEST) As in my Life "the rest of my dreams are a conquest "!! (Now Back to Reality)happy devil

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Thu 05/22/14 09:36 AM
flowerforyou Neither, Its in the EYES and HEART of a
person! As long as their Heart is Good then everything else is a Bonus!!!!love happy devil Goes a long Way !!:flowerforyou;)

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Thu 05/22/14 09:26 AM

Wish you the best Greywolf and hope your recovery after surgery will be a swift one! Your friend, Missy flowerforyou
:smile: Thank You Missy! Maby if i'm feeling good enough to drive i may see some of you in Texas for the mingle you were talking about? At least meet some honest people in person(for once)! Too many (Uppidies) in my area? Your Friend(Will)flowerforyou 2 things that haven't caught up with some people is Age and Class!!devil

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Thu 05/22/14 05:51 AM


Am I playing with Mrs. Potato Head here?


laugh
laugh Getting a little mouldy to be "Mr Potato Head" but have Fun!!devil laugh Good Morning!flowerforyou

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Thu 05/22/14 05:11 AM
:smile: No,No,No- I've learned not to aggravate a Female long time ago!!devil Knots on me knoggen to prove it!!laugh Just enough "Drama" in life without adding more here! "Ommmmmmmmmmmmmm" Just Doing my meditating(stress relief)!!laugh

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Thu 05/22/14 04:30 AM


I've just learned to develop a thicker skin about it and trolls just don't really bother me anymore.

It is just people on the internet trying to get a reaction out of you, or just being annoying and they can only do that if you let them.

In a way it's like therapy or an anger management thing. There's not really anything that anybody on here can say to or about me that would really bother me anymore.


I too have developed my senses, reflexes and neutral defenses by my experiences online. But like I said, I'm here looking to connect with like minds on a dating site. I didn't come here thinking I was going to be unwittingly drawn into an anger management group therapy type thingy. :wink:


On the gaming site forum that I was on I was sent to the flame forum to do my posting because I was pissing off a lot of people by keeping criticising how a lot of other players were playing the game.

The rules are different in the flame forum and you can say pretty much anything that you like about anybody as long as you don't use personal information that they didn't bring into the ring themselves.

I actually give them personal information about myself out of choice and I don't have to do that and I could be a cowardly troll that flames other people but doesn't divulge things about myself like they are but that just makes them into shadowy non entities really and that's how I look at them.

It's called flamebaiting when people post things that are going to draw personal attacks.

If you do it on here you get the personal criticism and that maybe makes you think about yourself and your problems and you can become less sensitive about it.

It's not being able to take personal criticism that stops a lot of people from getting over their problems and holding onto anger and resentment.

Once you stop just blaming other people you can start to take a good look at yourself and really own up to your faults.

That's how I look at it.


This explanation is blowing me away.

If this is indeed how the games are played, or the fun is had on the boards... why is a dating site used in this manner?

Whose business is it of others to nit pick and criticize any other member for their personal views or beliefs on a dating site?

Even if people think they are trying to be of some psychological or social benefit to someone, if all they ever do is mock, poke fun and criticize how are they really being helpful?

Or are they merely justifying their bully and alienating divisive tactics with self denial excuses?

Isn't positive feedback ever an option? Or is the role of the group to completely tear a person down so they can remake them in their own image the only acceptable format?

If this is indeed the case, then we really don't know what kind of people we are meeting online who may have an agenda that has absolutely nothing to do with dating and making new friends.

To me this would be a more bait and switch type thing.
flowerforyou Good Morning (Beautiful)! Nobody needs a Thick Skin on here or anywhere else! Life is tough enough without this!! I'm not creating another shell to crawl into and neither should you!! Friends First:smile: ******** Begone!!devil Real Men and Women won't prevolk an argument anyhow just to make themselves look Good!!devil :tongue:

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Thu 05/22/14 04:09 AM
:smile: I finally have a date for surgery. Its the 4th of June. They have to reattach a tendon in my right sholdersocket.6 to 8 weeks in a sling, Then 7 to 9 months therapy-recovery time. Everything else is unknown until this surgery is performed.ohwell More time to aggravate on here!!devil Chin up,best foot toward!!:tongue: Selling my camper and moving near my Daughter soon after surgery, going to need help for this. flowerforyou

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Thu 05/22/14 03:32 AM
:smile: Very good Topic and intelectiol inputs! If only everyone would "practice what they preach" then this may be a dating site, not a debating site? laugh Meaning "a lot more (connections) and a lot less (rejections) here? Yes we have all been a Fool in life, But do we all need to be a Fool through life? Who Knows unless you try? But i guess i'm the only one that thinks that way anymore!!flowerforyou

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Mon 05/19/14 04:02 AM
flowerforyou Morning mingle. Hopefully your week is good!!:smile:

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Mon 05/19/14 03:58 AM
Very very stressful!

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Sun 05/18/14 06:57 AM
:smile: (i'm being created sooooooow)
Ashes to ashes dust to dust,
The Old Fart was burnt,
So his Weaner won't Rust!!
Viagra days may be coming near,
And when this happens I won't even be Here!!devil laugh