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Sun 02/22/09 11:05 AM
Don't expect everyone to agree with me. In fact that would be boring.

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Sun 02/22/09 10:58 AM

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Fri 02/20/09 08:45 PM

Can you have a good relationship with someone who you know isn't in love with you?:heart:


That would depend upon how you are defining a relationship and love. If you are speaking of a romantic relationship - unrequited love is one of the strongest forms of love. For there is always the hope...the desire the love will be returned. Is it healthy? Probably not.

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Fri 02/20/09 08:19 PM

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Fri 02/20/09 08:07 PM

decide that it's okay to meet face to face?


After talking on the phone...having a webcam session or two or three...when we both feel it is time to meet.

There is no fixed time line ... it is a process.

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Fri 02/20/09 06:00 PM

smile2 When was the last time you got stabbed in the back by a friend?smile2


A couple of months ago. It will not happen again!

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Fri 02/20/09 05:28 PM
Edited by Redshirt on Fri 02/20/09 05:30 PM

i was wondering what is the longest time that u have been single. i have been single for 14 years


As in not seeing anyone exclusively? Or in not being married?

The longest between an exclusive relationship - 7 years.

Not being married - 27 years. Job got in the way.

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Fri 02/20/09 05:13 PM

wonder whatever happened to the art of conversation? And what's with these people who give you one or two word answers at best? Complete sentences have become a thing of the past!


Some one said regarding the internet and e-mails people would relearn the Art of Conversation. Unfortunately that has not happened. Possibly because we have not mastered the Art of Listening.

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Fri 02/20/09 04:23 PM

that some women go out and blatantly wear a revealing outfit, but then get upset at guys staring? (This topic usually brings people out!)


Living in a warm climate have seen so many women in revealing outfits the ones who get a reaction are those who should not be wearing them. ill

Which makes one appreciate the others even more.


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Fri 02/20/09 04:03 PM

If you were to go out for the first time, the night rocks, but so does the bed later, would that make it impossible for that relationship to have a future?


Simple answer is - not going to happen on the first date. Will admit it has happened in the past. But won't be happening in the future. Want to get to know the person first.

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Fri 02/20/09 03:26 PM

what word that you forgot to say before you break up with your bf/gf or before he/she breaks up with you?


Good-bye.

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Fri 02/20/09 03:24 PM

How often do you want to see them? Is it needy to want to see them like 4 days a week?


Are you talking about physically seeing them? Or talking with them? It also would depend upon their schedule and my schedule. Think that talking two or three times a week is nice. Early in the relationship seeing each other (if possible 2 times a week).

Have to confess that there have been times I've broken these guidelines. slaphead Important to remember them.

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Fri 02/20/09 12:39 PM

Love to.....as long as you have it in Arizona. bigsmile


There is plenty of room around Nothing, Arizona. (As people quickly start trying to find it on the map. Yes it is a town in Arizona.)

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Fri 02/20/09 12:37 PM

Love to.....as long as you have it in Arizona. bigsmile


What about Vegas??? What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. oops Meant to say "your money stays in Vegas."

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Thu 02/19/09 08:48 PM
I've dated women with children...my ex had one child that lived with us a while...and 4 grown kids...2 of which lived with us at different times. NEVER viewed them as "baggage". Actually got very close to some former SO's kids. One even referred to me as "dad". It does present challenges...but ones worth working through.

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Thu 02/19/09 08:08 PM
Once thinking I was switching calls ... ended up with a 90 minute LD call. oops Phone company was understanding and gave me a credit.

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Thu 02/19/09 08:02 PM


Enjoy the craziness.

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Thu 02/19/09 07:47 PM
Edited by Redshirt on Thu 02/19/09 07:49 PM

are looks the reason you first talk to some one, or is it there personality?


A combination of both. Hopefully, their picture gives me a hint about their personality. Have met some very "attractive" people who have no personality and some "average" people who just bubble with personality. So lean more towards personality. When you have both it is a bonus.

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Thu 02/19/09 05:53 PM

how young is too young for you?


It isn't age as much as it is common interest, the ability to communicate, and share common goals.

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Thu 02/19/09 04:48 PM

:heart: I read an article about love, and the controversy was over if love was actually a emotion or an action, what do you think?:heart:


Believe it is both. It is an emotion that motivate one to action. It is also an action that can invoke an emotion or an action.