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Sat 05/10/08 07:32 PM

Why are people who are separated and filed for divorced put down so badly for dating?

I don't understand it. I mean, I can sort of understand if they said they were separated and haven't filed for divorce yet (and even that I have a hard time understanding) but if they are in the divorce process, then that tells me they are done with the marriage and are looking to move on with their life with someone new. What is so wrong with that?

Why do they have to wait until the divorce is final to make it "okay" to finally date?
What if it takes years for the divorce to be final due to not being able to pay for it, the other person can't be located to serve the papers, or there is a custody battle? I've been divorced for 16 years but when I started the process it took me forever to find my ex because he had joined the Army and was overseas.

Can someone shine a little light on this subject so I can understand why people put them down so badly for doing this.


There is nothing wrong with what you are doing!!!! It is some peoples ignorance to the fact that you might find happiness flowerforyou before they do!!!

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Sat 05/10/08 07:23 PM

my house right now.

noway laugh laugh

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Sat 05/10/08 07:19 PM

just go for it. You won't know unless you try. I'm sure he is scared too.


That is true wisdom there! You'll never know!

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Sat 05/10/08 07:09 PM
That seems odd after 2 months! She may be using you as a stepping stone to her next true love! Inquiring minds want to know!!!!noway

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Sat 05/10/08 07:02 PM

them the next day after your first date and does not answer the phone or return your voicemail that day, do you call them the again the following day, wait a completely arbitrary amount of time, or simply wait them out until they do call?

In the latter case, if they do not call back, you simply move on.


I'D wait a day or two! Then, if they do not call back, you simply move on.

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Sat 05/10/08 06:45 PM
A song!!!!! Its one that will make you cry!!!!!!:cry:

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Sat 05/10/08 06:39 PM

What the other person is hoping to get out of the relationship... friends... friends w/ benifits... a life long partner... etc...

I should probably know this stuff but I am really bad at dating... I was married for 13 years so I am a little rusty!!!

HELP!


I would want to know as soon as I could! That way, either one,
or both of you can run like hell!laugh

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Sat 05/10/08 06:32 PM
Take a ride on the "LOVE TRAIN" huh! Thats a good country line dance! laugh I can do the dance, but in reality, I missed the train when it comes to love!sad

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Sat 05/10/08 06:23 PM
Mine was Bruce Lee, Chuck Norris, Steven Segal! They always kicked BUTT !!!!!!!!!!bigsmile

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Sat 05/10/08 06:19 PM
Toaster Strudel! Because they are like a good woman! They're softer, flaky, and you get to put the icing on yourself! And when they are warmed up, look out! Goes good with coffee!
laugh drinker

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Thu 05/08/08 11:12 AM
Normally twice a day! Sometimes 3 times. Always in morning, towards nite before bed, and always after a sexual encounter. I like feeling clean and refreshed to sleep.drinker

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Thu 05/08/08 11:05 AM
Brooks and Dunn in State College Penna. Think it was the Neon circus tour! Was great!!!!!!!! drinker

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Thu 05/08/08 11:01 AM

At least it was found by honest people and got back to you. Probably just a temporary brain-toot on your part. Wait until you're my age!! It only gets worse!! drinker flowerforyou

If your that bad now! Wait till your my age!flowerforyou grumble laugh

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Wed 05/07/08 01:02 PM

When someone tells me they want to add me to their friends list but only if I can turn into a blue box!

When I post a topic of "Hey ladies how hot am I" and I get no replies but I have 837 views!

When I search women in my area and my own damn picture keeps popping up!

When some female posts a topic of how lonely they are and I send them an email telling them I am available. 10 minutes later I see another post from the same female saying "being alone ain't so bad after all"

When I send an email to someone and I get an email back saying "This person has moved to an un-published email address" (this happens a lot)

When someone posts they are coming to Myrtle Beach for vacation and I post that I'll be glad to show em around. Then I see another post that they have decided to go to Cleveland!

When I post that I am looking for a woman, any woman and I get many responses saying I have set my goals to high.

When I post on JSH "is there any women in the Myrtle Beach area" and I hear 3 women yelling "NO"...they all live in my neighborhood!

When I get a notice of a mutual match and when I click on it you see a picture of someone's ass and my face.

It's got to get better!grumble








Seems like you are a funny guy! Keep up the good work. Women love a good sense of humor!drinker bigsmile

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Wed 05/07/08 12:54 PM
yes I do! It seems like a good idea at the time. But then I stop and realize, that if I did, I may not be happy any how!
Im so used to doing everything on my own. Ah, hell, I'd miss the chase!noway grumble huh laugh

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Tue 05/06/08 10:59 PM
Hey! Have fun and enjoy!

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Tue 05/06/08 10:58 PM
How you doing? Have fun and enjoy!

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Tue 05/06/08 03:37 PM
Thats great!!! good luck!!!flowerforyou bigsmile

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Tue 05/06/08 11:38 AM
My provider, my healer, and my instrument of peace.The key, is not to change what you do, but to change your attitude toward what you do. bigsmile


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Tue 05/06/08 11:15 AM
I do the neck, face, underarms, then my hair, then right on down!

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