while talking to some of the people in POF, if i dont reply for a day or two, they never write me back. i can send like 3 messages explaining, and trying to start a new conversation, and theyll never write me back. seems to me like theyre spinning out of control... how do you just ignore someone because you didnt get your way, for one day?! i have a feeling its because theyre talking to someone else now. who rushes into things that quick...

anyone else ever had this happen?

no.

idk, some features arent the same. im not against it, but im not for it. its like plan B. maybe...

leave them, theyre not friends.

i want children, so, yeah, im serious.

eww. who says things like that? i dont! thats like 'your car is so nice i want to rob you.' if those are the kind of compliments you get from guys, you need to carry mace.

i thought race was, class or group.

nope.

how would you respond if someone asked you to marry them, in the first message youve ever received from them?

not living in it.

((fantasy))

dagmar. (german)

reminds me of pokemon. (magmar)

best name ever!!!

my personality is.

i wear a shirt in real life though.

not really.

except im a compulsive liar.

keep it to myself.

oh, my. thats cute.

not.

((realist))

she does. she just doesnt want to date right now... which kills me. cause at least if she dated someone else, i feel like i could move on. even though i would hate that. im told im first on her list... but girls flirt so much its hard to tell when theyre just being nice, to not offend. ...shes just playing hard to get.

i feel like its misleading, to start a relationship thats suppose to be long term (at least 2 years) when within the first month of getting to know them, if i didnt like them, i would end it... which is the same as casual dating, or talk/email. so, whats the long term options suppose to mean?

i posted a topic about being in love with my best friend. we talk everyday for almost 7 months now. were really close as friends.

since im sick of being single, and i dont sleep around, im looking for marriage. couldnt imagine anyone better then my best friend, cause we get along so well. but i dont think thats happening.

how do you move onto others, without feeling guilty? do serious relationships exist, just because you want them too? i see the terms 'long-term' and 'serious' on dating sites. isnt that like signing your soul away, without reading the fine print? i know i dont want dating or an activity partner though, cause im not a club person, or one to really care about strangers, specially if itll cost me dinner, and im not looking to sleep around.

i know i wont get over this without moving on, but none of the options to move forward seem like good options...

any opinions?

i wouldnt date someone who didnt have some type of anxiety... or depression. just wouldnt work. we would be to different.

your friends sound mentally ill to me.
who fcks a crazy just to get laid?
sounds like they have some twisted fantasys, maybe wanna be rapist... or some sad self esteem issues.

anxiety and trust issues here.

i think its true.