I often wonder. Outside of the forums there seems to be a lot of interaction phobia.

This is sounding a bit smug and going in the direction of what sounds like schadenfreude which is a German phrase meaning someone gets malicious enjoyment from the suffering of another.

This is not a healthy or genuine interest in their welfare and will certainly not lead to a happy relationship or friendship.

The Vapors - Waiting For The Weekend

For observation purposes. here is a typical response from a woman that men lose interest with fast. It just stinks with the cliche of,"us men just want to get the woman in the sack story". By the time you are 40 plus this gets so boring. When you write so many nice messages just to be ignored, just how much enthusiasm can a man have left. It does not feel such a big waste of time if you begin with a small introduction then if she likes you and replies then messages will become longer as there looks like a glimmer of worth while interest.

ABBA : Soldiers

Abba - When All Is Said And Done

Yeah. Good one dear, Buh, am just ready and with good intent too. So??


You could date Sophia Robot from the Hanson Company. She will never rudely answer you back or be an expert in nagomatics.
She will be very loyal and do anything you ask.

They may be fake perverts, there are a lot of fake women with tit pics also but I can imagine they are deleted by moderators eventually.

Indeed many profiles do seem rather dormant. Only a small number of active members have the courtesy to reply as an observation. A lot of them just ignore your message but may look at your profile.
Some members are unfortunately fake which is prevalent on a lot of sites.
The community blogs here are fairly active though which is a good thing.

It depends what you define as losers and good ones.

After all everyone sees individuals differently.

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Certainly ,they live too far away.

The forums are better, at least it's more social there.

The White Stripes-Fell In Love With A Girl.

The Hives-Hate to Say I Told You So.

The Vines - Don't Listen To The Radio

The Who - You Better You Bet -1981

Don't hold your breath, even the real ones don't respond. If you are not their type,fine but it speaks volumes when they are so ignorant.

See it as an advantage that you didn't miss much there :)

Some don't seem to mind, I recall there was a bi man at an old work place that was happily married to a woman. They seemed really happy together.

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I'm clean cut with no tattoos and I can relate to how you feel as I do not find tattoos attractive on women either. It is certainly personal taste and it is frustrating in this decade as the tattoo trend is so popular and makes the dating pool even smaller to the clean skinned minority out there. Unfortunately it is a trend that is permanent and growing ,especially advertised in the media.
Why I like clean skin on a woman is because it radiates to me that she cares about her appearance and skin and that matters to me. The natural unspoilt beauty has perfect symmetry and it looks so classy clean especially when she wears a great dress.
It is not unreasonable to want what you are attracted to and should not feel ashamed about it.