Single mothers have become some of my favorite people to chat to. I recently had one vent about her issues and worries and i found myself feeling good and kinda intrested.

That sounds kinda selfish don't you think?

Who seeks out drama and stress?
If you enter into a relationship with someone do you cause drama and stress on purpose?
This just makes absolutely no sense to me?

Pretty weird , Duncan

I had my fill of conversations with single mothers quite a few years ago and, like you, I found myself feeling good too but not "interested" as I got to know enough to know not to date them... before knowing enough not to date any woman for the sake of my survival and freedom.

Maybe. But from what it sounds like to me, He's giving a sympathetic ear to these/this woman. In a way I guess that's OK. Being a friend and all. But. At the same time, it does become tiresome listening to someone complain about the women/men/issues in their lives.

I know I don't want to hear it anymore. If a woman starts that with me now, I run. I know right then she has too much drama in her life. Plus, I know what else it can lead too.

Some men have been known to get too close. A woman complains in a man's ear about her boyfriend or husband. He's not treating her right, blah, blah. The next thing you know he is all drawn into her drama and wanting to beat the man that's treating her wrong. Some men have been known to wind up dead because of some woman's drama.

I hope I'm understanding him right.

don't you think that its weird to feel good about someones worries?

I think he means, he feels good about being a shoulder to cry on.

Op deactivated.

I’m agree about your opinion, but a single mum need someone to support her emotional so she needs someone who can share with and drag in the listener to her drama to make her feel better. Good listening also part is helping people

The foundation for healthy self-esteem can only be found inside yourself.
Emotional maturity can not be given to someone else.
Decisive actions require self-honesty and rational thinking.

If your life is in turmoil only you can fix it.
You might not like what you will have to do to fix it, but its your life.
You are the only one that lives behind your eyes.

OPie thinks he found a niche of stereotyped
"easy pickins".

Men One who just vented online says single moms can only get their mind straight alone and another thinks single moms must be easy. Then men wonder why women rarely answer their text.

And here i thought it was because men don't use enough smileys.

This is sounding a bit smug and going in the direction of what sounds like schadenfreude which is a German phrase meaning someone gets malicious enjoyment from the suffering of another.

This is not a healthy or genuine interest in their welfare and will certainly not lead to a happy relationship or friendship.

Is there a section for us Single Dads?

I was married to an Asian girl
together we had a child
at the age of three
we had our child tested for Autism
The Doctor informed us our child was indeed born with Autism,
Two weeks later we had a conversation and it went like this, see video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtlWY-_lm_0

and I quote ' I am ashamed to have given birth to an imperfect child '
My jaw dropped to the floor...
More so when I read she has moved out - and left me to raise our 3-year-old child alone.

I have been blessed with my child, a true gift from God Himself.
I have devoted my life to my child.