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Fri 08/16/24 01:13 AM
Ramones, The.

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Thu 08/15/24 02:09 AM
In most societies, you can only be married to one person at the same time. I have difficulty in understanding how you can be in love with more than one person to the extent of wanting to be married to both or even more people at the same time. I believe when you are in love with someone and want to be married, you are in love with them and only them, if you loved someone else at the same time, are you really in love with either of them to want to marry both, I think that is very questionable. Polyamory seems to me more a 'Friends with Benefits' type of relationship, I would doubt any romantic love exists between all the partners.

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Thu 08/15/24 01:27 AM
Living apart together, by each staying in your own place at least to begin with is an idea. If you do actually own your own home, I agree you need to make sure you keep it by renting it out if necessary, and make a prenup/preliving together agreement, to ensure what is yours stays yours if the relationship fails, so you will always have a place to live.

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Thu 08/15/24 01:04 AM
Queen.

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Wed 08/14/24 12:55 AM
smashed

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Wed 08/14/24 12:42 AM
James Last Band.

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Tue 08/13/24 01:34 AM
Genesis.

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Tue 08/13/24 01:29 AM
Thanks for all your responses. I would prefer we live at my place, but personal circumstances influence decisions at the time, and as mentioned already the amount of 'baggage' one of you has accumulated over the years where you live. I agree, what is most important is that you are together.
South of France would be nice as well in the summer time. smile2

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Mon 08/12/24 01:46 AM
When you have met the right person, and both of you decide to marry or maybe live together, would you want to live at your place, their place, somewhere new starting afresh? Where do you think is the best place to start living together? Does it really matter where you live, what are your thoughts?

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Mon 08/12/24 01:11 AM
Duran Duran.

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Sun 08/11/24 01:23 AM
Boomtown Rats, The.

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Sat 08/10/24 12:09 PM
Zebra.

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Fri 08/09/24 12:21 AM
Wham.

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Thu 08/08/24 01:05 AM
You choose the life you want to lead. Many people spend months away from home working, some overseas, armed forces, on oil rigs, ships, and they have wives or girlfriends. Partners who have accepted their chosen careers. In my opinion you need to think how to meet a future girlfriend or wife, as already mentioned meeting someone online is a good place to start. There are many dating agencies that specialise in bringing professional people together. When creating your profile on a dating site as long as you are clear on your life style, then there will be no surprises for any future partner, and those that do contact you will be genuinely interested in getting to know you. Good luck in your search.

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Thu 08/08/24 12:37 AM
Unit 4 plus 2.

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Wed 08/07/24 11:20 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Wed 08/07/24 11:23 AM
Shadows, The.

(Doooh, my mistake. Nice to keep it tidy. smile2 )

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Wed 08/07/24 01:12 AM
It's just a turn of phrase, not to be taken in a literal sense.

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Wed 08/07/24 12:56 AM
Queen.

(Chemical romance? The mind boggles. laugh )

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Mon 08/05/24 11:30 AM
Oasis.

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Mon 08/05/24 12:39 AM
Kinks, The.

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