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Wed 02/22/12 06:02 PM

Been chatting to a man on another site. He had a lot in common and got on really well. We swapped phone numbers and conversation flowed. We decided to meet.

We didn't gel :(

We have everything in common, some of which is really uncanny. He was really keen to start a relationship. I felt he was moving too fast. The other mistake I made was meeting him at his house (I know, not the safest thing in the world), the reason for this is we both play the same musical instrument so had a bit of a jam session which was the best part of the "date".

Unfortunately, after a couple of hours I started to feel quite unwell and cut short the meeting as I had a long drive home. He was not happy that I left and made that clear. He seemed quite hurt. I have not heard from him since, nor have I contacted him. My phone did ring last evening and it was a withheld number. I know everyone who's got my number and I think it may have been him but whoever it was didn't say anything and hung up. Could easily have been a wrong number.

He did tell me he was the type who wore his heart on his sleeve (he does) and had been hurt in the past.

What gets me is how can two people who have so much in common just not gel when it comes to meeting.

I'm the type of person who really needs to get to know a person before I can take that relationship further and I did tell him this on more than one occasion in the course of conversations before we met.

It seems a shame because we had the basis for a very good relationship and him trying to rush things scared me off. He wanted us to enter a full-on, committed relationship there and then. I'm a bit more cautious and wanted to be friends first and see how things progressed.

I'm also a widow. He is a divorcee and has been living alone for many years. We're both in our 50s so not exactly spring chickens!

First,,please NEVER trust a house number and addy,,he could know the owners away on vacation,,and call ya to meet him there,,and be waiting to rob you or steal your car, rape or kill you..THATS HAPPENED in this World..
Let me say this to,,IF he got up-set when you wanted to go home and didn't feel well,,,THATS NOT NORMAL,,,no matter any reasoning of that Nature,,,ANY FRIEND OR STRANGER,,would GIVE YOU THAT RESPECT and fully understand why you needed to cut it short..
Life's funny,,but had he gave you anything to drink,,and did you get worse after being at your house? just saying?
he could have slipped ya something? And,,the SHOWING YOU HE WAS HURT? When you wanted to leave,,like HOW?? in anger,,whinny?
Thats just all wrong as well..and
on your thoughts of how can two people who have so much in common NOT hit it off when they do get to meet,,,well let me say this,,HE MAY REALLY NOT HAVE ANYTHING IN COMMON WITH YOU?
And he was full of BS?
And another thing REALLY CREEPS ME OUT HERE,,is the fact HE WANTED TO ADDRESS YOU with BEING in a relationship with him RIGHT THERE AND THEN!!!,,,
YOU and HIM,,just met,,,and he hasn't even kissed you yet?
And he want to not jump into BUT FREAKING DIVE INTO a relationship with you? Thats very ODD..
I would THANK GOD for whatever reason you felt ill and tonever see him again would be my BEST for ya to do,,He strikes ME,,as being very OFF CORSE to norms,,and even kindness ,,as to your being sick?

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Wed 02/22/12 05:42 PM
:angry: GIRLS HUH,,




grumble FINE,,,,,,,,



noway and THIS isn't a TOWN,,its a JUNGLE,,I mean,,Internet Site.


whoa I THINK,,slaphead but anyway,,WELCOME,,and,,well,,all the chicks hang out over at freds place,,or the lion's den,,
BUT,,,,I can't tell you that,,because,,you asked for girls,,so ,,as I'm not even a boy anymore,,as I am a MAN now,,I feel really out of place,,,so,,I better go,,,whoa rofl rofl waving

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Wed 02/22/12 05:36 PM
:wink: drinker TELL-IT like it is woman,,stand-up and be YOU!!
I LOVE IT!!!!!! Haven't seen ya for a while here Jamie,,but glad your back at writing,,flowerforyou

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Wed 02/22/12 05:25 PM
A wasted life to himself he feels,
Boring World, A rush for thrills.
One day his high, turned to goodbye.
Now he dreams, he's really not dead.
His family cries they had no clue.
His friends all gathered, crying, so blue.
All blaming themselves, saying, I SHOULD HAVE KNEW.

Not even a year after this..

Three of your friends, Took their lives to,
your sister, got hooked on crack,
your best girlfriend over-dosed on her meds.


All because you, you lived like you wanted to be dead...








Your write above here,,is really COOL,,I had to go read your profile to check and see who you were,,as your new on here to me,,and to read a little about ya,,YOU WROTE,,You loved a good story. SO,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I gave ya one here,,,drinker :wink:

You have a flaire for writing dark,,,it comes through well.
But,,I was glad to read,,how special YOU hold each moment of life living...laugh bigsmile as some who write dark,,live life worse than they write...GOD bless the gifts he gives us,,
Look forward to reading more,,,:banana:



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Wed 02/22/12 06:51 AM




GOOD MORNING LADIES OF MINGLE,,,
and may I say,,,,,

As you wake me, soft kisses,
where I can't see.
my hands upon your hair,
you loving on me there.
Tender licks on my tummy,
my chest and points..
up to my face,
as you straddle,
so comfy,
your perfect sitting place.
Kisses on my forehead, and cheek.
As you slowly rock in your seat.
Your hands upon my chest,
pushing now harder,
taking us farther.
Flipping your hair back,
showing me your, all, that.
Into your balanced, rhythm.
Your hands now on my tummy.
Perfect postured pivots, racing,
Morning smiles so wild and free,
hair snapping back and forth, bouncing.
Pushing up, deeper into you I'll be.
The sun bursts through the window.
Explosions releasing, within.
Morning has broken,
not a word spoken..........:heart:

Steamy maybe???noway surprised tongue2



Good morning Terry....Hummmmmm"Morning has broken, not a word spoken"...That is steamy!flowerforyou flowerforyou
Slowly but surely,,I'm learning to use LESS,,and say much more,,but its tough trying to do in acts of love,,,I'm not sure why really?,,But,,at least THIS might have a R rating verses my XXX I have posted,,,lol,,so I'M TRYING to be LESS..graffic


Your poetry just keeps getting better and better...and it was damn good to begin with!!flowerforyou

Bt the way, morning!!waving

:banana:
noway THANKS,,and what? Morning,,,ITS MORNING ALREADY OHHHHHCHITTT,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,Good morning, and have a safe and blessed day as you look out and see this ugly dang day here,,blawwww,,,lol its like dark and wett,,,I'm off to Chicago,,and Rockford,,,share some smiles,,,,:banana:

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Wed 02/22/12 06:34 AM
Edited by iam4u on Wed 02/22/12 06:39 AM


:heart: I hope and Pray that EVERYONE HERE,who might have ISSUES with someone else,,within their thoughts and conversations with others,,I hope YOU ALL FIND A PEACE,,that shall NOT HURT OTHERS ON HERE...The wise person will always not speak,,as to speak with bad thoughts. Those who seek to be cruelto others, merely are not at peace with who their live as.
This is a place to find here,for EVERYONE to RESPECT EACH OTHER.
:heart: May you all have a happy and safe day, God Bless..


God bless you, too, Terry. flowerforyou flowerforyou
:heart: Thank you Ruth,,this is my sanctuary of fun,hopes,and entertainment,,as MANY come here for that.
SO as life is short,
and NOBODY KNOWS ANOTHER'S LIFE,WITHOUT LIVING IN THEIR SHOE'S FOR A DAY...so we shouldn't just JUDGE someone based on words that moment,,as moments always change,,,

I have had MANY good people,,and good friends here,,leave here,,after little words,,that just struct them,,that day,,like a sledgehammer,,,,,so I CARE,,and TRY,,to let others see and know,,words can REALLY HURT..:wink: :heart:
NOW,,your have a much better day Ruth,,because you started IT OUT,,with KINDNESS,,,:wink: laugh :banana: Thanks again..

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Wed 02/22/12 06:20 AM
:heart: I hope and Pray that EVERYONE HERE,who might have ISSUES with someone else,,within their thoughts and conversations with others,,I hope YOU ALL FIND A PEACE,,that shall NOT HURT OTHERS ON HERE...The wise person will always not speak,,as to speak with bad thoughts. Those who seek to be cruelto others, merely are not at peace with who their live as.
This is a place to find here,for EVERYONE to RESPECT EACH OTHER.
:heart: May you all have a happy and safe day, God Bless..

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Wed 02/22/12 05:56 AM

Can we sit and talk
for just a moment
I don't know why
But I'd really like you to listen
There's something on my mind
and it's been making me sane
Did you hear that
No wait
Not that one
I only have a few more
before I'm thrown over the edge
Ramblings, whispers, shouts
Can you make them stop
wait
there it is again
over and over it's the same
Please just sit and listen
I promise i won't be but a minute



WAIT,,were YOU talking to me?
Or was I talking to YOU?

OK,,we almost talked to each other..noway

Nice write,,,,as westay in our confusions,,,:heart: drinker




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Tue 02/21/12 10:49 PM
bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile


Did YOU make anyone smile today?
And if so,,why and how many?drinker :wink: bigsmile happy




OH,,and IF ya need one,,PLEASE feelfree to take one with ya..

smile2 rofl happy :smile: :wink: laugh bigsmile :tongue: happy laugh :wink: :smile: happy bigsmile happy :wink: :wink: laugh :smile: bigsmile bigsmile happy :smile: :wink: happy bigsmile :smile: :wink: happy laugh rofl

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Tue 02/21/12 10:44 PM
:heart: Hello and welcome,,and IF you had to be on the Net to have conversation,,,THIS is the best site your find,,
Many folks like this sweet woman,like above,txmom,,are on here and she has told ya right..May I just add that the more replies you do,,the more your seen by all,,and the more friends here your have a chance at calling them a friend,,,GOOD LUCKflowerforyou

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Tue 02/21/12 10:17 PM
I have a dear friend I call Mac,
she almost gave me a heart attack.
She has flown away, not here today.
Has she passed by, your way?
Send me an email my way..
I think she was one of are best,
and this place comes with much duress.
I hope she is OK,
She'll be missed here everyday..
This will be her welcome back.
so come on people, cut her some slack.
Hey Mac,,,this was written,
because,,FRIENDS DO CARE..
And on here,,we share..
Story's, poems, hearts, and love..
I love you my friend,,
so,,,smile, and give me a big HUG..:heart: drinker

IF anyone knows if she's ok,,write me please..thanks..

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Tue 02/21/12 08:59 PM
In the back of my mind,
your always live and be.
Out of the corner of my eye,
Your face, I'll see.
When I want to count on you,
I'll use my fingers.
With every step I take forward,
thoughts of yours, lingers.
When I rub my eyes,
your be my blue skies.
When I blow my nose,
I'll remember your cries.
Whenever I laugh,
I'll see your smile.
When I feel my heart thumping,
I'll pray,
your's is still pumping.
I guess it's true.
Every part of me,
Holds a little bit, of You.
Mother, I LOVE YOU!!!!:heart:



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Tue 02/21/12 07:46 PM
:heart: Your Dad has my Prayers and hopes Kirk...
Just try and pass time with your Mom,,as I am sure she is also worried,,,

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Tue 02/21/12 07:36 PM
When in their prime, of time..lol The top ten of my years seeing.

Elvis, the women of the World proved that.
Paul Newmen.
Brad Pitt.
Steve McQueen.
Robert Redford.
John Trivota.
Tony Curtus.
Robert Conrad.
Davi Jones,(The Monkeys),,,,lol,,chicks loved him,,
Sam Elliott.


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Tue 02/21/12 07:18 PM

wow, nice and smooth and deep, i need a beer. :) it is a uplifter for me. *smiles*

good write i really enjoyed reading it!
drinker Drink one for me Kirk,,and thanks man.
I HOPE you been doing good,,its been awhile since I seen ya here.
keep on being and smiling bro...drinker

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Tue 02/21/12 07:09 PM
Edited by iam4u on Tue 02/21/12 07:10 PM


GOOD MORNING LADIES OF MINGLE,,,
and may I say,,,,,

As you wake me, soft kisses,
where I can't see.
my hands upon your hair,
you loving on me there.
Tender licks on my tummy,
my chest and points..
up to my face,
as you straddle,
so comfy,
your perfect sitting place.
Kisses on my forehead, and cheek.
As you slowly rock in your seat.
Your hands upon my chest,
pushing now harder,
taking us farther.
Flipping your hair back,
showing me your, all, that.
Into your balanced, rhythm.
Your hands now on my tummy.
Perfect postured pivots, racing,
Morning smiles so wild and free,
hair snapping back and forth, bouncing.
Pushing up, deeper into you I'll be.
The sun bursts through the window.
Explosions releasing, within.
Morning has broken,
not a word spoken..........:heart:

Steamy maybe???noway surprised tongue2



Good morning Terry....Hummmmmm"Morning has broken, not a word spoken"...That is steamy!flowerforyou flowerforyou
Slowly but surely,,I'm learning to use LESS,,and say much more,,but its tough trying to do in acts of love,,,I'm not sure why really?,,But,,at least THIS might have a R rating verses my XXX I have posted,,,lol,,so I'M TRYING to be LESS..graffic

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Tue 02/21/12 06:42 PM
TWB,TAZZ,LEIGH,
TARA,and SIN..
Thank YOU ALL MUCH,,Because its THESE,,,YOU REPLIES,,that help me feel I'm not just giving three and four hours of my life away,,when making them..YOUR replies MAKE ME FEEL,,,YOUR HEARTS..Thanks
:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:




Sometimes when trying to work a thought out,,inside your mind.
You stumble across a phrase,,that just STOPS YOU,,in its WOW?
and in THAT,,it was my last sentence,,which built all that was above it..

You give me everything, I could never take.....


for all the feelings and ways inside us ALL,,make us WHO we are as a person..and its WITH THEM,,we shall ALL die still holding them,within..

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Tue 02/21/12 12:12 PM
Edited by iam4u on Tue 02/21/12 12:18 PM
Your my real, in a world so fake.
Giving me everything,
you could never, forsake.
All your kisses,hugs and smiles.
Give me reason,
for my long days of endless miles.
Baby, it's you who feeds my desire.
Living out here,
in this world filled with, pain, rain and fire.
Honey its you, who I've found so true.
Believing in me, giving me, all of you.
God Himself, made you so real,
It's that you, no one can steal.
Inside your heart,
is the complete love,
the only love,
your heart could ever make.
You give me everything,
that I could never,,,,, take.:heart:

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Tue 02/21/12 11:32 AM


As you wake me, soft kisses,
where I can't see.
my hands upon your hair,
you loving on me there.
Tender licks on my tummy,
my chest and points..
up to my face,
as you straddle,
so comfy,
your perfect sitting place.
Kisses on my forehead, and cheek.
as you slowly rock in your seat.
your hands upon my chest,
pushing now harder,
taking us farther.
Flipping your hair back,
showing me your, all, that.
Into your balanced, rhythm.
your hands now on my tummy.
Perfect postured pivots, racing,
Morning smiles so wild and free,
hair snapping back and forth, bouncing.
pushing up, deeper into you, I'll be.
The sun bursts through the window.
Explosions releasing, within.
Morning has broken,
not a word spoken..........:heart:


.....Can I have SOME too?, :)......Very Very Nice Visual!
:heart: flowers Tara,,,noway SOME TO?
Well,,,YES,,,,all that you can handle,,,,:banana: OH,,,Maybe you meant, these guys,,,,laugh :heart: :banana: tongue2
This would make a GREAT WAY,,to say GOOD MORNING to each other,,,
pitchfork <--------he comes out sometimes,,,:banana: laugh

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Tue 02/21/12 12:03 AM

Well Terry not really in sparks in my memories but it did spark some fantasies
noway WELL,,Thats even BETTER....love :wink:
I bid you G-night,,and sweet dreams...flowers hugs..

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