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God
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Where IS God In The Church. In the people? |
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Moving on...?
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I don't think that there has to be a set time that you are with someone that determines the amount of loss that you feel when it is over. My best advice to you is this. When I filed for divorce......even though it is what I wanted........I felt very lost and alone. I started chatting in forums like this and found this was a great way to fill the void that I felt from his presents being gone. Soon I thought about it less and less and now feel pretty good. There are great people here and if you give them a chance they will help you not feel so alone. I wish you the best. 
It helps to know people who have made it through. A little scary bearing one's soul on a public forum. Just glad people are mature enough here to handle it. Thanks Kirota. |
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Moving on...?
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Difference is divorce is a desired seperation Death is undesired. I didn't, and still don't desire this. Walk-away wife syndrome with hardly an explanation. It's more like death to me...without closure. Been there done that Hated it Mine was only 22 yrs though Yeah, it sucks. But they say, "What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger!" |
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Moving on...?
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Great stuff. I'm glad I stumbled upon this site. I can see there are some real genuine people out there who care. As for expectations, mine have already been exceeded. Thanks folks.
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Moving on...?
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She left going on two years now. The divorce was final last May. She turned into someone I just don't recognize anymore and has done some very disturbing things, things which I should not forgive her for. I don't know what happened to her and have waited for her to snap back. I guess I'm starting to realize, that's not going to happen and it's not fair to me to hang on anymore. It's time for me to move on, I know. It doesn't much matter whether I love her or not. Heck, I think I still love this girl I dated when I was 17! No one wants to be alone. I'm a great guy, if you don't mind me saying it, even if she lost site of that. Slow and easy. Time and patience.
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Moving on...?
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Difference is divorce is a desired seperation Death is undesired. I didn't, and still don't desire this. Walk-away wife syndrome with hardly an explanation. It's more like death to me. So I assume you still love her? I'm having a hard time answering that one! |
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Topic:
Moving on...?
Edited by
Perhaps
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Mon 01/07/08 07:40 AM
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Difference is divorce is a desired seperation Death is undesired. I didn't, and still don't desire this. Walk-away wife syndrome with hardly an explanation. It's more like death to me...without closure. |
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Topic:
Moving on...?
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Guys, a little different look to show things could be worse. No matter how bad the divorce, if she died you would feel a lot worse. Just my opinion, but been there, done both, #2 is a whole bunch worse. Message, things could always be worse. True. They say divorce is "almost" as bad as the death of a spouse. At least maybe there's closure? |
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Topic:
Moving on...?
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Buttons, Suzin, good stuff.
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Topic:
Moving on...?
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Trying to cheer you, I went thru the same thing 11 years with the same woman it get's better, just keep busy dont set around and think about. Chuckle, I know and I appreciate that. Trying to keep my head on. It would be easy to slip into an alcoholic coma for a few years but I know that wouldn't do anyone any good. I spent a long time slapping my own hand and turning my head to stay loyal to my relationship. Guess I gotta unteach myself. |
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Moving on...?
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Booze and strip clubs..Best manual I've read yet!! Bad place to end up, but funny. |
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Moving on...?
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Just start talking to folks, post in the forums, be decent, have fun & go slow. Lots of good folks here, very open & decent. Watch their comments & you will find people you want to associate with. Questions, just ask like you did. Good Luck & WELCOME Good place to start I suppose. |
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Moving on...?
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I'm sure this has been addressed a thousand times here. For the thousand and oneth time then, how do you do it? I got a feeling I'm going to be flying solo for a long long time. Anybody got a manual I could borrow? I built my life on my family and one gal for 27 years and I just can't see the other side.
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hmmm
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Good Morning All 
Good morning to you! Very nice profile. |
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Topic:
hmmm
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So, I saw two good movies over the weekend. Water Horse and The Last Mimsy. Both were real good.
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hmmm
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Wish I could go back to bed. I wish I had a Chi Tea. I shoulda road my bike today. Looks like we have two days of good weather and then back down to the 20's.
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Topic:
hmmm
Edited by
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So, what's everybody up to today? Me, I'm at work. Suzanne reminded me I hadn't gotten coffee yet, now I do, ahhhh. It's like 50 degrees out! Warm after our cold snap.
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Topic:
hmmm
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What time is it? 720am Hmm, 8:20am here. The posts are 3 hours behind. Life can be so confusing sometimes! |
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Topic:
hmmm
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What time is it?
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I see in your profile that you, "get annoyed by men who only look at the outside appearance and don't take the time to know the beauty within." So, it would seem that you are probably annoyed at this point? Everything else in your profile seems positive except for that statement. I would remove it. It may be helping to set you up for disappointment. Just an observation.
Just because someone is not attracted to you because they don't like the way you look, doesn't mean you are unattractive, does it? I like the attributes you described in your profile and I would only date someone like you. The fact that you like Harley's kinda turns me on too ;0). JK, I own a Honda. |
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