Be sure the person is worth your love before you hand it over to them on a silver platter. Protect your heart first and always. Love takess time to develop and keep your heart reigned in til you are sure its the real deal.
Some guys will say anything to get what they want and walk away with out a backward glance. Your in charge sister!!!!!

People choose to accept behaviours from others.

Placing responsibility for you in anothers hands, is to bind them, and obligate them.

That is called being in a victim stage.

You own you, you make your decisions.

When you have expectations of others, and they don't meet those expectations, one blames the other person as being at fault and causing harm.

We as humans need to stop pointing the finger at others, and taking responsibility for ourselves, there would be a whole lot less of the need for anti depressants, and therapy, and woe is me stuff going on, if we stopped trying to lay blame externally.

Sometimes in life, sh*t happens, and yes it can have adverse affects, however, get up, and get on with it, learn from it, and do the work on yourself... there is a whole lot less chance of attracting broken people, if you aren't broken yourself.

Well, if every guy you ever dated has hurt you, maybe it's because you have let them. Be more careful, don't give much of yourself, unless they earn it.

I'm not saying it's your fault if you get hurt, but maybe you can make some changes so that you don't get hurt.

Just don't cheapen yourself, only give what is earned.

Oh yeah, and don't make the next guy pay for what the last guy did, try to learn from the experiences.

Just one other thing I would like to get in here ! as many guys get hurt as females But we don't tend to go on about it so much....Not the male thing to do