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Fri 01/20/12 07:46 PM


"It's harder to be with a GOOD woman after she's been with a BAD man."

This got me thinking that it's pretty hard to be a man. Since Adam, they've always had to pay for someone else's mistakes.

"It's unfair being a man. When my wife is pregnant, everybody rubs her tummy and says 'Congratulations' but nobody rubs my balls and says, 'Good job'." .... Lol.

If you're a guy and have loved a woman who has been hurt before and stuck by her, good on you!!! People just don't appreciate good men these days.


I KNOW! I always end up rubbing my own balls to make them feel better.



rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Fri 01/20/12 03:45 PM
I hate starting over. The whole dating thing again. Just when I was getting use to my ex, who's a really cool guy, it's just that things didn't work out. We ended on good terms though. Now I find myself back in the game. Having to get to know someone new,seeing if we are compatible, and being disappointed if we're not, and falling back into the game again. Really sucks sometimes. ohwell Add your thoughts to the subject.

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Wed 01/18/12 12:04 AM
I have to be really upset to use cussing, and in bed I tend to have a potty mouth. blushing

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Wed 01/18/12 12:01 AM

Suppose you're walking down the street and you're approached by a man who politely asks you for a dollar so he can get something to eat. He doesn't look like a drunk (whatever that means to you). You can spare a dollar without any harm. Would you give him the money? Why or why not?


Because I've run into a few not so truthful panhandlers before, I now tell them that I'll go and buy them something if they're really hungry.

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Tue 01/17/12 11:57 PM

A work of art slow soft and warm almost becoming one together.



Wow! I'd like to receive one like that. :smile:

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Tue 01/17/12 01:24 PM

dinopoodle,

Absolutely. We have to love ourselves or at least know who we are (the good and bad) and own it. That (IMO) is more attractive and will shine through

My sister is disabled with a blood disease. She used to be on a morphine drip and now takes the pain meds they give a 3rd degree burn victim. She is pretty much bed ridden and only gets out of the house for the doctor and special occasions....like Christmas. She has gained a lot of weight because she can't do anything. Her muscles are weakened. She can't even go into the sun for more than 15 min without blistering. But she knows who she is (she's also been happily married for 20 yrs)

She was the one growing up that was on the heavy side (after mom's side of the family) and I was always skinny (after dad's side)

We always envied each other growing up. We have each battled eating disorders when we were younger, for different reasons. I had it the worst and almost died from it. I was 5'7 and under 100 lbs. But we realized the grass isn't greener on the other side and we are now happy with who we are.

HOWEVER....that being sad lol....questions like the topic is kind of a loaded question because people like who they like and sometimes gets trashed for their preferences.

I've been here for over 4 yrs and have seen threads like this all the time (this is actually tame compared to how they went when I first started)

Plain and simple...be happy with you. What you aren't happy with, work on fixing it (whether it's mental, physical, emotional, etc) but always know that there is someone out there that likes each of us. Let it confidence shine through and rock it out girl flowerforyou


I agree! :thumbsup:

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Tue 01/17/12 12:49 PM




Fat is ugly and unhealthy.

mad :angry: explode grumble devil rant pitchfork

1. As I said beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2. There are some overweight ppl more healthier than thin ppl.
3. Ugly can be ugly if not uglier when it comes from mean words within.

I'm not defending being over weight, there are other reasons for someone being over weight than they are just plain lazy and eat all the time. The above statement should be real encourging to any man or woman who is overweight.

@ the lady who posted this thread. You do what you feel is right for you to do in order to make yourself the best mate for the man you want. If you feel you need to lose weight for more self esteem, to be healthier (which is the best reason)and you feel it would better your chances of finding a mate then you do that. But note this it doesn't matter even beautiful thin women have had men mess around on them and leave them. I'm just saying be yourself, love yourself, take care of yourself, and don't give a rats azz about what others think about you! I might get called on the red carpet for this one. :smile:

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Tue 01/17/12 12:15 PM

I think it should not matter iether way.


But as it's said beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I'm not attracted to heavy men and I'm a big girl myself, but have had men who loved me and didn't have a problem with my size. I'm beginning to love myself just the way I am and if a guy isn't attracted to me then that's ok. No matter who we are or what size we are, color of our skin, eyes, or hair we can meet someone who will accept us and love us for who we are.

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Mon 01/16/12 09:42 AM


Humm it should not but........there are times it does all depends on what the disablitly is and if the other person can deal with it.....whoa

So honestly yes it does at times...


I agree.

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Mon 01/16/12 01:58 AM

Awww, why such bad luck hun? You're a gorgeous woman.. Although I've been having some pretty bad luck myself


Why, thank you sir. Nice outfit you're wearing there. Well, here's to better luck in 2012 for both of us. drinks

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Sun 01/15/12 05:04 PM
Is there a way to see who's online in your area only?

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Sun 01/15/12 04:56 PM
Edited by ybcat1 on Sun 01/15/12 04:57 PM

laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 01/14/12 10:23 PM
Edited by ybcat1 on Sat 01/14/12 10:24 PM
I feel you on a lot of what you said. I think I stay just for the forum. Every guy I've encountered on this site has just been a bust. Some kind of emotional hangup are something wrong with them. laugh

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Sat 01/14/12 08:59 AM
The name of the topic had me.....:laughing: :laughing:

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Sat 01/14/12 08:53 AM

O yeah,I was kidding bit little,but I think it is again one more generalization topic.

Anyway,I'll also generalize little bit as it is a general tendency of most women to keep waiting for men to take a lead in those matters, they usually want men to propose them & I guess that's the reason why the question that u asked arise.


OMG, slaphead

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Sat 01/14/12 02:10 AM

What can you do when you fall in love with your best friend, who you talk to every day and see all the time, when you know that she is not physically attracted to you. She still wants to spend time with you and talk about what is going on in her life, including other guys.

It is becoming increasingly harder to control how I feel and I don't want it to end our friendship.


Wow, I feel for you. I couldn't do it. Gosh, my heart just goes out for you.

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Sat 01/14/12 02:04 AM
That I shouldn't have taken a long nap after work, now I'm awake and most of the people online are across seas.

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Thu 01/12/12 07:45 PM
I'd hang out with him because he seems to be an open communicator. Someone who's easy to talk to.

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Thu 01/12/12 12:58 PM
View the person's profile above you, and tell us one or more reasons you might ask that person out for a date.

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Wed 01/11/12 09:15 PM

What does yours mean and why did you pick it?


The first 2 letters come from my first name, the cat is the last part of my nickname. It was just easy to remember.

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