I had a business as an image consultant, so I can tell you you need to do something about your appearance and grooming. The grunge look is not appealing to most women.

Long hair can look good if you know how to style and care for it. On this forum, one can only see a head shot so I cannot comment on clothes, so I am wondering how neatly dressed you are......

I read the instructions on how to block someone. It says to go the bottom of their first message and use the block feature.
I cannot access that person's first message and generally, there is no Block button. What to do?

Also,can I stop people from matching with me who are ridiculously far away and way too young? This is really wasting my time.

I had just posted a reply to your message. Now I want to add to it.

Your profile pretty much says you are just looking for sex and if someone is cheating, you are okay with that.

Not want I am looking for and I am in another country anyway.

I did not check your location. I am in your age range.

I would like to know how to stop being matched with people in other countries and way out of my age range. I do have my criteria saved, but nonetheless, I keep getting these notifications.

It is such a waste of time and frustrating.

The first picture is bad. It is too far away and you are not facing the front. The first thing anyone sees is that primary photo. It needs to be of you from the front and one will show your face clearly.

I have been working out for years. The best thing to do is a full body workout with some cardio. Do not do the same routine every day. You need general fitness. Muscle will develop after a while by adding more weight to those areas or focusing a bit more on them later.

If you have not worked out in a while this is the best approach.

These are the ones you may want to consider.

Body Fit by Amy
Fitness Blender
Body Project
Has Fit

There are many good ones. Pick some trainers you like.
And, I do agree with another poster. Form is THE most important thing in fitness.

I have sent questions to Cust Service and I get no response.

Perhaps someone here can answer my question. I keep getting these notices of new matches.These are not personal matches, just people who clicked on Yes.

How can you tell which ones are new without looking at all of them? Are at the beginning, or the end?

I'd appreciate some responses from women on this forum.

Men seems to be flattering me an awful lot and I am wondering if this is pretty typical for this type of site. I do have nice photos on line and I look younger than my age. I suppose I am wondering if it can be sincere.

It seems to me this type of thing doesn't happen as much when you are meeting in person.