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Sun 04/13/08 07:50 PM
how would you want it if the situation were reversed?

best is go to him with cold hard facts, not hear say...


tell him

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Sun 04/13/08 06:59 PM
ummm...i try to start out with "hi"

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Sun 04/13/08 02:32 PM
as another prior serviceman...keep your chin up, and be proud knowing that although some would look down upon a soldier, it is a definate that they would be too afraid to do what we did...in my book that makes you better than them, sir...


welcome home, now its time to enjoy life out of the suck and sandbox for a while...

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Sat 04/12/08 07:29 PM
Edited by welder_one on Sat 04/12/08 07:30 PM
become a rockstar so that i dont have to be just a weldor anymore...

chicks dig rockstars more than weldors anyway

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Sat 04/12/08 06:59 PM
i'm not sure that i could sum that up in a given time frame...

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Sat 04/12/08 06:38 PM
i left the jobsite and picked up my daughter...it is the absolute highlight of my life on earth to spend time with her. everyday...

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Sat 04/12/08 05:15 PM

Perserverance is my favorite word in dating talk. I think on the Internet... a whole bunch of people that otherwise might never chat do. Sometimes that is not a good thing.

And my theory went like this... for every twenty or thirty mails you might actually chat with one.

For every ten dates you have, one might go well. And not neccesarily result in a second date.

You do the math.


that is pretty neat and i am sure not far from truth. Perserverance is a great word, not just for dating.




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Sat 04/12/08 05:15 PM

Perserverance is my favorite word in dating talk. I think on the Internet... a whole bunch of people that otherwise might never chat do. Sometimes that is not a good thing.

And my theory went like this... for every twenty or thirty mails you might actually chat with one.

For every ten dates you have, one might go well. And not neccesarily result in a second date.

You do the math.


that is pretty neat and i am sure not far from truth. Perserverance is a great word, not just for dating.




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Sat 04/12/08 05:14 PM

Perserverance is my favorite word in dating talk. I think on the Internet... a whole bunch of people that otherwise might never chat do. Sometimes that is not a good thing.

And my theory went like this... for every twenty or thirty mails you might actually chat with one.

For every ten dates you have, one might go well. And not neccesarily result in a second date.

You do the math.


that is pretty neat and i am sure not far from truth. Perserverance is a great word, not just for dating.




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Sat 04/12/08 05:10 PM
Thanks miss hiker...maybe we will all find our "balance"

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Sat 04/12/08 05:03 PM

Well looking at the other thread you have going here gives me a goos idea why you might have problems. A quality man dosn't want a woman who will talk about intimate sex details in a public forum. You are simply gorgeous, try acting like you deserve a quality man & I am sure you will find one. flowerforyou



i could not say that any better. If you want a higher class person then you must become a higher class person yourself...there it is, in a basket, with a handle and a lid to keep it from spilling out...

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Sat 04/12/08 04:24 PM




HERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT MOST GIRLS WANT FROM GUYS BUT HARDLY GET.....



LEAVE ME CUTE TEXT MESSAGES.

KISS ME IN FR0NT 0F Y0UR FRIENDS.

TRUST ME 0VER EVERY0NE ELSE.

TELL ME I L00K BEAUTIFUL.

L00K ME IN THE EYE WHEN Y0U TALK T0 ME.

TELL ME STUPID J0KES T0 MAKE ME LAUGH.

LET ME MESS WITH Y0UR HAIR.

MESS WITH MY HAIR.

JUST WALK AR0UND WITH ME.

INCLUDE ME IN ALL THINGS Y0U D0.

WHEN I CRY D0 WHATEVER IT TAKES T0 MAKE ME SMILE

F0RGIVE ME F0R MY MISTAKES.

L00K AT ME LIKE I'M THE 0NLY GIRL Y0U SEE.

TICKLE ME EVEN WHEN I SAY ST0P.

H0LD MY HAND EVEN WHEN Y0U ARE AROUND Y0UR FRIENDS.

WHEN I START SWEARING AT Y0U TELL ME Y0U L0VE ME.

LET ME FALL ASLEEP IN Y0UR ARMS.

GET ME MAD, THEN KISS ME.

TEASE ME & LET ME TEASE Y0U BACK.

STAY UP WITH ME ALL NIGHT WHEN I'M SICK.

WATCH MY FAV0RITE M0VIE.

KISS MY F0REHEAD.

GIVE ME THE W0RLD.

WRITE ME LETTERS.

LET ME WEAR Y0UR CL0THES.

WHEN I'M SAD, HANG 0UT WITH ME.

LET ME KN0W I'M IMP0RTANT.

LET ME TAKE ALL THE PH0T0S 0F Y0U I WANT.

KISS ME IN THE RAIN.

CALL ME EVERY NIGHT.

AND WHEN Y0U FALL IN L0VE WITH ME, TELL ME.

AND WHEN Y0U D0 TELL ME, L0VE ME LIKE Y0U NEVER L0VED BEF0RE.........




i would absolutely love to find a girl that would let me do these things

i tried with my ex-wife, but she would mostly say" would you just shut it?" i gave up...


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Fri 04/11/08 10:01 PM
Well i say that its nice to have someone to lean on in a time of need, its also nice to have someone that needs to do the leaning...

as far as the "i can do it myself" person,

my grandpa used to say that a true gentleman will open the door for a lady

my grandma would say that a true lady will stand there and let him

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Fri 04/11/08 09:45 PM
Thanks hiker,

you are right, i did what i had to. And i have moved on. I have been told that a person that lives in the past doesnt see what happens today...

it took me a few years to "get over" but i can still remember.

anyways, on to something a little different. A person's past is what makes them who they are, and i believe that to hold something back from someone that you could come into a commiting relationship with is bad news from the start. If you dont want to tell them all, then its probably not meant to be anyways

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Fri 04/11/08 09:13 PM


back onto the topic a little. i have learned from my past and some in the present that some secrets are best left unsaid. i was married for 5 years and let out a secret and the key word being "was" married...lol there is more to it than that, but she didnt want to deal with it well...i was a sniper in the army. i reclassed in the last 2 years that i was in, and chose to become a weldor. (not much room for a sniper in the civillian world) she thought that i was a weldor the whole time that i was in.

now my secret is out.


a disclosure like that hurt your marriage?

That is very sad.


that was only one thing...i am a workaholic too. And there is some more, but yes, a disclosure like that put her off badly...i had to do alot of things that i am not very proud of...

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Thu 04/10/08 08:11 PM

Guys celebate? NO SUCH THING! drinker


not true sir, maybe with most. I have been since december and its been by choice. I do not need drama in my life right now, i have enough. Especially with the price of fuel and steel right now...

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Thu 04/10/08 07:44 PM
To me, this is a good question. Just not worded well.

i do not look for " that perfect quality" in a single word. We all have strengths and weaknesses in character. What i am looking for is a balance in that.

basically saying that i am looking for a girl who is everything that i am not. Someone that is strong where i am weak, yet allow me to be strong where they are weak...a balance.

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Fri 04/04/08 09:19 PM
back onto the topic a little. i have learned from my past and some in the present that some secrets are best left unsaid. i was married for 5 years and let out a secret and the key word being "was" married...lol there is more to it than that, but she didnt want to deal with it well...i was a sniper in the army. i reclassed in the last 2 years that i was in, and chose to become a weldor. (not much room for a sniper in the civillian world) she thought that i was a weldor the whole time that i was in.

now my secret is out.

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Tue 03/25/08 04:32 PM
dont laugh mister, your daughter might be in here

weldors get better penetration (this one is on my truck)

good, fast, cheap...pick two

6010...its a hot rod (this one is also on my rig truck)

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Fri 03/21/08 12:14 PM
my marriage ended, because i was working about 90 to hundred hours a week...i wasnt home, but she didnt have to work. i am a little old fashioned like that. my wife will never have to work if she doesnt want to, i will gladly take that burden on my shoulders.

i wasnt around very much and that is most of what killed my marriage, but i dont think that i would do very much differently now. back then, i was having to schedule and do all the work myself. now my fab shop is flourishing and i dont have to spend near as much time working...patience is still a virtue.

her loss...