Know what, you're probably the 109293th guy to start a topic like this 'where are all the good women gone' - and the same answers get tossed around each time.

There are GREAT men and women everywhere, but it's going to take more than a handful of posts on a new board to find the one that's right for you. Ranting and raving about how you were 'done wrong' is never really a drawing card for the opposite sex.

You're frustrated and hurt, we've all been there and it sucks - no one is denying that. Just keep in mind that every faithful, loving, caring female who reads your posts is looking for a man who is in a positive, open and receptive frame of mind, or he won't be able to see her over his bitterness.

Good luck and try to be patient - with yourself and the women you'll come across.

Woo Hoo! Very nice! Glad it turned out great!

Maybe.

i do have the confidence to talk to girls.. the problem is that when i go up to them they think im the same as every other guy, a "player". which im not.