Seems to me traditional has more of a success rate then modern and numbers speak loudly. what happened to the wife at home who would greet her husband at the door coming home from work,kiss him and have dinner ready at the table? Rarely happens now.

I think so. i love to be adventurous, and get the adrenaline pumping.

consider yourself blessed

just watch out for stranger danger

Here is the funny thing. A lot of younger guys want to be with a woman who is older. Could be the whole cougar/milf fantasy. Or it could be that they want a mature woman cause she will (more than likely) get his azz into shape (mentally, financially, etc.)

Flip this to older men. Some older guys love the younger women for those tight bodies, or the immature level (As some have stated in this thread). Or, it could be just for some fun sex.

Now....here is my question. Why do younger women like older men? Is it the security factor? Such as the older man has a solid career and the young girl is like a "trophy wife" type. Or he makes good money and she knows she will be taken care of. She isn't necessarily the trophy wife but she is good to him?

I have dated men always at 5-10 years older than me, just so we can have decent conversations. However when I was younger I kept it in my age range until after I was 21. There is just something sick about a man who is over 25 who finds interest in a girl who is barely legal. It's borderline just SICK, you should be very careful ant who you choose.

Let me tell you something folks. I've been talking to Karolin for several days now. Messaging back and forth here on site. I'll be honest and say that I don't know how she would be in person, Talking here,she doesn't sound 18. She is way older in her mind. Her way of thinking is of someone much older than 18. To talk to her she sounds 30 to maybe 35 yrs old. It wouldn't do for her to be about 400 miles closer to me. I do believe I would have to meet her if it was OK with her.

This is why I don't believe in age,in the number sense should be a factor in whether we should date someone or not. Me, The youngest I've dated was 25. This one showed me something. I had a very good time with her because in her mind she wasn't 25. At the time I was 44 and she was just as mature as any 35 to 40 yr old woman I had dated. I could actually talk to her. Mind to mind.

To me it's where you are in life that counts. Also, I do believe how a man or woman is raised by their parents has a lot to do with it. I have a 15 yr old son. He doesn't act like most 15 yr olds. He acts a lot older. You would think he's 18 to 20. I think it's because of how I raised him. I raised him from a young age knowing how to use his head and be responsible for his actions. I do believe that's what's wrong with a lot of the young now. Mom & dad didn't take enough of an active part in their lives.

It hasn't been that long ago when it was totally acceptable for a man of 45 to date and marry a young woman of 20 to 25. It was very common in the 60's and 70's. If you stop and think about it, It hasn't been that long ago. I do believe one of the reasons it's not as acceptable now as it was, Is because the age of maturity has dropped so much in the past 20 maybe 30 yrs. I can tell that most 18 to 20 yr olds now aren't as mature as the same ages just 10 yrs ago. And certainly not as mature as kids my age in the late 70's.

One last thing, Another reason, Most young girls now are not taught to be home makers anymore. I think the late 60's and 70's were last of that. Now they are taught to go out and make it on their own. To he11 with a man. At one time they were taught that they needed a man. So that made it more acceptable for a young girl to marry an older man. Now, Men and women really don't need each other. Not like they use to.

I hear you :)

Trying is always good! ;)

Patience Grasshopper ;)

Don't believe the hype! ;)
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