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Mon 01/07/08 05:19 AM


yep!bigsmile



Hey you!!!!!!! flowerforyou :heart: Or should I say, Mrs You.:wink:

:heart: flowerforyou Well that threw me for a loop! Haven't been called Mrs in so many years!!!laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou

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Mon 01/07/08 04:50 AM
yep!bigsmile

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Mon 01/07/08 04:47 AM
flowerforyou beautiful...your words and her

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Sat 01/05/08 08:18 AM
Whooa! Denise! Love it...as usual your words evoking more emotion...flowerforyou Love you my friend:wink:

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Sat 01/05/08 08:15 AM
Very nice Kevin...thanks for sharing your wordsflowerforyou

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Sat 01/05/08 06:33 AM
bigsmile flowerforyou

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Fri 01/04/08 07:34 PM
I know Lori (Lulu) who I met at another site...and have to say that I have met very few that can be as nuetral as she...calm...cool...and collected....even when a Starman was threatening to come through her computer screenlaugh Obviously her mention of a knife disuaded all thatbigsmile laugh laugh laugh She's awesome..and her children are beautifulflowerforyou

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Wed 01/02/08 09:31 AM
Congrats! I met my husband hereflowerforyou It can workdrinker

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Wed 01/02/08 08:43 AM
Goodness sakes...you shouldn't be embarassed by bein single...I was for many years. I have read all of these posts and everyone has their own definitions for Love...I guess that's because our own truths are different...Isn't that awesome!
For me..unconditional Love...goes to my children...have thought about that word for many years...In a perfect world I suppose...But when I think of loving a partner...there are conditions or it simply wouldn't work for me..If my partner wanted to go out sleepin with everything that walked..guess I wouldn't like it much and would not allow that in my life...so there's a condition...We all have our boundaries that we live by ...conditions...
Love has changed in my eyes... as the years have come and gone..For me Love is alot of work...no not painful...but work...and it's choice..No matter who you are with there will be issues...so you either choose to deal with them, or you don't. I guess it's just finding out what you can and want to deal with. I would love to sit here and say that the heavens parted when I met my husband...but that would be a lie. Yes there was the wonderful physical attraction and "lust" thing (which is icing on the cake). but then all the other things came into play...and that's where knowing your own heart is very important...What you want. I don't believe in putting someone first..makes a spirit unhappy..But being able to walk side by side, having the ability to agree to disagree...
There's alot of pain that goes along with any relationship breaking up. But if we make the choice to view the tribulation as a learning experience opposed to a failure..then we are much ahead of the game...A new beginning...instead of an ending...
Your a beautiful young woman...it'll happen for ya...Wishing you an awesome New Yearflowerforyou

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Mon 12/31/07 08:13 AM

:heart: WOW,,,,and WOW, and WOW,,,,This is GREAT NEWS.
YOU and ZAP, so cool and MAY you BOTH fall deeper in LOVE and GROW to be GREAT, GREAT GRANDPARENTS TOGETHER. lol
I Hope your new year will be BLESSED and LIVE, Laugh, and LOVE!
:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: flowerforyou :heart:
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :heart: :smile:
And watch out for dinner entries,lolbigsmile

Thanks Terry! New to all this Grandparent stuff.but is really kinda fun! Nice to be able to hand em back over for that diaper changing thing!laugh Life is really geat....And have to say to all the naysayers about online dating...distance makes no difference when yur heart is close:heart:
Wish you all the best for this year Terry...be safe out there driver...Now back to painting the livingroom!!!drinker

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Mon 12/31/07 08:08 AM
"a busy year. sounds like its going to be tugh to bet. congrat "

drinker Thanks Dozzer! Hope you have an outstanding New Year!

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Mon 12/31/07 07:59 AM
Hmmmm...Well gotta drive my first Peterbilt...Went to China..Met someone here while I was in China...(was slipped pig bowels at a birthday party in china...wasn't an episode of Fear Factorsad ) Flew 7534 miles to Minnesota...And REALLY met someone from here...Sooo Really...we got married Dec 21st....gained 3 more awesome kids...and a grandson...Found out my oldest is having his first baby and have another in the oven from my husbands daughter....Been a ueventful yearfrown bigsmile laugh laugh Can't wait to see what this coming year holds!drinker

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Mon 12/31/07 06:08 AM
Thanks for reminding me....but you said nothing about the the stupid carpet!grumble bigsmile Okey Dokey (said in my best Minnesotan accent) Back to it...Have an awesome day!!!drinker drinker

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Mon 12/31/07 06:03 AM
(((Tiger))) Thank you! I need coffee...painting our livigroom this morning...ok...taking a break!bigsmile laugh laugh Give Rae a big hug when you get home!drinker

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Mon 12/31/07 05:59 AM

Good Morning everyone...Hope your Christmas was magical and wishing you all an awesome New Year filled with Love and everything your heart desires...And a Big Thank you to Tiger and Fallen for keeping this coffee house alive and well!drinker drinker drinker

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Fri 12/28/07 04:43 PM
Aquariusdrinker

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Fri 12/28/07 04:02 PM
7,543 milesbigsmile (airplane) was worth the tripdrinker

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Fri 12/28/07 03:32 PM
Hi!bigsmile

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Fri 12/28/07 09:19 AM
Thank you Capt!flowerforyou Yes we all can find a way...We certainly did...You two are definately an inspiration:wink: flowerforyou

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Fri 12/28/07 05:04 AM

Unbelievable some of the comments here!

There IS A WORLD outside the US....and the US is not the centre of it.


A sad day for all, especially for the women of Pakistan.:cry: flowerforyou

A woman who will be remembered for a long time.flowerforyou



Yes Jess it is a very sad day for all...I have been watching her for years and the wonderful things that she worked at accomplishing for her country and for the women...Her works did not go unnoticed around the world...a guiding light to many...not just in her country....flowerforyou
As far as the comments...:cry: