Candidly, till the moment you are talking to her you wont be able to see things through. Take a break from her for some time. Lets say three - four weeks at first. She is calling you just because the change is difficult to handle. Rarely, it would be because she wants to make it work again. The biggest mistake would be to help her deal with the breakup. If nothing could be worked out, then be strong and move ahead without thinking twice. Cruel it may sound, but in the longer run this is the best you would do to her.

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