question..my ex told me that she wants to moved on and wanted no communication at all, next fellowing week. told me she thnk me for everything i've done for her. told her thnk you, but told her as well that im going to be very busy with school, art,etc. don't call me til end of dec. i want to better myself inorder to settle down for the future. be able to provide money for my future wife,kids,and myself..the biggest question is that "y is she keeps calling me"? after she told me that she moved on. i don;'t understand, can someone tell me y?

Candidly, till the moment you are talking to her you wont be able to see things through. Take a break from her for some time. Lets say three - four weeks at first. She is calling you just because the change is difficult to handle. Rarely, it would be because she wants to make it work again. The biggest mistake would be to help her deal with the breakup. If nothing could be worked out, then be strong and move ahead without thinking twice. Cruel it may sound, but in the longer run this is the best you would do to her.

Normally when some women say they are moving on it's to explore a new relationship. It's seems to me she views you as her safe fall back guy. She wants to move on but she is not ready to let you go yet. Out there somewhere is your true soulmate searching for you. Don't give up hope.

Apparently she does not want it to be over. Apparently, neither do you. Probably not getting the whole story here though.

Only she can tell you why she keeps calling.

so u telling me that she afraid to moved on. i mean i did treated her respect and being faithful, but due to her stress and depression i couldn't deal with that anymore. i think she couldnt handle a good man. she told me her past relationship, it was very bad and sad. if she said she moved on then y the hell did she say that (maybe she was angry at something). she cared alot about me, then y the hell u leave me behind first of all, i don't get this!!!

so u telling me that she afraid to moved on. i mean i did treated her respect and being faithful, but due to her stress and depression i couldn't deal with that anymore. i think she couldnt handle a good man. she told me her past relationship, it was very bad and sad. if she said she moved on then y the hell did she say that (maybe she was angry at something). she cared alot about me, then y the hell u leave me behind first of all, i don't get this!!!


It appears that she may not know what she wants. You can either wait until she decides or cut all ties and move on. Either way you do not own this.

it appears that i do agree with u. i think she confuse and don't know wht she wants.

i have a ex bf that i have known sense i was 16yrs olf..(30yrs)
and we still talk every now and then... as friends
we have never ask each other if we could work things out and make it again

were better off as friends...


but then i have another old bf
as where we got backtogether 2 differnt times
the first time we were together for a little over 3yrs
the 2nd time was less than a yr
and now hes wanting to get back together again

NOT A CHANCE.... my family cant stand him...
and besides that his macho attitude turns me off

what did i see in him.. well i didnt see his macho side untill after we got together and i thought well maybe that would change....NOPE