I did!
I told him.
We broke up because he moved to Puerto Rico

How about those guys that move their tongues in a circular motion- NEVER CHANGING THE PATTERN!
It's like a bad wrestling match to see who gets on top!
Can you imagine?!?!?
I had a guy kiss me and do just that!
We must have looked like two frozen mummies that could only move our tongues.
SO SAD- He was a keeper
That ruined it for me!

Oh SH! T!!!!

I like "Thick" guys.
Someone that makes me feel little in their arms...well protected. I like Thick, SOLID guys.

Shook my "thang" sir but unfortunately my back went out
Help, I have fallen and I can't get up...(bring a few of your friends cause you can't do it alone)

Chubscout reporting for duty

My best friend is a man.
I don't EVER do anything involving him that doesn't involve his wife.
He is my best friend but I love her too. I have a lot of respect for the marriage. I have stepped in and saved it twice already.

He allows her to treat him this way.
Most people have boundries and he hasn't established those with his EX.

I talked to him but I didn't give him a chance to change my mind.
Things have to change with his EX and within himself before he can change my mind.

Yup.

DRAMA!

Similar situations EXCEPT she is an EX.
She shouldn't have ANY say what women he involves himself with- friendship or not.
He told me he had several female friends before the marriage but because she was insecure, she had him sever all ties with his female friends.

^^^
If he is allowing that female to run him into the ground like that...I can't help him.
He needs to learn to stand up for himself and those he cares about

I didn't say that.

Yes, I would have liked for him to stick around.
Yes, I would have liked "more" from him...eventually.

No, I refuse to place myself in a situation where things start off hostile with an EX. If later down the road, I did something to offend her or upset her, then an apology is due.
I can't see myself getting involved with him anymore if she still runs his life.

SHE isn't worth the hassle

I wouldn't treat people the way she does.
There isn't a shot in hell I would ever be another "her".
I agree ignoring her and laughing at her are good ways to piss her off but I don't want to start out things that way. That requires WAY too much effort from me (for the wrong person)... all those games just so she leaves "us" alone...?!?
I don't think so.

By the way, we were just really good friends. We looked forward to each others conversation daily. It was nice having someone around that actually cared how my day went.
I am sure if more time were allowed we would have eventually developed feelings...He is just "that" kind of guy

Thank you ma'am

Thanks.
Not worried about it...
Just here for the conversation.
...The "butterflies in the stomach" when you might have met someone that could be more is just a bonus.

THIS IS THE EXACT SITUATION HE IS FALLING INTO

...sad thing is, I gave him the link to this chat because I wanted him to see what others thought about the ex and he thinks it's a direct attack on him. He feels as though I am making him out to be a liar.

Bottom line is, I stated in my profile:
"I am only here for friendship but if more emotion happens to evolve, I wouldn't be a fool and push it away..."

He seems like the type that is considered a "good catch". He makes an Excellent friend.
...UNFORTUNATELY, he comes with a little bonus, his ex wife.
She shouldn't be in the picture any longer because she has been "X'ed" BUT he has a little boy with her.
Unfortunately for him, that woman will ALWAYS have an attachment to him. She clearly doesn't want him to be happy...and to be honest, I WON'T willingly walk myself into a situation like that. She is more than a red flag- she a burning heat lamp that consumes him.

I would LOVE for HER to play in traffic.

I wouldn't hurt you Goof

<<<<<<<<<<< For some unknown reason I would love to inflict this kind of pain on that kind of woman

...M. I. C. K. E. Y mouse...!

...That and I rip my teddy bears apart