for the most part my ex is a good dad.weve been apart almost a year(left last october) very loving to our son and sees him whenever he can( every other weekend..etc court ordered) hes also helped me out and taken our son when i came down with mono. our son is 18months. the only bad thing i have 2 say bout my ex- is hes not resposible. he refusses to keep our sons nap schedule while he is visiting. which is hard right now cuz he spends 2wks with him in june, july and august. it also throws off his whole routine. ive tried talkin to him but he rufuses to listen. we cant agree on anything when it comes to raising our son. he always just says" you raise him your way and ill raise him my way". ive actually had to have his MOTHER talk to him for me bcuz he wnt listen.
the only reason im really pushing our sons routine is because in november my ex will b having a new baby with his fiance, and i really feel that right now our son needs as much stability as we can provide before the new infant arrives.
sorry this is so long.