Community > Posts By > IconicMemory
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Psychology of a profile
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"I'm a fun person who loves to have fun" (the entirety of a profile I saw) tells me that the person is redundant. And likes to have fun. Whatever they mean by "fun." When the only thing in the profile is "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask," I know I don't really want to know all that badly. "You know you want me" tells me I don't. "No game players" tells me she is using the same "How to Write Dating Site Profiles" book as 249,473 other people on this site. ![]() I find more humor in the responses then the actual topic. |
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Psychology of a profile
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Here is a deeper look into a profile. Share some things that really set apart from other profiles. For me, I can usually tell if a person is narcissistic (conceited) when they brag about how exceptionally hot they are or what they have or actually list out where they have been. Also, for me I can usually tell their confidence level by the number of pictures they have. While this isn't true for all. What are your views on some of the profiles you have seen. So you can tell that someone is narcissistic when they act in a narcissistic manner and brag about themselves....novel. can you tell I'm a smart ass lol. ![]() LOL ![]() It was a woman who thought she was man's gift basically, to which point she gets everything she wants and if she didn't you weren't good enough. So yeah narcissistic really came to my mind upon that particular profile. |
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Psychology of a profile
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Here is a deeper look into a profile. Share some things that really set apart from other profiles.
For me, I can usually tell if a person is narcissistic (conceited) when they brag about how exceptionally hot they are or what they have or actually list out where they have been. Also, for me I can usually tell their confidence level by the number of pictures they have. While this isn't true for all. What are your views on some of the profiles you have seen. |
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I Miss...
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Face it we all miss the love feeling otherwise we wouldn't be here.
I certainly miss those hugs when your not feeling your best. To have someone there to let you know it will all work out. Not to mention having a close person that is not only someone you really care about and love but a sincere friend too. |
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I would go on a castle spending spree. Buy all the cool and creepy castles around the world. Spend hours exploring each history of the castle and the secret passage ways...
Might as well buy myself a helicopter and private jet too. |
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I Miss...
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I miss the cuddling and the quiet mornings where your truest love to be is drooling on your pillow.
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Merry Christmas everyone
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Bah Humbug... there I said it. LOL
![]() Happy holidays to all. |
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Mixed Relationship
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My belief on the whole interracial dating, is do what makes you happy. Granted there will always be someone who may dislike, but the point of the fact is that as long as you are happy and they are treating you with respect and dignity.
A person is person through and through no skin color or nationality is going to be any different. I would like to find a woman of color myself. But where I live the dating scene is particularly empty. |
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Minnesota
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Not in MN, but about 5 minutes from there. Used to live in the Cities after I graduated from HS.
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Why i am single?
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I am single b/c it seems impossible to find a man who treats a woman with respect and isn't either looking for someone to support them or they just think they are too good. Contrary to your belief. There are some good men out there. That do indeed respect women and are not looking for a woman to support them. But I have found that most people are looking for someone who must have blue eyes or have long hair or just simple things that can be overlooked and in the end you could really have the person you truly wish to be with. If only one wasn't so picky about small details. |
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But personally for me. I would much rather be in love with someone to make love to then to have just sex. Call me old fashion. But thats just my belief. And a good belief that is...... You know a few more posts and you'll catch to the current year... Yeah I just had to point out that completely pointless thing. BINGO already 'caught' that....lol was going to de-activate at my birth year after returning from my banning, but thought noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo I would rather piss off the northern hemisphere before I call it a day LOL Damn it.. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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But personally for me. I would much rather be in love with someone to make love to then to have just sex. Call me old fashion. But thats just my belief. And a good belief that is...... You know a few more posts and you'll catch to the current year... Yeah I just had to point out that completely pointless thing. |
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Not all guys want the sex thing. Sure I admit I enjoy sex. I mean who in the right mind doesn't?
But personally for me. I would much rather be in love with someone to make love to then to have just sex. Call me old fashion. But thats just my belief. |
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Blondes
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Did you hear about the two blonde's that walk into a building? Think one of them would have seen it. ![]() Hmm well, we all do that even on our best days... Least I know I have. |
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Blondes
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Did you hear about the two blonde's that walk into a building?
Think one of them would have seen it. |
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ABOUT GUYS
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I too had to check out Babycakes profile..I though maybe she was Russian or something (hence the punctuating mess)...get a load of the car!! Yeah I saw that too. I think that's more of a wish list then a fact. Heck if I really wanted to I could put a pic like that up myself. But its not who I am. I feel the truth is much more interesting then a made up lie. But that is just my belief. |
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Depression support
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Depression is dwelling on somthing that hurts. Growth needs to take place, without moving on it will consume the life you have There are different types of depression that people have. While some depression is dwelling on something that hurts. Most people that have depression as disease like bi polar is something that is working differently chemically in the brain. I guarantee that everyone in here wishes to be like those who surround us the ones that aren't depressed or have this mental illness disease. But alas the world isn't always what people wish it to be. A person has to take the time to understand that we are all different and that we all come from different parts of the world and different upbringing. It is as a whole that one should accept another person and to help that person, but also understanding the person and the disease they have without simply making an outstanding observation without knowing all the facts. Try to keep that in mind the next time you mean to do the right thing. Or it may be perceived in a different manner then which was intended. |
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ABOUT GUYS
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I found it quite comical reading all that at this hour. I checked out her profile now. It appears you have to be super hot and super hot.. In order for you to date her. Also you have to be in a very specific age range.
I guess since I have more of sardonic sense of humor I found the postings of her quite comical. |
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What Guys and Girls Say
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Girls say - " I sure wish I could find someone like you " (Meaning anyone but you)
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I see a lot of responses saying that it won't work or LDR don't work. They will if you truly want them to work. If you both have the same wants and needs.
LDR didn't work for me. But doesn't mean they will not work for you. I myself like having the person I am dating to live close by me so that I am able to see them with having to hop on a plane or a car. And having to fly/drive for several hours. Its all about the commitment you put into and the other person puts into if they are as equally committed, chances are it will work. Good luck |
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